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do you go for older guys?

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Sorry, weird double post.
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I tend to be more the MILF or cougar when it comes to first attraction.

But for the most part, I realize there are contradictions to behaviors, style, confidence, ego, attitude, health and all the other factors that make a man attractive, no matter what age!

There are very sexy men of all ages. It just depends on my mood and if the guy in question can engage me in an intellegent conversation!

Kisses!

Steph
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I don't know why it is.. but yes i do.
I like younger guys too though.
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im married to one but hes rich soooo
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I like them all smile I'd rather have them a few years older
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Hi All x this is my first ever post so plz b gentle

I about to be married to a guy who is 14yrs older than me.

I've always gone for older guy as I find them to be very generous, gentle, mature lovers who place more emphasis on pleasuring their partner.

They generally enjoy oral with none of the young mans squemishness! LOL

They also have no problems admitting to flaws/failures and are more open to trying solutions.
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I usually go for them because they are more experienced and know how to handle and break a wild girl like me. break as in a good way though.
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no, I like men younger than me.

Trainable? Oh yeah! Teachable? Ah huh! Definitely Fit and more Adventurous!
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Usually always older but not my dad creepy older! No offense!
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best sex had was with older men
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Age is but a number...

I have always gone for older men, and my partner is considerably older than me. I think it's because they're much more mature, better to talk to, and more experienced all round. I don't think I could date anyone younger than me.
Miss Mimi.
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It depends how old and how much money they can leave you in their will.

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actually I feel it should be that way. the older person trains the wild child to be a great lover and if that person passes then they take up the older persons roll and trains a younger individual I think that would promote better relationships. I think that if I had exposure to older experienced woman my sex life would be a lot better. then I could teach younger gal what I like
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A resounding YES! I've always been interested in older men and actually prefer to younger men, with that being said I've found on Lush that many older men here prefer much younger girls. A guy in his 50's being interested in 18-20 year old girls is not appealing to me, in fact it's a turn off. I find older men to be more settled and confident, they know what they want. My experience only.
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In answer the the OP.

Yes I would be happy indeed to go to a pub or nightclub with a guy 10/15 years older. Because my boyfriend of six years is ten years my senior. I'm 27 and he is 37. Although age is starting to show on his face I still think he is super cute.

And we have gone to pubs and nightclubs together, made out etc. Though it was funny a few months ago, because my face looks younger then my age someone asked if my boyfriend was my father. I said yes much to the horror of my boyfriend lmao.

Even in highschool I found older guys with facial hair more attractive then guys my own age. Maybe a part of it is that I had my first kiss with a way older guy who was in his late 40s. When I was 18.
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When I was in my 20's I liked men in their 30-40's. Now that I'm in my late 40's I like men in their 20-30's go figure I guess I've went all cougar LOL
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most of the time, yes I do, started getting into 30-40 year old men when I turned 18 so it's been almost two years now
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I like them all smile I'd rather have them a few years older


Totally older and ready for and young woman....
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Quote by Bunny12
When I was in my 20's I liked men in their 30-40's. Now that I'm in my late 40's I like men in their 20-30's go figure I guess I've went all cougar LOL


That's always the way it is.. That's the way it is baby... :-)
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I actually like older men(20-30), but for some reason I'm currently with a guy 10 months younger than me. (lovey dovey oo lala) probably because of how mature and romantic he is.
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Men of all ages have their pros and cons. And there are no absolutes either way, but right now there's an "old perv" as he calls himself that has my attention.
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Being 40 yrs old, I am at the perfect age to adore all ages, ultimately, it is all about the person, but I like to be passionate!
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why does this age thing keep coming up??? older or younger... what really matters is their imagination, their humor and their desire to please :-)


and ricky6999... you look like you could be very pleasing...
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ohhh yessss I much prefer an older man..they can be almost resistible...their sense of confidence and knowledge in how to treat a woman...not that all young men don't but I find the older man wins every time for me, they just have the qualities that I find pleasurable and intriguing..
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generally no . i like them the same age or a bit younger ;)
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i go for a guy that has a job and can support himself. to me, honestly, there is nothing more attractive than a hardworking guy. age doesn't matter much. at times, i find a man who is older that i find attractive, but for the most part age is just a number to me.
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Hubby's roughly ten years older than me, and I have no problem with it at all. I'll take him anywhere and show him off.
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I am definitely into older men! They are usually more mature and stable! I have a stronger connection with older men and tend to be mature for my age so older men just fit me better! I have never been with an older guy but seem to be way more attracted to them! But in all reality age is just a number to me! It doesn't matter as long as you both truly love each other.

As for going to the pub with an older man... I have no problems with it as long as he doesn't have a problem with me being younger.
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Great insight flirtygirl!