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My sister runs a tea room in the L.A. area, so I have some authority on this answer.




thanks for clearing that up — though I'm still trying to get my head around a tea room that does not serve afternoon tea.CmJ1XbPT1foQiQ6V
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No. And tea where l'm from, is sweet and iced. Actually, sweet tea is the most common drink to accompany lunch and supper meals.


I feel your pain. I was brought up with sweet milky tea to accompany meals. Working-class as we were, Mum had aspirations, so we would sip from Royal Albert fine bone china, elaborately gilt and decorated cups and saucers, milk and sugar bowl table centre. Tea from a pot — leaves n'all.

I weened myself off sugar in tea in my twenties, but I was in my thirties before I could drink coffee without it.


We have a set of china cups and saucers in a cupboard we have not used since the seventies. A wedding gift from an aunt. We tell ourselves don't get shute, keep them as a backup for when posh visitors turn up unexpected. I think the moribund aluminium teapot would let us down, though.
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Nice. Sounds very civilised.

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I just shrugged my shoulders and took my other things, wondered if she had ever been in an actual fishmongers shop where all those glassy-eyes fish copses wait inspection laid out on cold marble, then handled, wrapped in plastic and greaseproof.


Ah yes, I had it and it was fine, thank you.

I must admit I'm funny about fish and poultry but I wouldn't be condescending to someone who bought some that was a bit fishy

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I feel your pain. I was brought up with sweet milky tea to accompany meals. Working-class as we were, Mum had aspirations, so we would sip from Royal Albert fine bone china, elaborately gilt and decorated cups and saucers, milk and sugar bowl table centre. Tea from a pot — leaves n'all.

I weened myself off sugar in tea in my twenties, but I was in my thirties before I could drink coffee without it.


We have a set of china cups and saucers in a cupboard we have not used since the seventies. A wedding gift from an aunt. We tell ourselves don't get shute, keep them as a backup for when posh visitors turn up unexpected. I think the moribund aluminium teapot would let us down, though.


Ice cold sweet tea is absolutely heavenly! And the best sweet tea is when the sugar is brewed into the tea. That's Southern style. I wouldn't have it any other way. Pain is when it's not available. My second favorite beverage for a meal is ice cold beer.

Now coffee, l like black, strong, and hot. No sugar.

Oh! I do enjoy hot Chinese tea with Chinese food or Thai food. No sugar.
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Lunch 12midday to 3pm. Dinner 6pm to 8pm. supper sometime after 9pm. Sometimes I eat all three, Fat cow! Teatime was in my younger days, somewhere it got replaced by Dinner. I don't know why. I prefer teatime, it sounds comforting
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thanks for clearing that up — though I'm still trying to get my head around a tea room that does not serve afternoon tea.slWWf891KEwMnuLO


She was open from 11 AM to 5 PM, so I guess it was all afternoon tea? Closed now due to the pandemic.

If you are curious, Google "Elise's Tea Room Long Beach CA" There are great photos of the shop, food, and menus.
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This might seem to be a fatuous question, but I call it dinner. However, my gf insists it's called tea and says dinner is what you have in the middle of the day - but I call that lunch.






Writing here has me fascinated with language differences, the other site I wrote for insisted on writing and spelling a la mode American. Nowadays I have my language set to Australian English though my keyboard set to US (when it gets accidently changed to UK the keyboard doesn't work proper - who knew?)

Dinner and tea I would use interchangeably, though I would say, "What's for dinner?" much more than, "What's for tea?"

Now high tea is something else of course, a few hotels do this down our way, effectively afternoon tea served between midday and three or four, three layers on a cake stand, petite sandwiches, scones with jam and cream (I am going to say more on that word) and cakes served with tea in proper china cups. Which is smeared on the scone first, the jam or cream, is its own source of debate. I confess I am totally in the 'jam first' camp.

Supper is a word I would only ever hear used for something small after say the theatre at about 10-11pm. Yet on Lush I have heard a lot of friends say supper when referring to their evening meal. Not country or class specific as far as I can tell.

The meal at noon is always lunch even if it is the main meal of the day, like Sunday lunch often is.

Back to scones. When Hannah (Palindromeredux) and I were writing Butch Cassidy and the Vegemite Kid our take on the differences between the USA and Australia, we had a hilarious debate about cookies, scones and biscuits; part of which ended up in the story. Who knew I needed translation to read stories in English.

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I call it "dinner". My other half calls it "tea". So we compromise at "supper".

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At school there were dinner ladies who served hot food in the canteen. If you brought a packed lunch to school you ate it in the lunch room.

At home it was dinner at tea time.

At the weekends it was lunch in the middle of the day on Saturday and dinner in the middle of the day on a Sunday.

Supper was what you ate before bed.

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Normal everyday, its supper.

A dinner should be for an occasion or something more elegant.

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I have for many years subscribed to the KISS principle (Keep It Simple, Stupid; and will accede to stupidity)The evening meal is the evening meal, End of.

Whilst you are sleeping, you are extremeley unlikely to eat: you are fasting. When you awake, the first food that you consume effectively breaks that fast, hence many English language users would call that Break Fast, usually presented as breakfast, though the French, of course, call it a little meal. (My son used to take his breakfast to bed to eat before he slept to save time in the morning, he's now a nearly 50 yo director af a multinatioanal who considers his own just teenage son wierd!).

Here in the UK, the norm is possibly for the next meal to be post-noon, 13:00–14:00, often called lunch, though in publishing we tended to have working lunches from about 12:30 to 16:45 — one had to get back to the office, There may have been a coffee/tea-break around 11:00, often called 'Eleveses'.

High Tea, a delicate and formal arrnagement, beloved of the Hibernians, was a comparitive rarity, but could be indulged if one had not had a working lunch, usually taken about 15:00.

Dinner was taken either at home, between 17:00 and 18:50 if young children involved, or 19:30 onwards if involving adults either at home or elsewhere.

Supper is a late light repast to stave of the hunger pangs of the nights' sleep and enforced fast.

Fortunately, having reached the maturer non-paid working years, today the first meal is effectively Brunch, there may be a mid-afternoon coffee and chockie biscuit (pity no café und kuchen), followed by a relatively light evening repast: might nibble on cheese and biscuits later with the wine.

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Dinner

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Supper, I only call it dinner for Sundays or special occasions.

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Dinner ok

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Lunch is the middle of the day, dinner is at night.

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But, what about second breakfast?

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I normally eat my main meal either side of 6 so I think of it as teatime, a throwback to my childhood. Lunch was always dinnertime then but I now think if it as lunch or often a brunch. I rarely have an official one but as a schoolboy we always had supper about 9 before we went to bed. Takes me back lol. If I go out for a meal in the evening that may be called dinner. I was and am from South Wales, UK.

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In France, nowadays dinner and supper are almost synonymous. However, a lot of people will call it dinner if it happens before 9pm, and supper if it happens later. While it's become rare in more rural areas, having supper is still frequent in metropolitan areas, because a lot of evening shows (plays, concerts) happen at the time people would have normally eaten dinner, and some decide to eat later instead.

Originally, and until the Industrial Revolution radically changed people's daily schedules, supper was actually a meal you had in the middle of the night. In the Middle-Ages, people woke up after sleeping for about 3 hours to eat a broth or a soup (hence the name "supper") and went back to sleep after that...

Just a little warning for those who are used to have dinner around 6pm and plan on visiting France: most restaurants don't open in the evening before 7 or 8pm... So if you're not going to cook by yourself, that leaves you with 3 options: 1) wait till a little later, 2) buy something at a bakery to help you wait the extra hours, or 3) eat fast-food, since those will be open at 6...

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In the Upper Midwest where I grew up, the evening meal (whether at 5pm or 9pm) was called supper. However, having lived on the West Coast I got disabused of that, and the evening meal for me is always dinner.

A big, formal afternoon meal, such as at Thanksgiving, can also be considered dinner.

Except maybe unless it starts during the usual lunchtime (before 1:00-ish), in which case it is often called a luncheon, to distinguish from an ordinary informal lunch.

That's it. There is no tea meal in America. Tea is a drink here, period.

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Food on a plate.

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Just a little warning for those who are used to have dinner around 6pm and plan on visiting France: most restaurants don't open in the evening before 7 or 8pm... So if you're not going to cook by yourself, that leaves you with 3 options: 1) wait till a little later, 2) buy something at a bakery to help you wait the extra hours, or 3) eat fast-food, since those will be open at 6...

Ha! Try eating out in Madrid before 10pm!

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