It all started just over a year ago. My wife and I had been married for over two decades and like many couples, our sex life began slowing down with time, slowing down a lot that is. Finally, after span of many dry months, we went on a short vacation where we finally re-kindled our intimacy and then talked about it for days afterward. As part of our talk, we for the first time ever, openly discussed some of our most covet...