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Butterfly
Over 90 days ago
Female, 52
United States

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Mmmhmm, majority rules! Some sexy hair on the chest please!! And that even sexier treasure trail below the belly button leading down...oh my, it does me in!

My hubby has always had a hairy chest (and the treasure trail), he asked me once a long time ago would I be more turned on by a bare chest (like if he shaved his chest, would I like it). Simply stated, and stated that way to him as well...NO! I love feeling it while trailing my hands and fingers over his chest and abdomen. It is a turn on for me, period..the end.

As far as hairs beginning to grow on other not so sexy areas, like the back and shoulders, so far...he's all good, no problems with that yet. I will have to agree though that if and when that stage does come about...might have to do something, we'll see lol.
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Ohh Eviotis! Love me some Fleetwood Mac and Stevie Nicks...nice post smile.

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Excellent choices, CB! smile

It is hard to go with just one though, man...hmmm. Alright, as far as my tastes go, one that I'd never tire of listening to would be Stevie Ray Vaughan and Double Trouble:


"Lenny" is one of my favorites as well as "Riviera Paradise". I love instrumentals, and ones by Stevie are just great :).

right up there with SRV would be Zeppelin, Black Sabbath, Rush, The Who, and some more...yeah, like I said, hard to pick ONE fav, lol.
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One over the other?? I'd have to go for a nice meal in the comfort of our own home. My man is a great cook and he wooed me with that part of himself when we first met. Was so sexy and sweet, in my opinion smile. We both share the duty though, as far as that goes these days, being that we both work.

However, an occasional night out, just us, at a table for two in a nice restaurant is a great escape from the norm. We do this about once a month or so.
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Lagging my arse off here lol, but, from the previous page (in keeping with the great guitar sounds anyway):


By the way, lovin' the Blondie, CB smile. She's a classic.
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My wife is a great lady and loves sex....as long as it's strait forward me pleasing her. She is just not open to any adult content on tv or any type of porn, she is vary standoffish about performing oral sex both giving and receiving, so thats my lot in life. My sister in law loves sex and is the exact opposite when it comes to adult content, I am sure thats why she is my fantasy...lots of love making with my wife, unfortunaly I am usually miles away in my mind pleasing her sister....


Perhaps if you give half as much attention to the pleasure of your wife, as you do in your mind to her sister, she wouldn't be so vanilla. There are moments before the release of a woman that she will do anything for the finality of it all... play with those moments... since she likes sex, you will get to practice over and over. Shouldn't this be in the Relationship Advice Section? LOL.



QFT ^!

You say she doesn't have any inclinations towards oral sex betwixt (is this the right word here? I dunno lol...sounds good though) the two of you; but yet you say there is 'lots of love making' going on. Seems to me that you both enjoy sex. She may be vanilla but, you did marry her and not her sister. Maybe a slow and easy building up of bringing up certain desires of yours (not the extramarital ones lol) while you both are laying with each other talking about 'things' could bring her around to some new kinds of 'fun' between the two of you.

Fantasizing is normal and there's nothing wrong with it as long as you keep it in the fantasy realm...especially when you know (as it seems you have already stated) that it would most likely cause problems. Man, seriously...I'm willing to bet that she has some fantasies going on as well, especially since you mentioned that you both enjoy sex smile. It just may be that she is more of a shy type when it comes to verbalizing intimate and sexual thoughts to you.

Are you happy in your marriage in most other aspects? If so, why mess with a good thing? In asking that, basically I'm saying; if ya did do 'the do' with the sis-in-law (just to appease some fantasy longings you both may have with each other), do ya think, in the long run, that it would be worth it considering the consequences?
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Man, to choose just ONE! Ahh, the choices, lol. I'm going to have to go with a few of the posters here, like: LadyX: Broken Bells, good stuff; VanGogh: One EskimO, love 'em; WetWet: Mumford and Sons, can't get enough of those guys!! (check out 'Roll Away Your Stone'...that's a great one, in my opinion).

Hmmm, at the moment I'm listening to Bob Schneider - 'Bringdown', love the feel good, sexy sound of this one, and if ya like listening and getting into lyrics...it's a good one for that too. Have it on my playlist there in the top few.
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So, here's another female artist I'm enjoying listening to lately ;-P
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Twas more than I could take, pity for pity's sake
Some nights kept me awake, I thought that I was stronger
When you gonna realise, that you don't even have to try any longer?
Do what you want to.

Indeed ^^ smile.

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Yes, Fickle...even if we all were to get all 10 correct the decider would be the quickest time. Good job though!

I have no excuse again lol...sometimes my times are crappy, either re-reading the questions and taking too long contemplating or getting distracted while playing it.
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Merry Christmas everyone! May you all have a wonderful and joyous holiday with family and friends. Be safe if you have to take a road trip!



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This man right here...mmm damn, he's got some soul and passion in his singing, baby! Got the cd this song is on a while back.
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Damnit, that's it! I said before I wouldn't play after midnight or so (especially when having a few drinks)...oh well! I didn't know half of these sad.