hi was just wundering if women realy do go for older guys?
as in would you be happy to be seen at a pub/ club with a guy 10/15 years older
whats the acctraction?
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do you go for older guys?
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Yes I do. I personally just find older guys nicer to talk to and be emotionally involved with.
I find that they are more confident and settled than guys my own age so this is the main attraction for me.
I have no problem with going to the pub with an older guy at all. My only concern woud be if they minded the fact that I was a lot younger.
I find that they are more confident and settled than guys my own age so this is the main attraction for me.
I have no problem with going to the pub with an older guy at all. My only concern woud be if they minded the fact that I was a lot younger.
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My husband is 10 yrs older than me. When we started dating I was 19 and he was 29 and all the guys closer to my age where very immature. I think it has to do with the level of immaturity girls see in teenaged guys and most guys in their early 20s. I do know a number of women married to yonger men, but they all got together later in their lives.
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I like them born on the same day as me - give or take a few hours ! Perfect vintage, perfect match !!
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there are smart, exciting and vibrant men of all ages.... there are also stupid, shallow and creepy men of all ages..... it is about the man not anything as unimportant as age.
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OK I know this is supposed to be for the women, but I just felt the need to "weigh in" here. My ex wife (and the absolute love of my life) is twenty years younger than I. We had a wonderful time together, and still love one another (it's complicated). So, as an "older guy" I can attest to the statement that "age is just a number."
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I like older men. I've always been attracted to them. I bond easier with them. Yet men closer to my age I am more skeptical of. I'm not going to say older means more mature, wiser, or anything really. I just know that for me, attration comes easier with older men.
For the record, I have a great relationship with my father so it's not a daddy complex.
For the record, I have a great relationship with my father so it's not a daddy complex.
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I've never dated someone my own age. Hubby and I have our 5th anniversary coming up and he's 47 to my 31 and I could not be happier with the last five years!
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What matters to me is that I find a guy emotionally and intellectually stimulating. I've found that among men of all ages. Physically I can find things to like in anyone I find that kind of connection with.
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I didn't mean to say that girls should avoid men of any age based on age alone. Just that I think many women form a sort of prejudice against men close their own age in their teens. The vast majority of guys in their teens and sometimes even into early twenties are very immature and do not treat girls as they should. Girls see this and have a hard time noticing when the same guys are past it. The sad part is girls in their teens and early twenties often prefer guys who mistreat them, play hard to get and/or make them do all the work in the relationship. Then after it all ends they judge them for it. I blame hormones for the whole mess.
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What matters to me is that I find a guy emotionally and intellectually stimulating. I've found that among men of all ages. Physically I can find things to like in anyone I find that kind of connection with.
I can't put it any better than that.
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I am going to be 40 this year, I love appreciating all ages of a woman, but for me, I love younger ladies bec we match well in ,maturity! I love a woman who can have a conversation and look good with me! I am a pediatric surgeon and just so enjoy taking out a woman and showing her all that life offers! Women are such a gift!
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I'm very attracted to older men and I'd be proud to be seen in a pub with my man. The only thing is I always seem to end up with younger guys. That's the downside of wine!
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I usually prefer guys who are a bit younger than me but age is only a number. It really is more how they act and feel. I know some 40 somethings with a lot more energy than most 20 somethings. So age really not that important unless we are talking really old.
I am 20 and I have been with a few guys who were 35+ and I have no complaints. They avoid the bull shit, don't lie, are loyal and most importantly all the guys I've been with were amazing as can be during intercourse. I don't know how to describe it but each guy was amazing in their own way. Guys closer to my age tend to be into the bull shit and don't know how to treat a lady so I will continue to stick with the older men until I find one my age that will come along and sweep me off my feet.
I've never been with an older guy but would certainly like to. Must all be "Daddy issues" having not grown up with a father figure. I would have to agree with a lot of the other posts in that I wouldn't have an issue being seen with an older man. I just get the feeling that it would be different for them as I've always looked a lot younger than my age.
I've always liked guys who are slightly older than me. I'm not sure why that is, since I'm a huge fan of the “The fact that someone's older than you doesn't necessarily make them any more mature, smarter or wiser than you; it just means that they'll probably die sooner.”-theory, but, as many of you have said, male teenagers tend to be terribly immature.
I'm sure that there are many charming, sophisticated, gentlemanly young guys out there, but I haven't had the honour of being graced by the presence of meeting any, that I've been simultaneously attracted to. At least not for a couple of years.
Anyway, I know shouldn't write off an entire age group because of the terribly unattractive behaviour of a couple, but it's difficult when it's all you've really seen.
I'm sure that there are many charming, sophisticated, gentlemanly young guys out there, but I haven't had the honour of being graced by the presence of meeting any, that I've been simultaneously attracted to. At least not for a couple of years.
Anyway, I know shouldn't write off an entire age group because of the terribly unattractive behaviour of a couple, but it's difficult when it's all you've really seen.
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Definitely. I find them more kind loving and thoughtful and much more generous. Generally they are better lovers. I also think that they do not cum a fast.