When it comes to oral I enjoy giving more. Both men and women. It gives me great pleasure listening to how well I am getting my partner off.
I am a giver and I love to give oral sex to a man or a woman. I love the sensation of a man's penis in my mouth and suck it until he explodes giving me my reward. In college I discovered the taste of an aroused woman and never looked back. I love my face nestled in her crotch, inhaling her scent as I devour her pink meat and succulent nectar. To feel her buck under me and then cum. Nothing is sweeter.
Oh yes! I love receiving, but maybe giving even more. To me it's almost more intimate and in tune with my partner than intercourse - what could be more intimate than his lips and tongue at my pussy or his cock in my mouth?
Please don't take this to mean that a big, hard cock inside of me isn't high on my list of life's greatest treasures as well. It's all good... except when it's excellent!
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Hard to choose. Probably a slight edge to giving, though ideally for me they're at the same time. I know others have said they have a hard time concentrating in a 69, and I know a lot of women aren't much into it. But to me it's so intimate and reciprocal to do little things to please your partner while they do little things to please you, and I also think it's easier to control the stimulation so we build to orgasm at about the same time. Honestly, I'd almost be willing to give up penis-in-vagina sex if I could 69 with a woman regularly. I like it that much.
With guys, giving is all I've experienced so far. I sure liked it a lot. Never received from a guy, though I've heard sometimes guys are better at it. 69 with a guy would be even more amazing, of course.
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It gives me tremendous gratification to satisfy a girl/woman orally, i.e. giving her orgasms and I will forego reciprocation or additional sex to convince her that I can be patient and accommodating. However, 69 is the ideal oral experience for me, to see who can last the longest or who can make their partner want to come first. It does not matter to me if she swallows or not as long as she enjoys what she does.
Much as I enjoy being pleasured, for personal enjoyment I just love making a girl squirm and orgasm. It's not a power thing it's a giving thing. If she loses control completely and squirts all over the bed it gives me a thrill. I can and have given oral all night and not bothered to have anything myself.
Both since you asked. Although I probably lean more to the giving side. I always figured that if I could drive a lover insane with my pussy licking skills they would be more willing to return the favor. I say the day I cannot bring a woman to orgasm with my tongue is the day I start preaching, because no man can save souls like one who has lost his own.