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Quote by Wilful
Waverley Council as we drove away from Bondi Beach. The motherfuckers stung us with a $169 parking ticket after catching us out with some deliberately misleading signage. I'm just glad we weren't being followed by bikies at the time.
I hope they enjoy the cash, because I'll never spend another cent in their territory ever again. I'll be going to Manly from now on, bitches!
Manly is a way better beach than Bondi anyway, Bondi so overhyped, although to fair I had alot of fun in the 9 months I was there, good party backpacker zone.
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Firstly I like to be left alone, then play a computer game, watch favorite TV show or put on my favorite music, Alcohol is usually a must, preferable a few fine British Ales. Although it does vary, sometimes I wanna go for a walk or jog, or even go shopping. Retail Therapy can work, although the bank balance can take a hit ;)
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Quote by balthazar400
I am not sure if this has been posted before. I searched a little and found nothing so here we go. I want to try anal both giving and recieving with gf. I do not know how to go about doing this and was wondering if anybody had any advice. Thanks!
Start by putting your penis in her bum hole, then when she's had enough, let her put her fake penis in your bum hole....
Don't both try to do it at the same time, it will be chaos...
Theres no charge for this awesome advice btw...
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I read about this on facebook. What a shock... It's a shame that the other person doesn't get mentioned because he wasn't famous...
I never saw him outside of films, so I don't know what he was like in real life but Vin Deisel had some nice comments, so i'm assuming he was a good guy. And he was a decent actor, and its pretty devastating for his family and friends. RIP Paul, and friend.
I never saw him outside of films, so I don't know what he was like in real life but Vin Deisel had some nice comments, so i'm assuming he was a good guy. And he was a decent actor, and its pretty devastating for his family and friends. RIP Paul, and friend.
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Quote by SereneProdigy
This girl is nice, but she's a bit of a butterface in my opinion", that's not derogatory.
How is this not derogatory? At it's very best it can be seen and a "Neg" (a back handed compliment, or incidental insult, used by certain pickup artists to build attraction, with girls that are metaphorically standing on pedistals in the looks department). To me, it's not a nice thing to say about somebody, and it's certainly not something i'd say to a girls face, in public, or to people who were not close friends. And even then, I wouldn't say "butterface", I'd say "She's got a great body, but I'm not attracted to her looks."
Butterface sounds fucking ridiculous.
It sounds exactly like lads banter, when you all sit around bragging about your conquests or degrading women, this is the exactly the sort of thing I'd expect to hear in the changing rooms before a game of football.
Just because it could be seen as true, opinion wise, doesn't mean it isn't derogatory. There are thousands of fat people in the world, we know that, society knows that, fat people know that. But to actually go and call them fat, is detrogatory.
It's just not acceptable.
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Quote by doctorlove
Someone playing hard to get. Life is too short to play head games, lets just fuck.
Playing hard to get is a scenario used to build attraction. And whether you like it or not, it works. It's because it follows one of lifes most basics human principles, the harder we work for something, the more effort we put in, the higher value and the bigger the reward is to us, when we finally get it. It's called "escalating the buying price."
Is true though that for some people, the chase isn't worth the catch, and if people do play hard get, they may just end up not being got. Also bare in mind that some women have ASD (Anti-slut defence), where they can be attracted to somebody but try to resist sleeping with them, because they don't want to be seen as easy, cheap or a game.
My biggest turn off is poor grooming, not being shaved or trim where they should be, and not making an effort to keep their looks or bodies in the best shape.
I think what we often find turn offs about other people, are the same things we fear may turn other people off about ourselves, if we are not careful. For example I'm rarely attracted to women that have fuller figures, carrying a little extra weight, or have cellulite (not be mistaken with being "curvy" which is attractive).
The reason why is because if I'm not eating a health diet, or working out regularly, i tend to look in the mirror and notice the effects, thus my self-worth and esteem is more likely to drop, when I am doing those things, I am happier with myself. I look for the same things in women that I am attracted to.
Being flakey, indecisive, or Hot n' Cold is something that annoys me too, where women I'm attracted to can be flirty one minute, then act disinterested, then flirty again, then flirty with others instead, they flirty with you again, and so on and so on. I find this irritating, and can play with a persons head in a detrimental way.
Although in truth that is usually a comment on your own approach and attraction skills, that you haven't done a strong enough job in attracting her. Which is why she is sitting on the fence rather than "on you"
I'm a firm believer that anybody can attract anybody provided they work on themselves, practice attraction methods, convey their qualities in a strong way, and appear successful in social circles. I don't believe in "out of your league scenarios". I believe that nobody is too good for anybody else, this is just a limiting constraint people place on themselves. The question should be "Is she too good for me", it should be "Is she too good for myself." The bizzare thing about attraction, is that it is self improvement that gets results, rather than the effort you put into desiring others. If you really love yourself, and are happy with the person you see in the mirror, others will see that, you will almost automatically become more attractive to others. This does not mean you need to be conceited or full of yourself, which are negative qualities, it means you have to be confident.
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No... It would be a nightmare...
I cannot understand why in the 21st century anybody would want to be a virgin, it's unthinkable. A wise man once told me. "There is no such thing as innocence, only ignorance." I totally agree. My own personal point of view is that sexual liberation and experience is one of the greatest of lifes journeys, and sharing it with other people is one of the greatest pleasures to be had. Why people fly aeroplanes into buildings on the promise of 50 virgins is beyond me, that's a punishment not a present. You might be stuck with 50 Cliff Justin Beiber fans for eternity. No thanks, I'd take 2 firebreathing sluts over 50 virgins, any day of the week.
This doesn't mean I think women should be going out shagging every man they see. But this, 'waiting for the perfect person' is a bizarre and fanciful perspective. I don't buy sex before marriage, that belongs to the dark ages. I can understand waiting until you meet somebody you like, thats fine. But the perfect person? If there was such a thing, that perfect person probably wouldn't be too impressed about you being a virgin, and you would be a chore to sleep with, not a pleasure.
By all means, waiting until being within the parameters of a relationship, before you give yourself to a person, is fine. But after that, holding on virginity status just seems absurd, and probably highly painstaking for the other person. Nobody is that worth it.
If I girl hasn't had sex by 18, ok 20 at the absolute maximum (legal age for consent in UK being 16), I'd think there was something wrong with her. And as most people will have had at least one serious relationship once they're over age, theres really no excuse.
I had sex with a virgin once, a long time ago, and she was only my second at the time, so were both newbs. It wasn't very good. Really...it wasn't...
Of course this is just my own point of view.
I cannot understand why in the 21st century anybody would want to be a virgin, it's unthinkable. A wise man once told me. "There is no such thing as innocence, only ignorance." I totally agree. My own personal point of view is that sexual liberation and experience is one of the greatest of lifes journeys, and sharing it with other people is one of the greatest pleasures to be had. Why people fly aeroplanes into buildings on the promise of 50 virgins is beyond me, that's a punishment not a present. You might be stuck with 50 Cliff Justin Beiber fans for eternity. No thanks, I'd take 2 firebreathing sluts over 50 virgins, any day of the week.
This doesn't mean I think women should be going out shagging every man they see. But this, 'waiting for the perfect person' is a bizarre and fanciful perspective. I don't buy sex before marriage, that belongs to the dark ages. I can understand waiting until you meet somebody you like, thats fine. But the perfect person? If there was such a thing, that perfect person probably wouldn't be too impressed about you being a virgin, and you would be a chore to sleep with, not a pleasure.
By all means, waiting until being within the parameters of a relationship, before you give yourself to a person, is fine. But after that, holding on virginity status just seems absurd, and probably highly painstaking for the other person. Nobody is that worth it.
If I girl hasn't had sex by 18, ok 20 at the absolute maximum (legal age for consent in UK being 16), I'd think there was something wrong with her. And as most people will have had at least one serious relationship once they're over age, theres really no excuse.
I had sex with a virgin once, a long time ago, and she was only my second at the time, so were both newbs. It wasn't very good. Really...it wasn't...
Of course this is just my own point of view.
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Quote by Peta31
I have to say Simpson and big brother
Yes agreed. Xfactor too. Not because i dislike watching people trying to sing, but because the auditions are solely intended to give a crowd of people an unnecessary power over somebody's life. An audience of useless people booing somebody else for being useless, is not my idea of a social life. You could argue that people don't have to apply to sing if they don't want/can't handle the audience, but I say kudos to them for saying fuck you and having a go.
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Quote by Wardog
Fine, feel free to live your life your way. Plan it all out, thinking that happiness is a destination (I made that mistake too years ago) then it dawned on me... life is... THE JOURNEY! If you'd rather not enjoy it, the loss is yours not mine. Best of luck, guys like you need all they can get. I've learned to enjoy not just today, not just this hour but THIS MINUTE. The next one may NEVER come for either of us.
It's fortunate that we live in a universe where both my principles of hard work, ambition, drive and motivation, and your principles of being laid back, easy going, going with the flow and living in the moment, can actually co-exsist harmoneously in one persons life. You will find that the happiest people in the world, have a healthy mixure of both these traits, which is exactly what I want to achieve in my life.
Everything should be in moderation, including personal qualities. I've seen people nail university studies, get great jobs, push from promotions, buy nice cars and afford nice houses, only to reach their 30's-40's and realise they are not happy. Because despite their success, they haven't experienced anything. There again I've seen people live in the moment, always partying, always having fun, getting plenty of girls, and being the life and soul of their friends lives, but they too reach that age and wish they had applied themselves to something more beneficial to success in life. They best way is to have a healthy mix between the two lifestyles. People don't just have to be one or the other, neither do I.
What I do really want to do, is travel, I've already spent to years in Australia, the best time of my whole life, but that hasn't quenched my thirst for it, now i'm back in the UK, the last thing I want to do is give up on that desire. Travelling is one thing I've never heard one single person ever say they regretted.
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Quote by dpw
I've had far too many to count, they run into hundreds. Some great, some good, some ok and some rubbish. It would have been nice to have had one person but I used to self destruct relationships.
I can't change things that happened, it was just the way I was. I had a lot of sex though, probably too much to appreciate it.
Admirable honesty, I think this is true for more of us than we would probably like to admit. How many women have I played games with where I haven't fully appreciated them, and just used them for fun when they genuinely liked me. I know right now, that I am not the only one guilty of this, women do this to men every day, men do it women every day. Sometimes we strive for sex, not only as a release, but also just for our own validation and to know we are sexually desired, without actually caring so much about what the other person needs from you. But these are poor reasons for sex really, but it's all part of our sexual journey. But then when you mess it up by not taking things more seriously, you kick yourself and wonder if you made a mistake. Nontheless, I've always considered myself a good person, I guess this is just part of being young, it is a fact of life that should be accepted rather than regretted.
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I've never actually done a facial, when they take it in their mouths and swallow is soooo much hotter. I don't see why I'd want a make a mess of the girl that I chose for reasons that she was the exact opposite. Why would I buy a new Audi then pour lava over it?