good question! sounds a little crazy to me too. personally i would feel weird knowing someone's dirtiest secrets and desires before getting to know them as a person first...
I could see it happen... on here, you drop your inhibitions... it's basically because you don't expect to find love here in the first place, so you open yourself up to anything, and can be surprised with the result. There are great people here... often people who wouldn't talk about their "dirty secrets" in real life as openly. Once that barrier is out of the way... anything goes.
You know, I don't see why it couldn't happen. I've heard of relationships and even marriages that have started because of this site.
Yes it can..... and has.....
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It's as good a place as any to find the love of your life. I wouldn't turn my nose up at a relationship with a Lushie if I really liked them. I think it's romantic.
I could easily fall in love with a girl from Lush.
Actually, I think I already have.
Even true love has to start some wheres
Lush is just another variation of a social networking site. Internet dating, hook-ups, e-ordered brides, affairs, arranged marriages and true-love-bliss has already become the norm for millions (or maybe even bizillions or kajillions?) of people. As with most relationships, it starts with lust/infatuation and moves into something more meaningful if the connection is right.
So yes... it's very possible to start here, but it has to go beyond Lush.
I would say I was already on the path to being in love with MK when I introduced him to lush. But I also think it's enhanced out communication on some subjects.
I would say I was already on the path to being in love with MK when I introduced him to lush. But I also think it's enhanced out communication on some subjects.
It can be true. I met my boyfriend of over 14 months on here. He is the most amazing guy I have ever known. He really is the perfect guy for me. I was really surprised that I found him on here of all places. I feel so lucky that I did though. I can not see myself with another person. He is the one I plan on being with the rest of my life
I dont really think so. I mean unless you are one of those people that actually MEET other people on here then I think its really illogical to think you can fall in love on here. Most cases I think its just lust. And then there are the really unhealthy relationships on lush where you THINK your in love with someone you've never actually met. What seems to happen here is that neither of you actually know that much about eachother but because you are in front of a computer screen and not the actual person you feel like you can say whatever you want. So girls can tell you their 'sluttiest' desires and deepest insecurities and it wont matter if you leave bcuz there r a thousand other guys on here. But if you stay then we are infatuated with you. And guys can also say whatever they want. They can be whoever they want, something they may not be able to do in real life. They can be the bad boy, even if they're a shy nerd in real life. Hell I even met one guy who just wanted someone to talk to, to tell about is day and vent to someone. For all I know in real life he could be the macho man. So I guess what I'm trying to say is that its the easiest thing in the world to fall in infatuation with someone on lush, because 80% of us arent who we say we are. And that's okay. There's nothing wrong with it. But I'll have to say I think it is EXTREMELY rare to fall in love on lush, if not impossible.
If you are free to fall in love, I think it is possible to meet someone via Lush. Sexual compatability is so important in a healthy, long term and loving relationship. I guess therefore when you meet someone on Lush, as opposed to in real life, that area of your persona is one of the first to be explored. Yes, I know that can lead to lust and not love, but that may not always be the case. Afterall, from lust can come love, can it not?
Just the other day I commented on my profile, "No one ever looked across a crowded room and thought, 'Cor, look at the mind on that!"
Well, in here, particularly where the avatar pic is not of the Lushie, the mind is the first part of the person we meet, so with that milestone out of the way, a more enlightened lust can occur when we see the Lushie in the flesh as it were.
That then just leaves the normal process of falling in love, or not, to carry on as before.
So yes, I would say it's possible, even without the evidence above to prove it. And to those that have done it already, Good luck!