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Does chemistry matter to you or
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Yes it’s key for me!
Rainbow Warrior
It starts with physical attraction, and I'll have sex on that basis alone. Chemistry just makes the relationship last.
Force of Nature
I am a tart. Chemistry is a bonus.
Looks like we're in for a nasty spell of wether.
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The Night They Tried to Close RUMPLATIONS Bar (with JamesLlewellyn)
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I am a tart. Chemistry is a bonus.
Ever the contrarian, eh?
I do get the appeal of going purely on attraction, it's just that it only gets me so far. Purely physical sex bores me after a couple go-rounds. Even when I was enjoying "professional companionship", I preferred ones that I clicked with on more levels than just physical. One lady who was my "go to" for a while was also a fantasy fan, for instance, and we would chat about that during lag times. 
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Yes
Chemistry matters to me and I learned this in spite of my lusty desires.
A couple of quick stories...
Many years ago, I and a couple of friends went to a cheap whore house. When it was my turn, I went up to the room. There was an attractive young black woman in a negligee (I'm white but black was a fantasy of mine). She asked if I wanted 50/50. I'd never been to a whore house before (or since) so I asked, what's 50/50? She said, "Half sucking, half fucking." I said 50/50 would be good. She started sucking but I couldn't take my mind off the fact that this environment had nothing to do with eroticism. It was very cold and had only to do with the sale of a product (sex) in exchange for money. I couldn't get it up. She began defending herself, saying she did everything she could. I said, "I know. It wasn't your fault," and I tipped her anyway because she did do everything she could. I was the problem - not her.
After I divorced my first wife I thought, now I can fuck 'em all. I had three "one night stands" within a short period of time. The first two women weren't very attractive but they had the necessary plumbing so I went for it. When it came right down to it, there was nothing about these women that turned me on so again, it didn't work. The third one was cute but she was drunk on her ass. I would have felt guilty taking advantage of her so that didn't work either.
I've had one night stands that were wonderful - because the chemistry was right. Admittedly, I was interested in more than a one night stand because of the chemistry, but anything more than one night of sex just wasn't in the cards.
A couple of quick stories...
Many years ago, I and a couple of friends went to a cheap whore house. When it was my turn, I went up to the room. There was an attractive young black woman in a negligee (I'm white but black was a fantasy of mine). She asked if I wanted 50/50. I'd never been to a whore house before (or since) so I asked, what's 50/50? She said, "Half sucking, half fucking." I said 50/50 would be good. She started sucking but I couldn't take my mind off the fact that this environment had nothing to do with eroticism. It was very cold and had only to do with the sale of a product (sex) in exchange for money. I couldn't get it up. She began defending herself, saying she did everything she could. I said, "I know. It wasn't your fault," and I tipped her anyway because she did do everything she could. I was the problem - not her.
After I divorced my first wife I thought, now I can fuck 'em all. I had three "one night stands" within a short period of time. The first two women weren't very attractive but they had the necessary plumbing so I went for it. When it came right down to it, there was nothing about these women that turned me on so again, it didn't work. The third one was cute but she was drunk on her ass. I would have felt guilty taking advantage of her so that didn't work either.
I've had one night stands that were wonderful - because the chemistry was right. Admittedly, I was interested in more than a one night stand because of the chemistry, but anything more than one night of sex just wasn't in the cards.
Sassy Red-haired Beach Kat/Dune Goddess
Chemistry is probably the most important factor for me.
New Mac & Grace story: Boardrooms & Boudoirs - Part Four -Chapters 13-16
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I think chemistry is very important, there was always very little between me and my ex-husband
Sassy Red-haired Beach Kat/Dune Goddess
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I think chemistry is very important, there was always very little between me and my ex-husband
At least you realized that and moved on. That can't have been easy. Cheers to you for choosing freedom.
New Mac & Grace story: Boardrooms & Boudoirs - Part Four -Chapters 13-16
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100%. Unless it Priyonka Chapra!!!! Lol
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Yes.
Her Royal Spriteness
i'm more into botany.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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Absolutely not just physical attraction. Needs to be chemistry there - essential for me.
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Sexy Seductive Siren
yes it matters. I need the emotional as well as the physical attraction otherwise the physical is meaningless and fleeting for me. Marking love with someone you care deeply for and who cares deeply for you is much more satisfying than a transitory fuck.
Meagan
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Yes and No
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It matters immensely, but if there's no physical attraction, a relationship won't work either. Lucky are the ones who find both in a partner.
Now if we're talking strictly fun, the chemistry means less, but is still important. A bad attitude is an instant boner killer haha
Now if we're talking strictly fun, the chemistry means less, but is still important. A bad attitude is an instant boner killer haha
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Yes
Sexy Seductive Siren
Physical and emotional is needed for me. I think chemistry has a part to play in both.
Meagan
