Active Ink Slinger
If you have one, please list if you work together and if you re married..etc.
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friends with benefits, married or not, do you have one?
I have one, we do not work together (thank ye Gods) and I'm not married, neither of us are, actually. We met in college and sex was the first thing we spoke about, he suggested we have sex, I gave him a blowjob and eight years down the line we still mess around together. In case you're wondering, neither of us fancy each other or have feelings of love. It's all based on sex and that's how it's staying, until one of us meets someone and then we'll stay faithful to whomever we meet.
Also, it's "etc", not "ect". It's short for et cetera, please get it correct next time.
Also, it's "etc", not "ect". It's short for et cetera, please get it correct next time.
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freinds with benifits, well, since I'm married I do not cheat on my wife and never will. but I do have female friends that give me other benifits, friendship,other looks at any questions or problems, also a chance to talk to some one with different views. did those wild times they were fun but when I commetted to her Igave that part up. we both have lush accounts and are ok with fantasys with others, it spices things up but we know are limits.
I'm 19 and when i was 16 me and a boy i was at school with became friends with benefits because neither of us wanted a relationship. It meant we both got those urges under control without the hassle of a relationship. it was good because we were only together for sex i could still get good grades and that. But now we've both left school we decided to become a couple as we work so well together. People thought being friend with benefits was weird but it worked for us and it was kind of fun keeping it secret for about 4 months!
Active Ink Slinger
I have a little circle of friends with benefits I have know for years. I am not married but some of them are.
Detention Seeker
Yes I have friends with benefits they often give me what my partner can't.
Active Ink Slinger
not currently - have in past. FWB is a little dangerous though; people can easily get hurt.
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Active Ink Slinger
That seems to be a rather personal question. Why don't you tell us about any friends with benefits that you have DoctorLove?
Any proper relationship I've had has started off from deciding to have sex, becoming friends with benefits and developing feelings on the way. I just find it the best way to connect with girls, dating someone for a month before having sex isn't really my thing, and I'm not very good at expressing my interest like that.
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I had a friend with benefits when I was 21, and it didn't work out. I'm not married, not dating, and I prefer to not have a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits.
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Have had a few. Not any in the last decade or so. While divorced had one just about every night.
Active Ink Slinger
First off...I want to be just like Janet Haney!
Years ago while married I had benefits but would never call them friend :/
Years ago while married I had benefits but would never call them friend :/
Active Ink Slinger
I do not have any 
However, there are many temptations on Lush :)
However, there are many temptations on Lush :) My Stories
No Ordinary Gal
Fucked and Taken
That Special Evening
No Ordinary Gal
Fucked and Taken
That Special Evening
Active Ink Slinger
I do not have any However, there are many temptations on Lush :)
However, there are many temptations on Lush :) My Stories
No Ordinary Gal
Fucked and Taken
That Special Evening
No Ordinary Gal
Fucked and Taken
That Special Evening
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I do not have any However, there are many temptations on Lush :)
However, there are many temptations on Lush :) My Stories
No Ordinary Gal
Fucked and Taken
That Special Evening
No Ordinary Gal
Fucked and Taken
That Special Evening
Active Ink Slinger
I have a happy open marriage! Basically yes lol
I was in an unhappy marriage and had various friends with benefits. Some I would consider really good friends to this day, I just happened to fuck them also.
I feel I learned at lot from them sexually as they could be open and honest about what they liked, what worked and didn't work, without the usual 'don't want to upset my partner' fears.
Now I am in a new realtionship and manogamous. But I do miss my 'friends' and the variety sometimes ;)
I feel I learned at lot from them sexually as they could be open and honest about what they liked, what worked and didn't work, without the usual 'don't want to upset my partner' fears.
Now I am in a new realtionship and manogamous. But I do miss my 'friends' and the variety sometimes ;)
Active Ink Slinger
Have had a few. They have never ended badly for either party in my experience.
You need rules to be laid out before anything happens and it normally ends with one person getting into relationship or moving away.
You need rules to be laid out before anything happens and it normally ends with one person getting into relationship or moving away.
Advanced Wordsmith
Would not mind having fwb, looking to have some. Any pointers..
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I have thought about it, but it hasnt went any farther than that. Not saying that if the right friend came around that i would object to it.
Active Ink Slinger
once their married, they are off the market. plus i'm more of a relationship girl
Active Ink Slinger
I've never had one but have had offers over the years, even when I was in a very long and unhappy marriage. I never took anyone up on their offer or let things go any further than just talking about it. Perhaps I thought I couldn't handle it emotionally? I think I would consider it more seriously these days (at least in between relationships) and maybe even take the plunge provided there were indeed some 'rules' - I think the rules would be kinda important.
