Just a few random rules and things we thought might be helpful. Feel free to add anything that you have found that makes it easier to be on her and have fun. We all just want to have fun and not hurt anyone's feelings. Let's all play nice!
Guideline Number 1: If you are in an "exclusive" relationship here, it would be helpful to mention it. Either on your profile or when meeting new people.
Guideline #2: Do not be mean to others for "fucking" your "gfriend, bfriend, etc". That is not FUN. And mean=ugly as fuck. It also makes you look crazy as hell and is kinda embarrassing to see....
Guideline #3: If you spend at least one hour per day stalking me, my tumblr, and my friends, fuck me or mind your own business. Oh and get a life because that is just sad.
I don't know why I even put Tumblr as I love being being followed. I will not remove/edit my original comment as it will fuck up the thread, but following and stalking, in my opinion, are not the same thing.
Guideline #4. Be honest, you don't have to tell people everything, but if someone tells you they are in a relationship, respect that. Don't question people's relationships. If they or you want to share they will.
Guideline #5 This one is very important to me. DON'T GOSSIP!!!!!! This is not high school. If you are on here you are an adult and should know better.
Guideline #6
Don't fucking LIE to your online GF/BF. It is just rude.
Guideline #7
Don't post "cutesie" pics on anyone else's comment wall. E.g. Hearts, holding hands, etc. This will cause an all out WAR.
Guideline #8
DO NOT post porn, couple pics or sensual (boobs and ass) pics on the wall of anyone else you know is "in a relationship". Doing so will cause one of the biggest drama's you have ever seen anywhere. EVER.
Guideline #9
If you are going to "cheat". Don't do it with someone else from the same site you knuckleheads. That's the quickest way to get caught!
Wow, I need to lie here on the lawn and re read all this ......................woof!
This is a very entertaining thread....
I suppose you all have experience with all of this.
Giggles...
xo
i'm gonna piggyback on the first guideline: don't claim anyone that doesn't claim you
Rule 11: if you are angry at someone, don't make the grave mistake of confronting them openly like an adult. Rookie mistake. Rather, leave obscure little references to your resentment in various Forum posts like bread crumbs, specific enough to make them uncomfortable, but vague enough to preserve deniability.
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
sage words ....
I have witnessed since my original time here in 2009 a whole lot of relationships.
Majority of them are similar to high school, laden with drama and changing partners like regular oil changes. I'm always leary of those folks and tend to just watch with fascination on how they continue. Great entertainment.
Then you will see those (a much smaller percentage) members that follow many of the guidelines above. For those people, this lush love is likely real life as well. As Nicola has said ... we have many couples who transferred from online to real life with getting married (to each other).
Great thread .... keep up the good work!
Van
And a question: I thought stalking someone's tumbler was Lush-speak for letting someone know you like them. Similar to flowers, but with porn and the threat of strangers poring over the intimate details of your life. Nothing says "you're sweet" like a slight hint of menace.
guideline #11: when never cyber with two different partners at the same time. they'll start getting suspicious when you send the wrong person the wrong msg.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Guideline #whatever: Do not, under any circumstances, pass on information about another friend's "exclusive" partner to that friend. Any kind of information, good or bad, gleaned from a tertiary source.
If it's bad, they either already know about it and are in denial, or they will find out very soon about it, and if it's good, it will just make Friend A wonder why you were talking about him/her with Friend B about Friend A's relationship.
Note: The no posting while drinking/under the influence rule as described by Dudealicious is a good one, too. Nothing good ever comes of posting while under the influence.
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