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ConfusionIsSex
Over 90 days ago
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Sex with clothes on is usually a mostly spur of the moment thing in semi-public places, cars, elevators, a stall in a public restroom, the same goes for clothed masturbation if I'm honest but either is in its context a lot of fun and a reason as good as any to wear a dress or a skirt.
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Quote by Frontierzman2


Confusion you said.. This thread would take on a very different attitude?? It was a friggin question. No attitude at all. Relax- There was NO reason for you to get all bent out of shape on this one. Let it GO~ Calm down & take a few deep breaths. People are people & should do what the y want to do as long as they are safe. No titles; No Labels; No Negative attitudes~


I am calm and breathing just fine. What I meant was that if the question in question had been put up in the Ask the Guys forum instead of the Ask the Gals the response as well as the attitude towards the question itself would be very different. I am for instance fairly certain that you would get a lot more negative responses to the very idea within the question you asked. Like I said the question would get a lot more interesting replies and presumably a lot more insightful replies too.

As for the rest of what I posted I get the feeling that you misunderstood me completely but then again no part of my post was aimed at you personally (which, based on your reaction to it, I would say you seem to think it was) so maybe you should take a deep breath and a step back to where you can see the bigger picture of what I was saying.
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What I never have understood are the double standards. For example, a guy who gets laid a lot is a stud, a girl who does is a slut. Guys want blow-jobs but get all 'I don't do that' about going down on a girl. Guy get all freaky about the idea of sucking a penis, but get off on girl-girl. It's not right!


It's not right at all from any point of view.

What baffles me though is how all female scenes so very often are filed under straight porn while you have to select gay if you want to see an all male scene. This often applies to transsexual and crossdressing porn too. The same applies to porn scenes with multiple partners. MFF threeways in which the women engage sexually with each other can easily be found under straight porn while if two men engage sexually in an MMF scene it is, almost without exception, specified in the title. or filed under gay porn.

Regardless of why it was placed in this forum I am 100% sure that this thread would take on a very different attitude if placed in Ask the Guys. It would get a lot more interesting replies assuming it would receive any attention at all.
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Quote by Frontierzman2


When I wrote my question; I didn't put it into the "Ask The Gals" forum /column.

Butt Thanks for your reply~


Then who did?
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Orgy. Free for all by which I don't mean open to all but anyone there could fuck anyone else there, women with women, women with men, men with men and why not throw in a few crossdressers and transgenders too in the name of inclusivity.
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It would of course depend on the message he sent but I think I'd still be rather disturbed and a little creeped out.
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The story is called Being Jack and so far consists of three chapters.
So far it has mainly been about masturbation but as for myself I would place in the Female To Male crossdressing/transgender category since that is the overall theme that holds the story together.

Being Jack

1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?

In parts it is about my own sexual awakening, about how I realised that my minds gender and that of my body were not always in sync. There was a male persona inside me that wanted to, nay, needed to come out and play too.

2. How did you come up with these characters?

Jack/Jackie is of course based mostly on myself, Sophia is loosely based on my two years older sister and well ... the only character left so far is entirely a work of fiction.

3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?

So far the three chapters of Being Jack are the only stories I have published here but I do of course have other stories that I am working on translating into English. Being Jack is different because it is the first time I have actually touched on the subject of my fluid sexuality and the identity issues it has given rise to.

4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?

To be honest and at the same time not write Jack and Jackie too close to myself.

5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?

Maybe just that, yes there will be a fourth chapter but it will take a while to put it together, so be patient out there.
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A little here and a little there. Some are real life experiences that I run with. Some are fantasies, other ideas I get through a roleplaying site I frequent regularly.

Artwork is The Sirens by Henrietta Rae, 1903.
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Both given and received golden showers, even taken some in my mouth but never swallowed.
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Quote by GMOFLEISURE
FWB had minor back surgery Friday. Spent the weekend fetching her tea and snacks. Carried the trash out & picked up the house. Did all that naked to tease while she convalesed.


Naughty, bordering on mean. ;)
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So much so I have carpal tunnel too much repetitive motion


Atta Girl. :P
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For about a year when I was at university I worked in a sex shop, selling everything from dirty books and videos to sex toys and lingerie. There were booths in the backroom for private viewings of videos but I was not in any way required to attend to the customers using them.
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How old are you? 29

Have you done anything sexual in a:

Car? Yes
Pickup Truck?
Limousine?
Tractor Trailer Truck?
Delivery Truck?
Fire or Ambulance Vehicle?
Taxi Cab? Yes
Police Car?
School Bus? Yes
Rental Car? Yes
Any Other Mode of Transport? RV

Where was the vehicle parked when you had sex in it?

Secluded parking lot? Taxi, Car
Public parking lot?
Deserted back road? RV
At a drive-in theater?
In a garage?
In a driveway?
On the side of a roadway?
At a freeway rest stop? Car
Any other place not listed? En Route (School Bus)

What have you done in a vehicle:

Masturbated? Car, RV, School Bus
Heavy petting? Car, RV
Blowjob? Taxi, RV, Car
Fingered?
Handjob?
69?
Fucking? Taxi, RV
Tribbing: RV

Did you:

Get completely naked? RV
Left just a shirt on?
Left just socks on?
Just removed underwear/panties? Taxi, Car
Just a hand down my jeans ... School Bus

Where in the vehicle did you do it?

Front seat? Blowjob: Car, Taxi. Masturbated: Car.
Back seat? Fucking: Taxi. Heavy Petting: Car
In the bed of an RV? Yes
On top of the hood?
On top of the trunk?
On the roof of the car?

What positions have you tried in a vehicle?
Riding, tribbing.

Have you ever gotten caught by: (If in a vehicle only ... then No to all.)

Cops?
Friends?
Strangers?
Parents?
Siblings?
Someone else not listed?

If you got caught did you:

Stop everything and leave?
Keep going at it?
Hide until they were gone?
Get arrested?
Have your parents called?
Get seen while actually fucking?
Get seen completely naked?

Did the vehicle you were in belong to:

You?
Your partner?
Parents? Car
Work? Taxi (my partner's not mine)
A rental company? RV
Other?

After you were done did the vehicle:

Smell like sex, sweat and cum? Yes.
Have completely fogged up windows?
Had handprints on the windows? Yes
Not start or run out of gas?
Need significant cleaning? I would assume so

Have you had sex in a vehicle to celebrate:

Birthday?
Anniversary?
Prom/Graduation?
Wedding?
Engagement?
Valentine's Day? Yes (Taxi)
New Year's Eve?

Was your first sexual experience in a vehicle? No

Was there any particular vehicle that was the best to have sex in? RV

Do you always "christen" every new vehicle you buy? No

Have you ever encountered other people having sex in a vehicle? Once

Have you ever given or received "road head"? (While the vehicle is moving No.)

Have you ever masturbated and had a huge shuttering orgasm while driving? No.

When was the last time you had sex in a vehicle? Maybe seven years ago.

Does the thought or memories of sex in a car make you horny even today? Not particularly.

Would you ever allow your teenage daughter to have a date at a drive-in? I don't have one, nor are there any Drive Ins around here but theoretically: Why not.

Approximately how many times have you had some sort of sex in a vehicle? Five

Any exciting stories you'd like share? Maybe later in a published story somewhere down the road.
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That's a toss up between Kathy Acker and Virginia Woolf. Do not force me to choose.
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Quote by bitwicethefun
D. All of the above (even if just an observer of the FFF)!


I second that even if I have to be an observer only for the MMM sessions.
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Twice.
Once, with a semi-regular boyfriend in his taxi and once when many years ago I worked part time in a sex shop with a female customer after having helped her decide on what strap on to buy.
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Two encores, back stage at a local music venue, not entirely sure of how long it was in minutes but definitely under ten.