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I have noticed that there are people on here who dont like or have never tried anal, why not?
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Why would you not like anal?
Active Ink Slinger
I can not think of even one reason!
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There are some things we enjoy and some things we don't. I enjoy anal, but I know people who do not. There are also people who are into things that I'm not into. There doesn't have to be a reason. The beauty of sexuality is that we can all learn and explore and discover things we like and things we don't.
Why focus on the things we don't like when the time could be much better spent indulging in the things we do like?
To each his/her own.
Why focus on the things we don't like when the time could be much better spent indulging in the things we do like?
To each his/her own.
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There are some things we enjoy and some things we don't. I enjoy anal, but I know people who do not. There are also people who are into things that I'm not into. There doesn't have to be a reason. The beauty of sexuality is that we can all learn and explore and discover things we like and things we don't.
Why focus on the things we don't like when the time could be much better spent indulging in the things we do like?
To each his/her own.
Well said. I completely agree to this response. I myself love Anal and it is one of the best way's to make me hit my orgasm, but its definitely not for everyone.
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Cryptic Vigilante
I'm not completely closed to the idea, but I've had rather bad experiences with random girls in the past. Let's face it, the anus is undoubtedly the dirtiest part of the human body, so anal sex can sometimes lead to gross surprises if no proper measures are taken.
With one girlfriend I had, we enjoyed it at least once a week, although it was mainly softer, massaging anal penetration with pussy play. That girl would usually have a poo in the morning, and perfectly cleaned her anus with a dildo afterwards in the shower. When we performed anal sex in the evening, it never led to any messy misadventure.
I performed harder anal pounding with some other girls without much issues (maybe I was simply lucky), but I'd much rather enjoy vaginal penetration as it's naturally lubricated and feels more natural. I like anal for a change, but it's definitely not a favorite practice for me. Some girls love it though, so I sometimes provide what they're craving for.
With one girlfriend I had, we enjoyed it at least once a week, although it was mainly softer, massaging anal penetration with pussy play. That girl would usually have a poo in the morning, and perfectly cleaned her anus with a dildo afterwards in the shower. When we performed anal sex in the evening, it never led to any messy misadventure.
I performed harder anal pounding with some other girls without much issues (maybe I was simply lucky), but I'd much rather enjoy vaginal penetration as it's naturally lubricated and feels more natural. I like anal for a change, but it's definitely not a favorite practice for me. Some girls love it though, so I sometimes provide what they're craving for.
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I will probably never know one way or the other.
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Gingerbread Lover
I hate the idea of receiving anal sex. That's my poo passage, matey, and you can leave it alone! YUCK! I don't want anything nice going into where my poo comes out. Just my opinion, obviously.
I would be willing to finger a lad I loved if he was desperate for it up the bum, but only after he had scrupulously cleaned, and I would be wearing two pairs of gloves.
I would be willing to finger a lad I loved if he was desperate for it up the bum, but only after he had scrupulously cleaned, and I would be wearing two pairs of gloves.
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I like it, but an answer to the question of why I wouldn't is simple. Cleanliness is important, especially for that kind of play.
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I can think of 4 reasons off the top of my head why someone wouldn't like anal sex.
(That being said... I'm not one of them - I happen to love it)
1. It's "gay". For some reason the thought of anal sex for some guys (and girls) is an act that is associated with 2 men. Doesn't matter if it's a guy and a girl, they still think that way. Logic is not a strong point in this line of thinking.
2. It's disgusting. Well, in all honesty, it is. Without proper preparation it is gross. Which is why I still shudder at the thought of surprise butt sex if I haven't cleaned up. (Blech)
3. It's painful. Well yeah, it can be. Again proper preparation is key. You can't jam a square peg in a round hole, so what makes you think that you can ram a penis in there without a little foreplay and lube and some more foreplay and more lube and maybe even some relaxation on the girls part. IE: Orgasm helps.
4. It's . The one thing that can be a turn on for some people is a turn off for others. The stigma that's attached to it can go either way for some. Good or bad.
I think that's it... Oh wait. I forgot one more.
5. "I'll never poop right again!" This I don't know about. I've been having anal sex for almost 20 years. I'll have to get back to you on the long-term effects in another 20. So far so good though. I'm still regularly pooping properly.
(That being said... I'm not one of them - I happen to love it)
1. It's "gay". For some reason the thought of anal sex for some guys (and girls) is an act that is associated with 2 men. Doesn't matter if it's a guy and a girl, they still think that way. Logic is not a strong point in this line of thinking.
2. It's disgusting. Well, in all honesty, it is. Without proper preparation it is gross. Which is why I still shudder at the thought of surprise butt sex if I haven't cleaned up. (Blech)
3. It's painful. Well yeah, it can be. Again proper preparation is key. You can't jam a square peg in a round hole, so what makes you think that you can ram a penis in there without a little foreplay and lube and some more foreplay and more lube and maybe even some relaxation on the girls part. IE: Orgasm helps.
4. It's . The one thing that can be a turn on for some people is a turn off for others. The stigma that's attached to it can go either way for some. Good or bad.
I think that's it... Oh wait. I forgot one more.
5. "I'll never poop right again!" This I don't know about. I've been having anal sex for almost 20 years. I'll have to get back to you on the long-term effects in another 20. So far so good though. I'm still regularly pooping properly.
Her Royal Spriteness
i didn't used to have a problem with Anal sex and then... well, i had an issue with a boyfriend about how to go about coaxing me into having anal sex, after which i was strictly 'keep your cock away from my butt, mister' for a while. my wife, however has slowly helped me relax about it, as has being on Lush, where i can enjoy everyone else's joy of it - now? with the right person, i'm comfortable with it - is it my favorite thing? no. and i much prefer giving (rimming or finger play) then i do receiving - still, when i've had a drink or two and am loosened up, it's quite enjoyable, so yeah, i like conditional anal. 
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I'm still regularly pooping properly.
thank god. i've been meaning to ask, but now i can cross that question off my list...
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2. It's disgusting. Well, in all honesty, it is. Without proper preparation it is gross. Which is why I still shudder at the thought of surprise butt sex if I haven't cleaned up. (Blech)
Nice post, thanks a lot.
What is the proper preparation you speak of? As I mentioned, the only girl I steadily dated who did anal used to wash her anus with a dildo under the shower. Is it how all women do it?
Some more casual anal sex I had also featured a very clean ass. I figured these women must have done something prior too. Didn't feel like asking though.
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Nice post, thanks a lot.
What is the proper preperation you speak of? As I mentionned, the only girl I steadily dated who did anal used to wash her anus with a dildo under the shower. Is it how all women do it?
Some more casual anal sex I had also featured a very clean ass. I figured these women must have done something prior too. Didn't feel like asking though.
if she's using a dildo, she's probably doing it for the enjoyment factor. normally, just soap and water is enough - wash your anus and then give yourself a little anal douche/enema with warm water.
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I'm not completly closed to the idea, but I've had rather bad experiences with random girls in the past. Let's face it, the anus is undoubtedly the dirtiest part of the human body, so anal sex can sometimes lead to gross surprises if no proper measures are taken.
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if she's using a dildo, she's probably doing it for the enjoyment factor. normally, just soap and water is enough - wash your anus and then give yourself a little anal douche/enema with warm water.
No, she was doing it to wash her anus thoroughly on the inside. She would do ass to mouth sometimes, and said my penis never tasted anything.
PS: Dudelicious, that was pretty much my reaction when it happened. Nothing majorly gross really, but just seeing 'something' that shouldn't be on the tip of my dick gave me that reaction.
Active Ink Slinger
I may be open to trying it if my wife were interested, however I consider myself to be nigh ocd when it comes to personal cleanliness, particularly in the nether regions, and I imagine that the fear of even a properly cleaned passage causing a mess could keep me away, regardless of how well it had been cleansed.
that said, in stories where magical Christmas land comes true and messes never happen, it can be quite the entertaining subject
that said, in stories where magical Christmas land comes true and messes never happen, it can be quite the entertaining subject
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Well I love being fucked in the ass. So far, I haven't had the pleasure of a woman doing that to me, only men. I still hope to have the experience of a woman strapping on a cock and doing me.
I also enjoy fucking a clean ass, preferably female but men as well. Once I tried being fucked while fucking another guy. Reality was that it was too distracting to be all that enjoyable. Ever since, I've refrained from that, but getting fucked while sucking a man or woman remains high on my hit list. Best is being in a 69 while a guy does me in the rear.
I also enjoy fucking a clean ass, preferably female but men as well. Once I tried being fucked while fucking another guy. Reality was that it was too distracting to be all that enjoyable. Ever since, I've refrained from that, but getting fucked while sucking a man or woman remains high on my hit list. Best is being in a 69 while a guy does me in the rear.
Active Ink Slinger
I don't mind anal, though I have had some bad experiences involving anal. It depends on the person I am doing it with.
Active Ink Slinger
Mouth might be the germiest part of the body, but ass can easily be the dirtiest. Even if the person takes the time to clean things out the human body is complex, and in a matter of minutes a cleaned anus can become a filled anus, and I don't want to be there when that happens.
Raised on Blackroot
I imagine some people just don't find any appeal in something going up their poop shoot.
Especially germaphobes.
Especially germaphobes.
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For me, it's the feeling of the more than anything... just like art, what really 'floats your boat' so to speak might really work for others too - or it really won't. The middle ground doesn't quite induce such strong responses.
As quite a petite girl, I had to work up to it. With someone you love and trust (+ a little bit of alcohol and plenty of lubrication), playing around with that area can be very intense and sensual. But if it isn't your thing, then it simply isn't. Not everyone likes Picaso!
As quite a petite girl, I had to work up to it. With someone you love and trust (+ a little bit of alcohol and plenty of lubrication), playing around with that area can be very intense and sensual. But if it isn't your thing, then it simply isn't. Not everyone likes Picaso!
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Well I can tell you that the way some guys do it could ruin it for anyone.