If I am not watching any porn or reading an erotic novel or something as I am MASTURBATING, then chances are my thoughts are with whoever I am dating, or maybe a past lover (I have a small but excellent selection to choose from).
I have a larger selection of secret, undisclosed loves who - unbeknownst to them - are also masturbatory material in my imagination. In particular, there is one close friend, a cute, blonde former co-worker who would likely be horrified if she knew I had such lurid thoughts about her. She is, after all, about 17 years my junior! If I let my thoughts drift to her very pretty visage and perky breasts, a powerful orgasm is usually the consequence...
A lot of the time I will also think about whatever celebrity has caught my eye in recent times. It's a bit of a grey area. That is a span that covers everyone from Linda Gray circa 1985 to Sasha Grey circa 2010 ... !
Once a day. Sometimes twice. Less often if I am regularly seeing someone.
Sometimes I will be inspired by a chat I have had (or am having) on Lush. Sometimes it is while I am watching online porn, or getting off to a camgirl. Sometimes it is while reading erotic fiction or while looking at sexy art or photos.
A lot of it is very lurid and in some cases (particularly the stories) extreme - and therefore might be unpalatable to the average Lush member. But I am not always in the mood for the hard stuff. Equally, I am not always in the mood for the soft stuff!
If I have time, I'll do some edging - bringing myself to the tip of orgasm and then forcing myself not to cum. This way, when I do eventually reach my peak of pleasure, the results can be explosive and extra creamy!
I prefer shaved, but it's not a deal breaker. If a girl has a forest down there or a desert, it matters little. I will still go down on you, either way.
We are comparing apples with pears here, are we not? ;-)
I was going to have a quid each way, but then Kornslayer tipped the scales with his lovely image up above...
I'd love to meet a girl who enjoyed watching porn, and would be happy for us to watch some together, either as a prelude to other activities or just for fun.
Wishful thinking? Time will tell.
Strip clubs, as a rule, don't turn me on. Nor do most other kinds of buildings.
Some strippers, on the other hand, do.
Hmmm. This would appear to be one of those rhetorical questions.
Alexa, I see it has been more than five months since your initial post. Has your situation changed at all in this time?
It shouldn't be normal. My initial response, for what it's worth, would be to put the situation you described above to your husband directly - and ask him if he has an explanation for his apparent lack of desire for you.
As Slutracy said, sexual passion can diminish after two to three years. Sometimes that is not the case. Often the flame might have burned out. Sometimes there are other factors in play. Asking him directly might not give you the answer you want, or it might not give you any answers at all.
But if you really want to know, you should try asking him.
Best of luck. :-)
Interesting questions. For those of you yearning to know my response:
1) Would you be sexually attracted to a girl with a large scar down her chest? (From surgery)
Yes.
2)Attracted to a girl who has orgasms every 2 fucking seconds?
Yes.
3) Attracted to a Nymphet?
Yes.
4) Would you stay with a girl if she doesn't want to have sex until married?
Potentially, yes.
5) Pubic hair or no?
It matters not.
6)Uneven boobs? (One bigger one smaller)
It matters not.
The correct answer is: I will come where she wants me to come.
Having said that, there is no better feeling than releasing deep inside her pussy, after ensuring she is coming simultaneously.
I have no problem whether it is hirsute or follically challenged.
Having said that, the second of the two pictures above is the one that is more inviting.
But we are only talking about two pictures.
I've never tried it, but with the right partner I might be tempted to find out what the fuss is all about. Hey, you only live once, right?
Talking Heads - What a Day That Was
Fancy bumpin' into you here...
Gonna have to pass, Mr Smith.
Gonna have to pass, Mr Smith.
Does the arrival of the year of the horse bode well for those of us who happen to be hung like one?
Not that I am necessarily saying I am, of course.
That would be big-headed of me.
I'm gonna have to pass, my lupine friend.
Slips in with SoSpankable... wow!
Star Wars (A New Hope)
Spirited Away
Repo Man
Reservoir Dogs
Grosse Pointe Blank.
Sliding in next to Wildchicka ... yeeha!
London Calling - The Clash.
North Island, New Zealand, friends.
Cocteau Twins and Massive Attack.
I want her to be in whatever makes her happy.
Hey, thanks Dreamer and Mazza!!
Yeah, taking yourself too seriously is a seriously silly idea. I just try to be my usual affable friendly self and hope that works. It's just an online extension of my real life self.
I'm enjoying Lush. I have indulged in a few cybersexy dalliances on here, all of which have had limited success. One woman decided to get mad and started abusing me in a chatroom when I didn't give her my full attention (hey, I was chatting with someone else at the time). I had to end up blocking her. Another lady who I thought I was hitting it off with decided to abandon me (and this site entirely) for another fella, without so much as a "see you round..." And another really nice woman who I started chatting with .... well, it quickly became apparent she was using a fake profile, including using the Facebook pictures of one of her pals. I made the mistake of saying: "Hey, I know you are really xxxxxxxxxxxx, and I really like you for who you really are - you don't need to disguise yourself with me." Alas, that was the last I (and presumably the rest of us here) heard from her.
There's probably a few lessons in all that. Dunno if I have learned anything though. I'm still looking around for someone with whom I can connect with on the various cybersex/laugh at the world/talk intelligently/talk about any old crap levels ... I'll probably be looking for some time.
Unless she finds me first, of course! ;-)
Hey Leah ... I like your avatar. It's you, I take it?
