Just a few random rules and things we thought might be helpful. Feel free to add anything that you have found that makes it easier to be on her and have fun. We all just want to have fun and not hurt anyone's feelings. Let's all play nice!
Guideline Number 1: If you are in an "exclusive" relationship here, it would be helpful to mention it. Either on your profile or when meeting new people.
Guideline #2: Do not be mean to others for "fucking" your "gfriend, bfriend, etc". That is not FUN. And mean=ugly as fuck. It also makes you look crazy as hell and is kinda embarrassing to see....
Guideline #3: If you spend at least one hour per day stalking me, my tumblr, and my friends, fuck me or mind your own business. Oh and get a life because that is just sad.
I don't know why I even put Tumblr as I love being being followed. I will not remove/edit my original comment as it will fuck up the thread, but following and stalking, in my opinion, are not the same thing.
Guideline #4. Be honest, you don't have to tell people everything, but if someone tells you they are in a relationship, respect that. Don't question people's relationships. If they or you want to share they will.
DO NOT post porn, couple pics or sensual (boobs and ass) pics on the wall of anyone else you know is "in a relationship". Doing so will cause one of the biggest drama's you have ever seen anywhere. EVER.
Rule #10-A
Unless they have passed a lie detector test..... you have their profile page pass code and confirmed for yourself thay you are the "ONLY ONE" on their friend list..... and that they have their account settings showing every usable block of all other residents of Lushville....... Never assume you are "exclusive", with anyone here!
Rule 10-B
And unless you are note willing to forgo all the background checking as noted above, don't say so if its not true.... or if you don't mean it...
Rule 10-C
Stick to Rule 10-A +B........ Unless you clarify it (It = stated exclusiveness) applies for the duration of our "1:1 chat", at that second.....
Rule 11: if you are angry at someone, don't make the grave mistake of confronting them openly like an adult. Rookie mistake. Rather, leave obscure little references to your resentment in various Forum posts like bread crumbs, specific enough to make them uncomfortable, but vague enough to preserve deniability.
I have witnessed since my original time here in 2009 a whole lot of relationships.
Majority of them are similar to high school, laden with drama and changing partners like regular oil changes. I'm always leary of those folks and tend to just watch with fascination on how they continue. Great entertainment.
Then you will see those (a much smaller percentage) members that follow many of the guidelines above. For those people, this lush love is likely real life as well. As Nicola has said ... we have many couples who transferred from online to real life with getting married (to each other).
And a question: I thought stalking someone's tumbler was Lush-speak for letting someone know you like them. Similar to flowers, but with porn and the threat of strangers poring over the intimate details of your life. Nothing says "you're sweet" like a slight hint of menace.
Quote by Verbal Rule 11: if you are angry at someone, don't make the grave mistake of confronting them openly like an adult. Rookie mistake. Rather, leave obscure little references to your resentment in various Forum posts like bread crumbs, specific enough to make them uncomfortable, but vague enough to preserve deniability.
oh .... this is so high school-like .... and I bust up laughing when I read that they are so over it, so mature, blah blah blah.
again .... heavy drama for all of us to watch and be entertained by!
guideline #11: when never cyber with two different partners at the same time. they'll start getting suspicious when you send the wrong person the wrong msg.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Quote by sprite guideline #11: when never cyber with two different partners at the same time. they'll start getting suspicious when you send the wrong person the wrong msg.
Like that one time you said you were spreading my labia minora.
Guideline #whatever: Do not, under any circumstances, pass on information about another friend's "exclusive" partner to that friend. Any kind of information, good or bad, gleaned from a tertiary source.
If it's bad, they either already know about it and are in denial, or they will find out very soon about it, and if it's good, it will just make Friend A wonder why you were talking about him/her with Friend B about Friend A's relationship.
Note: The no posting while drinking/under the influence rule as described by Dudealicious is a good one, too. Nothing good ever comes of posting while under the influence.
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