I almost called this "Your Sexual Weakness" but that implies something a little bit different. What I'm wondering is, what's something about sex and intimacy that you just don't get, or you're just not good at.
For me, it's titty-fucking.
I know how to do it of course: let him dangle his johnson between my tits then squeeze them together. But somehow it's always awkward. If I'm on my back and he's thrusting between my tits, it feels a little like laying under a vehicle that's rolling forward and backward over me. If I'm upright, I never really know if I'm better off trying to bob up and down a bit, because he looks ridiculous bobbing up and down and/or sawing back and forth. And what am I supposed to be getting out of it? I'm fine if the answer is 'nothing, it's all for him', but is that the case?
I've done it many times, and I know I'm probably overthinking it, but titty-fucking is my sexual blind spot.
What's yours?
I'm very much a ? when it comes to tittyfucking too.
My blind spot is:
I've never been able to feel the splashing when a man comes inside of me, maybe I'm not as sensitive as some other girls.
I do however like when a man comes in me, because it prolongs the intimacy when he stays inside me while turning soft.
But the spurting inside, I don't feel it so he might as well wear a condom, or fake it.
Great question...
I've always been baffled by the ever-so-great position of '69'
I don't get "it"?
I have no issue with giving or receiving oral.
But really? At the same time?
Maybe I'm not that great of a multi-tasker or I prefer to concentrate on one thing at a time but I always find it awkward and never really enjoy giving or receiving while doing it.
I agree with Dancing_Doll on the "sound effects" thing, its a bloody turn off, bleh! As to my sexual blind spot, I'd have to say pain to the point of almost injuring the person(s) involved. I do like a little light pain (giving and receiving), done at the right moment and with the right force, it can be a huge turn on for both giver and receiver, but pain to the point where it leaves bruises is just nasty.
I don't really see eye to eye with heavy bdsm either. I'm right with gurlyboy up there. I love a little passionate hair pulling and biting here and there but whips and chains...just seems a bit much to me. I wouldn't want the pain to sumount the pleasure. But to each his own =)
Personally, I've never understood chastity devices. I just don't get it. Forcing yourself to suffer until some significant other decides you've been a good boy and can be let out for a few moments? Where does that get fun?
I don't get the whole urinating and defacating on someone, just seems more disgusting than erotic.
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
I'm right up there with Lady X on the whole Titfucking. I have tried it but it was a bit weird as I have an inverted sternum (Pectus excavatum) so didn't look right from my view lol.
For me also is the 69, I don't like when my boyfriend is on top kind of feel sufficated lol.
The secret of tittyfucking is for the woman to be on a recliner and make sure the head of the penis slips in her mouth with every one of the man's thrusts. Only really enjoyable way I've ever done it.
I don't like or get the "daddy" thing. When a woman says stuff like, "fuck me, daddy". Or any other way where she calls me her daddy. It's like saltpeter.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates I don't get the pooping fetish either, sometimes doing things that should be wrong can feel good, but that's a serious ? and a line for me that's not crossed.
This post comes to you from the original and highly disorganised mind of mine...be scared, I certainly am, lol
Just to clarify this, and not to turn it into a 'vanilla thread', but let's not drift the discussion into exotic fetishes (such as scat/urine) which the vast majority doesn't really understand or subscribe to anyway.
All posts are welcome, but what I had more in mind were things that you've either tried, and didn't understand or do well, or things that are fairly common that for whatever reason you're averse or perplexed about.
Tittyfucking!
I absolutely cannot get into it, I'm horrible at it and it bores me. If I have to I will do it but for me its the biggest blind spot.
I just cant get into the BDSM thing. A little light spanking or being tied up can be fun. But the heavy bondage thing just doesnt work for me. I once dated a guy who was into it so I tried it for him but it did nothing for me at all. I just dont see the pleasure in having a ball gag in my mouth as he fucks me. I guess it is a control thing for the guy.
But many here seem to be into it so I guess you can recieve pleasure from it. But its not for me!!
As for things I havent done(and never will), I can not see how anyone can possibly enjoy having some shit on them!! You cant get any grosser then that in my book!!
Toe-fucking! Just why?
Feet are good for standing on and maybe the odd toe job but that's it as far as I am concerned.
Okay LadyX I see what your saying. I would have to agree with Lavish, I don't get the whole having sex with someones feet or toes. I mean a foot massage is one thing and maybe a lil toe sucking. I wouldn't want to get atheletes penis lol.
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
Or a corn on the cob LOL!
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
I don't like being tied up. I like to use my hands and feel my ladies body. I just don't see the attraction of laying there doing nothing while she rides me or uses her mouth on me.
Dom/me & Sub ... acquiring and then exerting that level of control, training & responsibility over another individual's thoughts and activities.
Harem or stable construction is like wise... wtf?
Oh... and frozen cum cubes. Collection of semen and then what are you supposed to do with the stuff? Ain't going up my ass, Ashanti!
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Biting. Was with a girl once, long time ago, who was really into biting. And not just the traditional neck chomping. She wanted to grab onto all parts of my body -- ears, shoulders, stomach, cheeks, legs -- with her teeth. She wasn't trying to hurt me. She just liked using her teeth, and chewing and nipping a bit. It was like having sex with a small, playful shark. And it made me want to flee.
I doubt if I could ever be anyone's sub. You'd see flying pigs before I would call anyone Master or Mistress. Whilst I believe one partner is always more dominant than the other, I just don't get the full-on Dom/Sub thing.
Handjobs. If I can use my mouth or any other orifice whats the point of a handjob. I suck at them big time. Guys are great at them for a reason
The whole face fucking/gagging thing just....pisses me off. I love pleasing him with my mouth, but the whole ramming it in there until I'm gagging thing shows me a profound lack of respect for me as a partner. I'm sucking it because I truly enjoy pleasing him that way, but he's not controlling or forcing me in any way, which makes it all the more of a turn on for ME! Besides guys, if you're ramming it into her throat, you never know what a gag reflex can do to a girl's mouth, like, say, cause it to clamp shut suddenly?
Ever think of that while you're enjoying your porn of some poor girl getting throat reamed?
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CQ...that's why you have teeth...you won't have to use them but one time!! There is NOTHING appealing about what you've described...I consider it sexual assault/ !!
