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Gill and Adi's Lush Relationship Guide

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simplyjohn
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Quote by sprite
guideline #11: when never cyber with two different partners at the same time. they'll start getting suspicious when you send the wrong person the wrong msg.


Well see I have mastered that ... just dont use their name .. just use terms like baby or wench or sweetie ... cant go wrong.
Gillianleeeza
Normal Adjacent
Guideline # ?. Never stay up late and start a forum thread. Just kidding, this has been very interesting.

Guideline # ? Have FUN, just find people you like and get along with and laugh with them. Or that other thing. I sometimes forget this is an erotica site, isn't it? I hope so or I have some explaining to do.

HAVE FUN! BE HONEST! BE YOURSELF.
Gillianleeeza
Normal Adjacent
Quote by Verbal
And a question: I thought stalking someone's tumbler was Lush-speak for letting someone know you like them. Similar to flowers, but with porn and the threat of strangers pouring over the intimate details of your life. Nothing says "you're sweet" like a slight hint of menace.


Tumblr, the only place where you don't mind strangers following you. Anyone can "stalk" my tumbr. I have the link on here so stalk away!
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Magical_felix


Like that one time you said you were spreading my labia minora.


that's near the dog star, right?

btw, if you're jewish, it's the labia menorah. biggrin

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by HeraTeleia


Note: The no posting while drinking/under the influence rule as described by Dudealicious is a good one, too. Nothing good ever comes of posting while under the influence.


you know that means i would never be able to post again, right?

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
cheatingfemalewanted
Advanced Wordsmith
With a face like mine I don't need to stalk people ;)

I have a tough time fighting them off I mean have you seen my avatar? It's like Lucifer and Lilith had a raunchy night and I was the 9 month surprise she'd been waiting to show him.

It's okay though I don't see either of them that much but I can understand why.

Lucifer has got the hottest dungeon around and there's a lot of customers.

Lilith has got the biggest soul collection around and she feels alive as it continues to grow. Pretty neat business if you ask me her daughters certainly approve.

They kicked me out of home because I was smoking the bud with Jesus and just kicking back. Man those were the days but I've had an awesome relationship with a woman called Mary and I can assure you... she knew what she was doing.

Yeah... with a face like this I get all the sex biggrin

Right said Fred :P
People that don't care, play games with people that do care. Life is just a game however and we all need to learn how to play it.
Magical_felix
Wild at Heart
Quote by sprite


that's near the dog star, right?



That's the first time I've ever heard anyone call the butthole that.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Quote by Gillianleeeza


Tumblr, the only place where you don't mind strangers following you. Anyone can "stalk" my tumbr. I have the link on here so stalk away!


Okay, I am going to start stalking your tumblr...NOW.

Wait, is it stalking if you announce it beforehand?

And btw, your advice to have fun, be honest, be yourself, and find people you enjoy is well said.
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by Gillianleeeza
Guideline # ?. Never stay up late and start a forum thread. Just kidding, this has been very interesting.

Guideline # ? Have FUN, just find people you like and get along with and laugh with them. Or that other thing. I sometimes forget this is an erotica site, isn't it? I hope so or I have some explaining to do.

HAVE FUN! BE HONEST! BE YOURSELF.


OMG Guideline #?? I am just reading this since we stayed up farrrrr too late and started this. I need to edit/explain the tumblr thing obviously
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by weekender
Rule #10-A
Unless they have passed a lie detector test..... you have their profile page pass code and confirmed for yourself thay you are the "ONLY ONE" on their friend list..... and that they have their account settings showing every usable block of all other residents of Lushville....... Never assume you are "exclusive", with anyone here!

Rule 10-B
And unless you are note willing to forgo all the background checking as noted above, don't say so if its not true.... or if you don't mean it...

Rule 10-C
Stick to Rule 10-A +B........ Unless you clarify it (It = stated exclusiveness) applies for the duration of our "1:1 chat", at that second.....


Exclusive whilst chatting one on one? Absolutely!! this has me giggling glitter everywhere
trinket
Convict
Quote by Verbal
And a question: I thought stalking someone's tumbler was Lush-speak for letting someone know you like them. Similar to flowers, but with porn and the threat of strangers pouring over the intimate details of your life. Nothing says "you're sweet" like a slight hint of menace.



Do not stalk the stalker, stalking (following) your partner's Tumblr.
trinket
Convict
Guideline #2366

NEVER NEVER NEVERRRRRR

post too many pics (more than 2) on one person's wall at a time. This is called "pic burying". So I've been told. We believe in Equal opportunity here on Lush.

(If you don't want it to seem like you are pic burying, enlist the help of a few friends to post a couple on that wall too. Shhhh )
Guest
Lurker
What's TUMBLR?

xx SF
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by trinket
Guideline #2366

NEVER NEVER NEVERRRRRR

post too many pics (more than 2) on one person's wall at a time. This is called "pic burying". So I've been told. We believe in Equal opportunity here on Lush.

(If you don't want it to seem like you are pic burying, enlist the help of a few friends to post a couple on that wall too. Shhhh )



now is this for any relationship? I wallpaper various walls somedays~my bad?? So when I post to, let's say, my BBF's wall, I should post a couple...wait so others can post and then post more??
Gillianleeeza
Normal Adjacent
Guideline # 98748 Put something on your own profile. It can be a complete fabrication, but put something there. It's not difficult and try to include at least something truthful. If you want someone's attention at least put in a little work.

Guideline #675849 Read profiles, there is often information there that will make any interaction you have with that person easier. Follow the suggestions people have on their profiles.

Guideline # 585068 If they don't have anything about posting pictures or what kind they prefer it is always best to ask first.

Guideline # 568109 Don't overreact to everything. Have a question? Ask the person directly.

It's not rocket science people, a little common sense and civility go a long way.

Happy Lushing!!!!
LaylaJune
Fancy Schmancy
Quote by stephanie


What's TUMBLR?

xx SF


I know what it is, but I had no idea that looking at someone's is, like a "thing."


I am also glad to know it is bad lushiquette to multi-post on someone's wall - I am hard pressed to get one out, every once in a while -- and usually motivated by an overwhelming sense of guilt and neglect.

This is a great thread!!
Gillianleeeza
Normal Adjacent
Quote by LaylaJune


I know what it is, but I had no idea that looking at someone's is, like a "thing."


I am also glad to know it is bad lushiquette to multi-post on someone's wall - I am hard pressed to get one out, every once in a while -- and usually motivated by an overwhelming sense of guilt and neglect.

This is a great thread!!


I didn't realize it either. I follow so many blogs that I must be a professional stalker. I think it depends on the person. I really don't care who follows mine. I think it's just when someone follows you to find out who you might be friends with. Then tries to use that information to further some sort of agenda they may have. I have a slight tumblr addiction.
Buz
The Linebacker
I don't know about all those rules, but I think I behave better on Lush than I do in my real 3D life.

But I've never known or even thought about rules for posting pics on friend's walls. If I post on your wall it's cause your a friend and I am under the impression you're open minded. I don't want a cyber sexual relationship. I enjoy friends though.
LaylaJune
Fancy Schmancy
Quote by Dudealicious
If you are drinking (heavily)

Just step away from the computer. Nothing good ever comes of it.



This is great advice no matter what aggravation may be emanating from the computer. All of a sudden, it just falls into place: wait a minute, I have a LIFE . . .


Also, I LOVE Adi's phrase "giggling glitter"
trinket
Convict
Quote by adi_me33


now is this for any relationship? I wallpaper various walls somedays~my bad?? So when I post to, let's say, my BBF's wall, I should post a couple...wait so others can post and then post more??



Adi you are clearly confused. It's for all "romantic" (WTF?) relationships. Just say you have a guy you are close friends with. YOU can post as many pics as you want to on his wall but no other girl can. Why? I have NO idea. It just "is". If a girl has a lush girlfriend, ONLY her gf can post lots of, AND sexy pics on her wall. Any other girl who does it is called a bitch and will end up in the "funny bitchez" thread. However, if a guy wants to post a couple of girl on girl pics on her wall that is ok because he's probably not trying to run off with her.

I'm not 100% sure these are the precise rules but it's somewhere thereabouts. Let's just all face it, you're damned if you do or don't so just post away and fuck what anyone else thinks. It's a picture ffs, not a diamond ring!

Clear enough for ya Best Bitch Forever??
LaylaJune
Fancy Schmancy
Quote by trinket



Adi you are clearly confused. It's for all "romantic" (WTF?) relationships. Just say you have a guy you are close friends with. YOU can post as many pics as you want to on his wall but no other girl can. Why? I have NO idea. It just "is". If a girl has a lush girlfriend, ONLY her gf can post lots of, AND sexy pics on her wall. Any other girl who does it is called a bitch and will end up in the "funny bitchez" thread. However, if a guy wants to post a couple of girl on girl pics on her wall that is ok because he's probably not trying to run off with her.

I'm not 100% sure these are the precise rules but it's somewhere thereabouts. Let's just all face it, you're damned if you do or don't so just post away and fuck what anyone else thinks. It's a picture ffs, not a diamond ring!

Clear enough for ya Best Bitch Forever??


Well, wait a minute - I go to post stuff on some people's pages (on occasion) and there is like OUCH!! all manner of stuff that often makes me shrink the screen immediately - going back and forth between all sorts of people. Are you telling me that such behavior brings out the worst in everyone? Is everyone always fighting about this stuff?
Gillianleeeza
Normal Adjacent
Quote by Buz
I don't know about all those rules, but I think I behave better on Lush than I do in my real 3D life.

But I've never known or even thought about rules for posting pics on friend's walls. If I post on your wall it's cause your a friend and I am under the impression you're open minded. I don't want a cyber sexual relationship. I enjoy friends though.


I started this thread and I'm now confused about posting pictures. I just read people's profiles and if in doubt just message the person in question and ask them.

They are only guidelines and they work for non-sexual friendships as well. I know some people are going to ask "What's a non-sexual relationship on here?" LOL. I should have called it common sense rules for human interaction.

I can't believe I have to state some of these things. I sometimes feel like I am referring children or toddlers who are refusing to share their toys.

It's been fun though to see what everyone has been posting.

Still good advice for all things, BE POLITE and use COMMON SENSE. HAVE FUN, LAUGH and when ind doubt ASK QUESTIONS!!!!!!

Not ME though, someone else, lol. Or I will have to change the name of this thread to Dear Gillian.
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by trinket



Adi you are clearly confused. It's for all "romantic" (WTF?) relationships. Just say you have a guy you are close friends with. YOU can post as many pics as you want to on his wall but no other girl can. Why? I have NO idea. It just "is". If a girl has a lush girlfriend, ONLY her gf can post lots of, AND sexy pics on her wall. Any other girl who does it is called a bitch and will end up in the "funny bitchez" thread. However, if a guy wants to post a couple of girl on girl pics on her wall that is ok because he's probably not trying to run off with her.

I'm not 100% sure these are the precise rules but it's somewhere thereabouts. Let's just all face it, you're damned if you do or don't so just post away and fuck what anyone else thinks. It's a picture ffs, not a diamond ring!

Clear enough for ya Best Bitch Forever??


Crystal fucking clear. Now I am off to post pics where ever I fucking want thank you. BTW our bitchship is pretty romantic.
adi_me33
Lady GlitterGiggles
Quote by Gillianleeeza


I started this thread and I'm now confused about posting pictures. I just read people's profiles and if in doubt just message the person in question and ask them.

They are only guidelines and they work for non-sexual friendships as well. I know some people are going to ask "What's a non-sexual relationship on here?" LOL. I should have called it common sense rules for human interaction.

I can't believe I have to state some of these things. I sometimes feel like I am referring children or toddlers who are refusing to share their toys.

It's been fun though to see what everyone has been posting.

Still good advice for all things, BE POLITE and use COMMON SENSE. HAVE FUN, LAUGH and when ind doubt ASK QUESTIONS!!!!!!

Not ME though, someone else, lol. Or I will have to change the name of this thread to Dear Gillian.



Clearly we did not think this through (shocking). It is nice to learn of some new things that may or may not be true. That being said....

Being HONEST and UPFRONT with people really should cut down on possible "altercations" and/or accusations. Oh and good morning Gill
LaylaJune
Fancy Schmancy
Quote by adi_me33


Clearly we did not think this through (shocking). It is nice to learn of some new things that may or may not be true. That being said....

Being HONEST and UPFRONT with people really should cut down on possible "altercations" and/or accusations. Oh and good morning Gill



Let me know how that HONEST and UPFRONT thing works out for you. You might want to be fitted with a catcher's mask before proceeding further. Jus' sayin' . . .
simplyjohn
Site administrator
Get to know your friends and understand what is acceptable to them and what is not .. for goodness sake .. so much here is the same as real life .. its not rocket stuff *shakes head*