Yes. We do it as often and we can when we connect with the right man, women or couple. She's and exhibitionist and I'm more of a voyuer. It's not about the feelings other than lust. To see her with someone one or share her in a threesome is a turn on for both of us. I love the idea of knowing someone, man or women wants her. She feels the same about me. BUT we only do it together. No exceptions EVER! There is a difference between love and pleasure and at the end of the experience we are still US! For us it made our relationship stronger. Thats not the case for everyone. The lifestyle won't ever fix a relationship, It will destroy it if it's already broken. It's not for everyone but it is for us.