I couldn't be with someone who isn't interested in sex. It's a huge part of any relationship.
You kids are speaking a language I do not understand at all!
I have never been in a relationship where sex has not been high on the agenda of both of us. I guess the only solution to a problem like this is to look for physical affection elsewhere
I would never embark upon a relationship with a woman who has low sex drive or simply doesn't want sex . I am 82 still with a strong sex drive , my wife is 58 and doesn't want sex , though she will sometimes oblige with a quickie , she had the menopause early at 47 and since then her libido has decreased to zero . I find it very distressing , no kissing , rarely a cuddle , no naked physical activity at all . At 58 my wife has a firm , perfectly shaped body that many teenagers would envy . Even at 82 life without physical intimacy is deathly .
My wife says to find a girlfriend , but she would be jealous if I did and I would likely fall in love with the girlfriend . I sympathize with women whose husbands don't perform , never mind penetration there is a lot more to physical lovemaking , it is a bonding agent that keeps a relationship sweet .
Already down to about once a year.
But then that is my fault - 40+ years of porn addiction tends to fuck that side of the relationship.
Luckily the more important aspects are still strong. So I accept my penence.
I agree with Doctorlove! After all he is a Doctor!
Sherry
Difficult to answer honestly unless you're in that situation. Its easy to say never but when you consider other life things like kids divorces the answer may not be that easy. I'd probably go on a sex website and play there.... Wait..lol
Mmmm i love sex so would be a deal breaker for me
Really? They would have never made it to the status that you are implying....SO, BF, GF, and especially spouse.
Deal breaker. You think the vow of "to HAVE and to HOLD is talking about hugging? I would give her two choices, either we get divorced, or I get as much anonymous sex on the side as I want. I would even go so far as to have a lawyer draft a contract permitting it.
Depends on the stage of the relationship. If a long-term relationship/spouse, my first question would be what has changed? If just the beginning of a relationship, I'd say fine. See yah because sex IS important to me.
Yes I can agree with some here.
Depends on the relationship.
If we have been dating for awhile, we decide we're in love,
und suddenly they desire to be honest about such a thing that I know they have difficulty talking about, especially to tell me?
Then many other things have importance as well.
I would let them know I can understand if they feel the courage to tell me why they feel that way, but that I'm patient, und tell me when they feel comfortable.
During that time I will try to make lovemaking a special thing they can maybe begin to enjoy,
especially knowing how they feel und that they are doing it for me mostly at that point.
Hopefully I can change their mind, make it something they enjoy as well,
und eventually find out what bad thing has possibly happened to them causing them to feel that way at first.
If I'm in love with them, who they are as a whole person...then I have to try, und hopefully both of us won't regret it later.
I couldn't simply walk away.
If we are only dating? We can still be only friends, und it's up to them to initiate sex...no worries.
I will still be patient und try to get them to open up to tell me why they feel that way...smiles
