About
I only friend or correspond with male bodied people in chastity and/or service to Me. This is a place for My stories and to find service subs that want sessions. I prefer to spend My time around those who enjoy the things about Me other people find strange and who I can be totally open with. I am an extremely honest person and you don't ask Me questions you aren't sure you want the answer to. There are just a lot of things I keep to myself in My everyday life. I have a wide variety of experience in BDSM complex over nearly two decades. I'm an old guard leather woman. I have experienced and often enjoyed everything I offer to others. One of my first scenes was having wings stapled to My back and not long after I got even larger wings places with twenty or so needles. Much of My experience on that side has been self inflicted. I've always been My favorite sadist lol I gave Myself tattoos, permanent and temporary piercings, brands, and even bifurcated (split) My own tongue over 18 days. I'm probably upload that story too. I've suspended people worth My ropes, and sometimes hooks, all over the country. Taught many classes on the subject too. Eventually I got bored with it and felt like a service top all the time. That's when I entered the field of ProDomme work. Remuneration has brought My interests back. My FetLife profile for those purposes is DominaJen.
I am a bit of a geek (probably an understatement) and I find intelligence extremely attractive, it is very important to me. I like playing chess with friends on chess.com screen name DominaJen. I am neurodivergent and often completely oblivious to subtlety or flirting. I am also very sensitive to scents and don't usually like the artificial ones.
I'm told Kate Beckinsale’s character Selene in Underworld is my doppelganger. I have wavy auburn hair to my ass and ice blue eyes. I am 5'5", 140lbs wear size 6 to 8 clothes, a 34D and I have a lot of muscle for my size and still plenty of padding. I've done yoga for most of my life and used to teach nude yoga classes. I prefer to swim for exercise and I'm built like a well endowed swimmer. For a long time swam a mile at least once a week and I'm getting back there after some health issues.
Interests
I've spent many years exploring my fetishes IRL, going to workshops, events and such. Now I'm the one teaching the workshops at conferences, designing dungeon equipment, and running interest groups. I'm still president of the Hitchen Bitches of SEPA chapter I started, even though I moved across the country. It's part of an international female rope top group with local groups for female Dominants/Primals. I am a sadist and an old guard leather woman. I can enjoy fairly specific types of pain and don't do things to others that I haven't experienced Myself. There's a photo of one of My first scenes, going on 20 years ago, where I got wings stapled to my back. I also gave myself tattoos on the tops of my feet, pierced My lip, My VCH, and split My tongue. I did that the slow way, over 18 days and I'll upload the writing i did about it eventually. Biting is one of my favorite things, when done with slowly building pressure. I'm not sure if I am capable of really kissing someone without raking my teeth over their lips and at least nibbling and I don't really see why anyone would want to avoid that. I find tweezing, exfoliating, extracting and other general grooming very relaxing and often quite enjoyable torture. My epilator is one of my favorite toys. It's something I find both relaxing and arousing. Most of the time you'll find me in yoga clothes with a cute t-shirt. Those are my work clothes and I do really enjoy dressing up. Whether it be pinup, steampunk, leather or something else.
I LOVE MUSIC!! from classical to dance to metal, with the exception of most country and rap. I've been told I have a beautiful voice and I sing in a choir. Lately I enjoy singing Fiona Apple, Florence and the Machine, Tori Amos, Kimbra and Ellie Goulding. I go to concerts and dancing regularly and prefer to dance with women. I love food and cook mostly vegan without processed sugar or oil. If you cook with Me you will learn.
I love bargain shopping, shoes and clothes. I have an emence collection of shoes and fetish wear. I enjoy art and sketching female nudes. I'm a bit of a tech geek and good at combining my sketches with computer graphics. I have some of my artwork on here. I very much enjoy pictures of beautiful women and lean towards the artistic and pinup or suicide girls type images. I could probably be a suicide girl and maybe that's why I like them so much.
Favorite Books
Laura Antoniou's Marketplace Series, Lyndsay Sandra Argeneou vampire series, Lora Leigh's Breed series, Christine Feehan's Ghostwalker series, JD Robb's (Nora Roberts) In Death Series, Frank Hebert's Dune Series, Stieg Larsson's Girl with the Dragon Tattoo Series, Catherine Coultier's FBI Series, Kathy Reich's Tempy Brennan Series (TV show bones is based on), Audrey Niffenegger's The Time Traveler's Wife, Thomas Harris's Hannibal Lecter Series, The Harry Potter Books (I blame the accent of the narrator for this), Robert Ludlem's Bourne Series, Jeannette Walls's The Glass Castle.
Favorite Authors
I read a lot of books, mostly paranormal romance, though something funny or inspirational is always good too. I am reading 30+ paranormal romance and erotic authors. I am pretty severely dyslexic, so I read mostly audiobooks and short stories. I usually go through 2 to 4 books a week. I've already found many authors on this site I enjoy very much too. Some of My fav Paranormal Romance & Erotica authors are: Charlaine Harris's Sookie Stackhouse Series, Christine Feehan series's Dark (vampires) Ghostwalkers (soldiers w/ psychic powers) or Drake sisters (witches), Patricia Briggs series's Mercy Thompson & Alpha & Omega (shape shifters & weres), Gena Showalter series Lords of the Underworld (Demon Possessed), Jeaneine Frost's Night Huntress Series (vamps), JR Ward's Black Dagger Brotherhood (vamps), Keri Arthur's Rliey Jensen Series (Weres & Vamps), Jayne Ann Krentz/Amanda Quick Arcane Society (paranormal ability society), Kelley Armstrong's Other World Series (witches, vamps, demons), Laurell K Hamilton Series's Merry Gentry (Fairies) or Anita Blake (Vamps & Weres), Lora Leigh's Breed Series (Weres sorta, definitely more erotica than romance), Lynasy Sands Argeneau Series (vamps w/ nanobots) & Yasmine Galenorn' Sisters of the Moon Series (Fairies).
Favorite Movies
There are so many, but here are some of my all time Favs: Alice in Wonderland, Clockwork Orange, Natural Born Killers, Stigmata, Fight Cub, The Wall, The Crow, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo Trilogy, The Hannibal Lecter Movies, and All Hayao Miyazaki Movies
Favorite Music
My playlist is love/sex theme favorite songs. Mostly by my fav artists. The playlist gets louder and heavier as you go down it. I love to listen to and sing music of all sorts from classical to dance to metal, except most country and rap. I've been told I have a beautiful voice and I sing when play with people.
Interests