"If I got rid of my demons, I'd lose my angels too."

Update - not impressed with the new format so have joined TVChix. Feel free to look me up that.  Lots of lovely UK tgirls there too.

Friendly, open Swedish/Irish/Scottish mix tgirl (for want of a suitable label) who is happy to chat with most folk of all genders. But if you have a blank red/white avatar and/or blank profile, then just pass by as you obviously cannot be bothered to make the effort - being new is no excuse either.

Chat - I have learnt I cannot please everyone all of the time. I do try to be polite and respond but if I do not do it straightaway, it is likely that (i) I am either away or (ii) focusing on one person. Please do not whisper without first asking (unless I know you). I think that is only fair to them and me. Will occasionally do RP with an articulate person who catches my interest and imagination.

I do not consider myself a crossdresser. Nor do I have a strong desire to butcher the biological body I have, although sometimes I do have issues about it, which I am working on. Perhaps I might be bigender with a female side within me, as a second personality sharing the same body, which happens to be biologically male. A head doctor might have a different opinion!

Or perhaps if one tells oneself a thing enough times, they come to believe it? An alternative option is that perhaps I feel there is something lacking in my personal life. A feeling of unhappiness so creation of an alter ego, combined with a tendancy to over-analyse things and an obsessive nature, who can look for that missing something elsewhere. But does it actually make one any happier?

July 2021 - after almost a year of counselling to seek to address a raft of issues, mainly interlinked and historic, I was taken aback when the second counsellor stated she was of the opinion I am trans. This revelation seemed to lift a lot of emotional baggage and mental anxiety from me. And a lot of aspects seemed to click into place.

Whatever the truth is, all I ask is that you respect me as a human being and understand I view Kaylee Phoenix as a female in spirit and personality.

Obviously, gender identity is not the same as sexuality. In terms of my sexuality, I am attracted to those feminine tgirls with sensitive and understanding charms.

And I do love women, who are wonderful creatures, and appreciate their curves, beauty and femininity. They help inspire me to try and be a bit better. Would be delighted to chat to those women who can accept me, as I am mentally, emotionally and sexually attracted to them too these days!

Men - I am very fussy so now only really responsive to those who are articulate, intelligent, respectful and polite. A gentleman with a sense of humour and knows how to treat a lady well, with a glint in their eye.

So guess I am rather fluid, in a sexual sense. Does it really matter?

I like to think I am a bit classy, sultry and interesting. I am also kind, romantic and passionate so please do not greet me with saying you are horny. Invites for a cup of tea or a country walk are welcome.

I like to chat - general, serious, funny and also some flirting, when appropriate. But note I will rarely jump into sexual talk straight away so please do not try. I need my mind stimulated before anyone gets close.

August 2020 - I met someone who I have discovered is a very special person, so now I am unlikely to readily partake in cyber-sex chat quickly so please do not bother to dive in, thank you.

Please also note that I am not a bimbo nor am I looking for a Master or Mistress - those ideas and names do not appeal. But I do like strong characters. And, please, never call or refer to me as a sissy - I personally hate that term.

Friends (potential) - I will only accept requests after we have chatted a few times and connected and feel that we both want to get to know each other better. And please keep in touch as I prefer quality to quantity, even if just to say hi. Oh, and if you already have lots of friends, I am unlikely to accept - I will not be a notch to boost your Lush ego.

Friends (existing) - I do not expect constant communication with you. But I will 'spring clean' occasionally, so do keep in touch, chat, say hi, respond to messages, etc or else I will assume you have lost interest and, therefore, will let you go. But happy to re-friend if you wanted to ever reconnect and stay in touch.

Answers to common questions:-
(i) Yes, I am in an online relationship
(ii) The male side, R, has a partner of many years
(iii) No, I am not on hormones
(iv) No, I do not post explicit images of myself
(v) Yes, I have met a couple of Lush people for real

Anything else you might like to know? Feel free to ask....

October 2021 - went out in public for the first time.

December 2021 - went out in public for the second and third times.  Like a new lease of life.  So here is to 2022.

Interests
General interests:- walking; gardening; afternoon tea; music, scandi noir dramas and films.

Sexual interests:- depends on my mood and the atmosphere. I will not go into much detail in public.

Prefer to be equal in giving and receiving pleasure. But that depends on who the lover is. However, I do often know what I like and want...longer lasting loving. Although I have been shown that a hot 'quickie' can be most stimulating!

Favorite Books
The Chronicles of Thomas Covenant
The Lord of the Rings
The Barchester Chronicles
Morse

Favorite Authors
Stephen Donaldson
Tolkein
Trollope
Dickens
Hardy

Favorite Movies
Once Upon a Time in the West
Shawshank Redemption
A Few Good Men
Eastwood westerns and a lot of his others
A Muppet Christmas Carol
Pride and Prejudice

Favorite TV Shows
Morse
Only Fools and Horses
One Foot in the Grave
Scandi noir
Spiral (French)
Thou Shalt Not Kill (Italian)
Montalbano

Favorite Music
Variety of types.
Genesis. Springsteen. SJAAJ. Mott the Hoople/Ian Hunter. Concrete Blonde. Kansas. Nazareth. Abba. Pink Floyd. Diamond Dogs. Mona. Glasvegas. Golden Earring. Frank Turner. All American Rejects. ELO. etc etc
Some classical music too.
And the original Bat Out of Hell album.
And, of course, Bowling for Soup...

My guilty pleasures! I also like pop and dance music, especially 80s but some 70s stuff is ace too.

And the amazing Stevie Nicks....fab voice and what style!