PLEASE NO MEN!
So is this the new 'code' word for someone who is really a man pretending to be a lesbian or bisexual female?
That is the first thing I suspect when I see it in a profile.
lol... so does that mean it really gets results for these guys or do they just think it will????
You reminded me of a newbie female author who subheaded "I'm writing this story as I see there isn't many stories aimed for women."
I laughed out loud physically when I read that. Because yeah isn't there more female authors to male authors in ratio on lush? So of course there is many stories stories aimed for women.
As for the "Please no men" I find that laughable too. I can understand if it's a lesbian but I guess some guys are not in favour of talking to guys.
I simply see it as a clear notice that whoever writes it is here only for the 'hookup' posibilities, and not worth my time.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
That is how I see it too...
It's kind of rude, I mean, you don't have to accept anyone as a friend...
actually no its not i have no men in my profile because i want only to talk with other cross dressers or women who want to talk to me its now about trying to score. oh wait a minute i keep forgetting that im lot older then and forget about the pettiness of some of the young in game playing im her fro reading and if something else comes by im not going to refuse it
agreed. They're all 14 (mentally and emotionally) if not physically. Or, they're men. Or both.
ok, the other possibility (and i'm not discounting the OPs first assumption, i think there's truth in it) is that the whole 'no men' thing is a knee jerk reaction after getting bombarded with horny, bored, pushy, rude guys. while i am not at all about the whole 'no men' thing, i did recently change my sexual preference from bi to lesbian, so that the guys who don't know me, those few who take the time to read bios, won't hit on me. it gets OLD after a while being in chat rooms and just getting random 'want to cyber?' from guys based in nothing more then my gender.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
It could be a man posing as a female, which is truly sad, or it could be a woman that is fed up with men hitting her up for cyber, or could be a way to limit or screen potential friends. Either way if you don't want to be someones friend then don't accept. I get so many that sometimes I miss the ones I would like to add; more often then not, though, I just shake my head and hit delete.
I don't think its fair to assume that any female with that message is a male trolling.
Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. "Yes" is the answer. ~Swami X
See also "I'm in a straight relationship at the moment, but have very naughty thoughts about girls" or "girls, my house-mate is also on lush check out his profile..."
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1. Banner in-all-caps "NO MEN".
2. A full gallery of nude and semi-nude photos claiming to be them. Usually they are all headless with varying breast/nipple sizes, a self-pic in the mirror collection where you see 'she' is often using a number of different kinds of camera-phones in many of the pics OR it's a gallery-set of 12 pics of the same girl which all appear to be taken at the same time in a slow-undress in amazingly professional lighting.
3. This person doesn't write stories, nor do they vote/comment on any stories on the site. In fact the 'stories' bit in the url domain name goes mostly unacknowledged.
4. Their status updates declare that they are constantly wet and horny for other girls and tease with extravagant stories of how they just had an all-female orgy the night before or they sat masturbating on their female boss's desk that day wearing a see-through shirt and no panties.
5. They spend a lot of time commenting on other girl's photos on the site in an overly "I want to suck your dripping pussy" kind of way when they don't even know them.
I think those are the beginner's basics.
I am not looking for hook-ups, but I'm here to write, so I don't have any "no men, no lesbians, no transsexuals" rules governing my profile. I just judge on a person-by-person basis. It works pretty smoothly 95% of the time. People should be more concerned with the quality of the person than by their gender or sexual identification when it comes to building a friend list, in my opinion.
Believe it or not, prior to chatting with someone I always go to the profile page. I won't chat with someone who doesn't put any info up. Not to mention I always like the ones that initiate a chat and when I ask how they are doing, the response is that they are bored and horny and really wet from reading stories. It would be like standing in a bar and having someone walk up to you and say hey do you want to fuck?
I always try to be respectful to whomever I am chatting with.
This thread is quite entertaining! Missy had already relayed her suspicions about the NO MEN! thing awhile back and Dancing_Doll made some great observations. The fun banter between Sprite and Magical-Felix was highly entertaining as always.
I have noticed that any real lesbians in real life that I have known had guy friends for friends and gay guys have women for friends too. Certainly there are lots of people that are friends and sex has nothing to do with it.
As a straight male I do not want to jump every females bones (okay maybe when I was 19, I mean those hormones were out of control. non-stop erection and all, brain did not function properly...you know!!!) But now I just like to be friends. Besides I am with the woman that really raises the flag up my pole anyhow.
And believe me if their bio says NO MEN! I am thinking either it is a man or someone with a very small mind. Actually a man with a small mind and probably a small member, too. haha