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Dryad
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
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I would probably feel slightly uncomfortable just because I prefer a man to be experienced, which is why I've only dated older men. But I wouldn't laugh and try to humiliate him, I would try my best to make it a memorable and pleasurable experience for the both of us.
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This is a pretty touchy subject, some people might see this as being a form of nonconsensual sex because the person isn't conscious. But I find this sexy under certain circumstances, I wouldn't want to be penetrated while I slept but I wouldn't mind being woken up to light teasing.
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From my experience in cybering it seems there are three kinds of people; the one's who have no imagination and the sexiest thing they can come up with is, 'I want 2 screw u ruff and cum all over those titties'. Or you finally catch a break and find someone who actually knows what they're doing and everything is going great! But soon you find yourself constantly being one-upped or overwritten, and instead of being it being a sexy chat, the conversation turns into a competition of, 'Anything you can write, I can write better'.
And my personal favorite, the 'oh wow'. Someone starts to flirt with you, things are getting sexy so you send them a delightfully naughty description of what you would like to do to their body, and I'm talking paragraphs. And all they send is 'oh wow' or 'mmm'. Is 'mmm' supposed to get me off?!
But I almost forgot the people who are the internet equivalent of flashers. You know, the person who doesn't even say hello first, they just send you a picture of their cock or pussy and expect you to fall into a blubbering heap and thank them for the beautiful gift of random genitalia they have bestowed upon you
And my personal favorite, the 'oh wow'. Someone starts to flirt with you, things are getting sexy so you send them a delightfully naughty description of what you would like to do to their body, and I'm talking paragraphs. And all they send is 'oh wow' or 'mmm'. Is 'mmm' supposed to get me off?!
But I almost forgot the people who are the internet equivalent of flashers. You know, the person who doesn't even say hello first, they just send you a picture of their cock or pussy and expect you to fall into a blubbering heap and thank them for the beautiful gift of random genitalia they have bestowed upon you
I knew this formula would be brought up sooner or later, I'm 25
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I was watching Sex and the City, the episode where Miranda dates an exhibitionist who could only have sex in situations in which he can be caught. His fetish reminded me of a man I'd dated who had a number of fetishes, but the strangest to me was his obsession with hands. He would beg me to let him massage my hands, and would suck my fingers for long periods of time while masturbating. I still don't see the appeal of a hand, and to this day every time I apply hand moisturizer I can't help but giggle.
So my question is, what is the strangest fetish you've come across with your lovers? Or maybe you have your own fetish you would like to share.
But can we please spare each other any defecation fetishes.
So my question is, what is the strangest fetish you've come across with your lovers? Or maybe you have your own fetish you would like to share.
But can we please spare each other any defecation fetishes.
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A friend and I were recently having a drunken conversation about sex and she jokingly said I was a slut after I told her how many sexual partners I've had. It didn't bother me, but it did make me question what actions would qualify someone as being a slut. To date, I've slept with 26 men and women. But I've been sexually active for a little over 8 years, which is on average 3-4 partners a year. I enjoy sex, whether it be with men or women, and I suppose I've had a lot of it in my life. And if that makes me a slut, whore, whatever, so be it. But my question is, in your own opinion what makes a man or woman a 'slut'.
Not trying to cast judgment on others, just curious.
Not trying to cast judgment on others, just curious.
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What regrets, if any, would you have? What would you want to spend your last moments doing, and who would you like to share them with?
I'd regret not having been able to find someone to fall in love with (cheesy but true), and would spend my last moments watching Cinderella with my dog while eating carne asada fries from Roberto's.
I'd regret not having been able to find someone to fall in love with (cheesy but true), and would spend my last moments watching Cinderella with my dog while eating carne asada fries from Roberto's.
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Memories of my Grandmother are filled with treats, her signature red lipstick, and something she'd whisper to me every time she would hug me goodbye, "She believed she could so she did." Those words have gotten me through many days I thought would be the end of me, and something I think every woman needs to hear. Do you have a saying or memory that helps you get through tough times?
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When I posted this question I knew I wouldn't be disappointed by the level of ignorance that is being shown by some people. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I respect that, but equality is a right that everyone is entitled too no matter gender, race, religion, or sexual orientation. That is what true feminism is all about.
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I don't deny that there are different forms of feminism. No movement is restricted to just one facet. I'm not sure why feminism should be any different.
I've already explained the form of feminism that I subscribe to.
I find nothing contradictory in the statement that 'We women would like to be given those things regardless of being women' because women indeed should be afforded the same opportunities as men so long as they qualify for those opportunities in the same capacity as men.
You keep veering off to the more extreme sector(s) of feminism as if it's the only form that exists while disregarding the rational and fair side of it. Every movement has its extremists that can cause damage to said movement and society as a whole, but it doesn't make said movement inherently bad or unnecessary.
No one's stopping you from articulating your position, as you've had ample opportunity to do so and you still have ample opportunity to do so.
It's just that every counterpoint you've had in terms of feminism has been in regard to an extreme form of it, and it's always been along the lines of 'What about those women that hate men and wanna be superior?!' Well, what about them? Sure they suck and make it hard for some of us, but it doesn't mean that feminism should be generalized away simply because the mean ones who wanna turn men into boot-lickers are ruining all the happy fun times that go along with gaining equality. I understand that only referring to this form of feminists makes it easier to denounce feminism as a whole. But arguing the very extreme side instead of taking a more holistic viewpoint is only doing yourself a disservice.
How can feminist extremists be used as an argument against me or anyone else you've exchanged words with in this thread when everyone who has disagreed with you thus far (men included) has expressed that they're in support of feminists who subscribe to the 'fair and equal for all' school of thought when it comes to feminism?
Do you think that currently, women are treated fairly and equally to their male counterparts? And by counterparts, I mean equal in every capacity (except gender, obviously). If you do, you're sorely mistaken. Because we're not, and that's why feminism needs to exist.
All I can say to that is amen!
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You make it sound like all men are robots. Yes men fall in love and yes men get their hearts broken... Not all of us think with our dicks so please don't tarnish us all with the same brush.
That's kind of why I said 'I'm not saying that's always true... But I have yet to meet a man who wanted anything more...' meaning this isn't the case for every man in the world, this is just my opinion from my personal experiences. Nowhere did I say 'This is the case for every man in the world, they are all emotionless robots with dicks for brains'.
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It seems that being a feminist is becoming wildly popular and greater accepted, which is a beautiful thing, yet women are still being treated like lesser beings. And many passionate feminists are now being called 'feminazis'. Why do you think this is? And do you consider yourself to be a feminist?
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When I was young, my Father told me to stay away from boys because they only wanted to get in my pants. I always thought he was just trying to protect me and that wasn't case, but from my own experiences and from what I hear in society, it seems that all men really want is sex. I'm not saying that's always true, nor is every man in the world heartless, but I have yet to meet a man who wanted anything more than a quick fling. So I ask, have you ever decided to take the plunge and invest yourself emotionally into a relationship, only to have your heart broken? And you have you ever been in love?
It seems many people are misinterpreting this, I'm not saying men are fuckdroids. Much of society says that women can sometimes be more emotionally invested in a relationship, therefore leading to a greater percentage of female heartbreaks than men. There are many people in the world who have never fallen in love. I for one, have been in multiple relationships and have only been heartbroken once. And I have many male friends who have never even told a woman they loved them, let alone even felt that way. And I have friends who fall in love with every partner they have. I'm asking for your own personal experience, not a generalization of every man on Earth because neither of us can speak for every man so let's not try.
It seems many people are misinterpreting this, I'm not saying men are fuckdroids. Much of society says that women can sometimes be more emotionally invested in a relationship, therefore leading to a greater percentage of female heartbreaks than men. There are many people in the world who have never fallen in love. I for one, have been in multiple relationships and have only been heartbroken once. And I have many male friends who have never even told a woman they loved them, let alone even felt that way. And I have friends who fall in love with every partner they have. I'm asking for your own personal experience, not a generalization of every man on Earth because neither of us can speak for every man so let's not try.
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Not to say some women, including yours truly, don't enjoy a good thump to the cheek with a man's member every now and again, I just want to know why you like doing it?
Do you feel a sense of power or something? Because I've tit slapped a man before and all I felt was awkward. What's up!
Do you feel a sense of power or something? Because I've tit slapped a man before and all I felt was awkward. What's up!