For me as an author it is neither about the sex or the story it is about either the concept or the characterisation. Usually if I decide to write it is the concept that comes first. A micro series, a dialogue only series, a series about lock down and it's emotional and psychological impacts, a tongue in cheek series poking fun at all the erotica tropes, or a self-absorbed agony aunt series to name but a few. Usually I will want the reader to discover the character of the narrator as they journey through the story, sometimes this will be explicit and sometimes less so. Inevitably there will be some sexual content and occasionally this won't be awfully written but, to be honest, that's just the cherry I offer up in the hope that you might read the rest of my piffle xxx