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Do people really fall in love on lush?

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It can only be true love if both user's are single.
If one is married then it's cheating and wasting your time unless you don't mind sneaking around.

And if you only text after that hoe keeps telling you that it loves you but it won't voice chat/ then that user is Indian or its an Ivanka.
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Fall in love? Yes
Stay in love? Maybe
In my case NO!
The big fat liar got caught!
Disappeared from my life and lush!


Sounds like you dodged a bullet - you are much better off
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I met my wife as we both walked out of the bathrooms simultaneously at her work place that i was visiting.

If you can meet your soulmate coming out of the shitter, doesn't seem so far fetched you could meet them here.
Love Bug
I married my Lush love and it has been the best thing. We are blessed to have found each other here so sure it can and has happened to others.
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There is something to be said about revealing your "dirty secrets" to a person who loves that about you. Who makes you feel normal, protected, safe and loved. Lush allows you to be yourself without any filter. And when you meet someone that you enjoy without their real life filters, it can create an intimacy unlike anything most will ever have in our daily physical life. I don't like to call life outside of lush "real life" as life on Lush can be real as well.

People come here that are "in love" with their partners in their physical lives but say they cannot share Lush with them. It always makes me wonder what they are hiding from each other and what would happen if they just shared all their secrets. If there isn't truth in their relationship, is it truly a fully committed loving relationship? I'm not saying those couples don't love each other, but it seems a surface level love based more on tradition, convenience, obligation, affection, finances, etc. Those relationships don't seem like they are the Romeo and Juliet type of 'I'll die if I can't have you' kind of love.

Yes, love is rare. But after experiencing the depth of affection, lust, and love that I have with my love here, and comparing that to past "loves" that I've actually touched, there is no doubt in my mind who is my real life love.

Yes, you can get hurt here. But that can happen anywhere. Yes, there are liars here. But there are liars everywhere.

Yes, you can find love here. Love happens whenever two people connect at a soul level and put in the work to make it continue to grow. It takes incredible amounts of work, time, tears, heart and total commitment, but it can bring you a love like you never imagined could exist-not even in your best daydreams.

And that is truly rare anywhere.




I agree with all of this! Thank you!

I don’t understand why people think you can’t find love on Lush. Love can be found anywhere, with anyone and often when you are least expecting it.
Love can, and has, been found here by many. Including myself ?.
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I am thinking about thisery deeply.I think that it is possible for two people to become attracted to each on lush and form a bond with each other. I think that complications can arise when trying to differentiate between what is in our mind and what is reality. I have belonged to many befriending websites since the social media first began and in that time I have made many people who I have liked and have enjoyed that connection with them. I have also found out how very easy it is to trust people when it is so very easy for anyone to pretend something that they are not as in hiding behind the seceurity of a computer screen. This causes difficulties with trust which particually is even more important when using the internet. It is very easy to get hurt particularly when we find that we do actually like someone . I do not make friends very easily because in the past I have been hurt so many times. But I also do believe that it is possible to find the love because I believe in love I am an old romantic. I hope you all can find true love because love is out there for everyone of you.
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I think you can fall in love with the words that you read. Not so sure if you can love what you see on a screen. The mind can be a wonderful dream or it can be a nightmare if one is foolish to believe in glass slippers waiting at the end of a rainbow. My love is not a fantasy or toy to play with. I show my character in words and share a love-bond with my family. I like people who are honest and don't try to snooker. One has to use common sense and logic on Lush. There are some genuinely fine people on the site, but there also are lost souls who have been left at the depot of life, and become bitter. Bitter because they made it so.
Yes but some are just fun.

One is ready to make the plunge while the other is married and will sneak out... if your ass is married and truly knows that they won't get divorce to be w/ their cyber partner then why string them along? Then they break up and the one that has baggage will find another cyber and swoon all over again.

It's laughable.


I love Lush but some are you are whack w/ these relationships.

And no, I don't do cyber/long distant relationships. I only speak from what I've heard from other's.
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Yes but some are just fun.

One is ready to make the plunge while the other is married and will sneak out... if your ass is married and truly knows that they won't get divorce to be w/ their cyber partner then why string them along? Then they break up and the one that has baggage will find another cyber and swoon all over again.

It's laughable.


I love Lush but some are you are whack w/ these relationships.

And no, I don't do cyber/long distant relationships. I only speak from what I've heard from other's.








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An emotional connection can be there which is worse then physical.

Be honest w/ yourself and your cyber partner. It's fun and can be more if both are unattached.
Sexy Seductive Siren
They could and I know some who have. Real problem is that (1) Lush is intended to be a dating/find a partner site. Most people here are trying to escape reality, to find something missing in their life, not to add another burden on top of those they already carry, (2) the very, very few who do comprise a very very small minority of the number of members. It is true that you'll never know unless you step out, but I know, from my own experience, some people just don't know how to take the words "no," "No," "NO!" Very frustrating, for me anyways, with some members. But the few who do meet their soul mate here aren't representative and I think might give a false hope of success to others. Just MHO.
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Yes it can happen sometime...I met Siri here 2 years ago,...we had our wedding this past
September 27th in Amsterdam...smiles

I've met two Lushies in person since 2014, both times were much fun to finally meet up.

Maybe you can never really know about such things until ya looking into each other's eyes
or taking a boat ride together down the Seine at night.

I think there are many here who seek love und not simply hot play always.
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Yes it can happen sometime...I met Siri here 3 years ago,...we had our wedding this past
September 27th in Amsterdam...smiles


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I am thinking about thisery deeply.I think that it is possible for two people to become attracted to each on lush and form a bond with each other. I think that complications can arise when trying to differentiate between what is in our mind and what is reality. I have belonged to many befriending websites since the social media first began and in that time I have made many people who I have liked and have enjoyed that connection with them. I have also found out how very easy it is to trust people when it is so very easy for anyone to pretend something that they are not as in hiding behind the seceurity of a computer screen. This causes difficulties with trust which particually is even more important when using the internet. It is very easy to get hurt particularly when we find that we do actually like someone . I do not make friends very easily because in the past I have been hurt so many times. But I also do believe that it is possible to find the love because I believe in love I am an old romantic. I hope you all can find true love because love is out there for everyone of you.


Very wise words danceswith wolves - I've been fortunate enough to meet someone recently online who I care about very deeply and have become attracted to, and
I'm hoping we will become close friends.

You see - I'm an old romantic too !
There are no strangers here - just lots of sexy friendly folk to chat with ?
Of course smile a lot of my friends are now married or seriously dating BEYOND the screen lol and they met here on lush!! So yes it can happen :)
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I am sure people fall in love on lush. Many people find each other on Forums. So I think it's very common. I've met a few people on different Forums and developed close friendships. I never fell in love with anyone though. Think it's because of chemistry, I just didn't feel that close connection with them. Sure it does happen though.
Just celebrated our two year anniversary ❤ Lush brought us together and I'm so grateful it did. He is the most amazing thing in the world. ?
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Yes but some are just fun.

One is ready to make the plunge while the other is married and will sneak out... if your ass is married and truly knows that they won't get divorce to be w/ their cyber partner then why string them along? Then they break up and the one that has baggage will find another cyber and swoon all over again.

It's laughable.


I love Lush but some are you are whack w/ these relationships.

And no, I don't do cyber/long distant relationships. I only speak from what I've heard from other's.







This still stands.
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never thought people could actually fall in love on forums.. but this thread changed my mind!
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Yes but its mostly unfortunate ( note i said mostly not completly)

Lush very often about plastic love
To most these people its just a game, and its best not to.allow yourself to get caught up in it
Unless your willing to get hurt because I promise if you aren't already jaded its going to hurt.

Some people probably don't mean to hurt people
But then there are those who enjoy it.

Let me also add that a lot of these people aren't who they say.
That's their right but if they want to get into relationships or have deeper friendships
They need to be ready to be honest.

Not be in their 50s pretending to be 18-20 ect ( that's fucking pathetic )
Or playing a chick when they are packing cock
Or lying about feelings and making their feelings into their own little lame ass RP
Or telling stories to gain sympathy and get into your heart


Then there are those here that demand monogamy from you
But they don't do the same in fact they have about 15 accounts to fuck around on

But a lot of the issues are communication and failure to understand


I'm an emotional chick i love more than I should and give more than I should
So despite saying everything above I have ?
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I love the image in my mind of Vanessa smoking a cigar. And Skald casting above the runes. And Jess running at midnight. And Suzy's smiling eye. And, and, and...

It is all I am capable of and it is enough for me. The rest of you are on your own.
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I love the image in my mind of Vanessa smoking a cigar. And Skald casting above the runes. And Jess running at midnight. And Suzy's smiling eye. And, and, and...

It is all I am capable of and it is enough for me. The rest of you are on your own.


That has to be one of the most romantic things anyone has ever said about me.


I'm not sure I'd say its impossible to find love out here because people have.
Now friendships, those can be found and treasured.
There are people out here with incredible talents, people who can relate to you and understand how you see the world.
It sounds tremendously dumb and blindingly obvious to say it but not everywhere is like that
We all know someone who just didn't fit in somewhere and had to leave to find where they needed to be.
Not everyone can do that for a mot of reasons so to have someone who you can bond with, laugh with and share tales of our lives with is incredibly important.

Yeah sure in the real world we'd all be hooked up with Natalie Portman (maybe just me) having endless sex, swanky dinner parties and living like the 1% appear to.
Sometimes we just can't find people who like what we do to the same level we do.


Anyway I'm repeating myself, time to get off the soapbox.
Whatever was posted is always meant in love and respect never to offend.
I'm also highly likely to have posted this from a phone so there may be typos or odd word changes, auto correct can be a pain.

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Lush very often about plastic love


You luv me long time, baby.

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I have.

But we were very lucky, in a number of ways. And honesty and communication, even when uncomfortable (actually, especially when uncomfortable) was the engine that made it run. And makes it run to this day. smile

Ping, that pic above this post is insanely hot. Not so much the padlock. But everything else.
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Ping, that pic above this post is insanely hot. Not so much the padlock. But everything else.


Show the pic to LJ. I’m thinking she’ll change your mind.

BTW, we need your mini-van/mobile vomitorium at Rump’s RFN. Park in the back. Leave it unlocked.