I got to thinking one day, what are some punishments that have been the most successful for you (or have been used on you)?
Orgasm denial is one of the ones I use. My sub plays often and loves to cum, so it makes it an easy punishment to administer. I have her masturbate to the cusp of an orgasm, but do not allow her to climax.
Please feel free to share both what you used, or what would be an effective punishment for you.
I make my sub do the laundry, then the dishes, followed by general clean up around the house 'n' such. We cinderella role-play. She does it in the slippers... It's kinky.
My Master usually withdraws any type of sexual activity if I'm really bad!!! Other then that I get spankings...but I kinda like spankings, so I guess that doesn't count,does it? Other then that his tone of voice and they way he looks at me when i'm disobedient usually works depending on my mood...I'm a little of a handful sometimes...
worst punishment ever: made to kneel, pressing a dime against the wall with my nose, hands behind my back while She sits and reads.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
In most sub/dom situations it is the submissive's fantasy that is being played out. Therefore, the only 'real' punishment is refusal to play. This is why communication is more critical in these relationships than standard style.
The most effective punishment for me would be as the original poster suggested... Making me get really close to orgasm and stopping or teasing me and then depriving me of any/all sexual activity... Spanking works too if it's really hard... ;)
If a submissive can't stay focused during training, have her/him kneel on uncooked rice for a certain amount of time.
Worst punishment ever was when I once failed to properly clean the house while she was at work. When she came home, she made me stand naked in the middle of the kitchen, holding a broom out in front of me at arm's length, for twenty miuutes. WHenever my arms started to drop below parallel to the floor, she swatted my ass with a fly swatter. My ass, upper arms, and shoulders were sore for several days afterwards.
Besides being somewhat painful, it brought back a flood of horrible memories of hours spent "pushing the piece" (doing calesthenics with an eleven pound 1903 Springfield rifle) in Navy boot camp.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
i need a few goods ones for me to do to a friend of mind shes wants it hard
The cinnamon challenge is pretty bad and worse when all you've got is Tabasco sauce to wash it out of your mouth.
But it works well as a punishment, especially if your sub was too rough with oral, then you get to make them choke and the Tabasco makes their mouth burn, so they tend to think twice about stepping out of line. I've also enjoyed making my subs do naked handstands for a good few minutes or more, depending on the severity of the "crime".
I've done it both as a Master and a Sub (I'm a switch) but it was my Mistress that did it to me. I never stepped out of line again. And I take absolutely no offence at all. Edit: I'm never doing it again, it was too painful to watch and I did feel bad for my sub afterwards, perhaps it was a bit too extreme.
Simple lack of contact can be the worst and most effective punishment, partly because the submissive knows the Dominant wants contact as much as she does, so it doubles the lesson learning. The more significant the transgression, the longer the time period "without". Also it's one of the few punishments that cannot be misinterpreted or grown accustomed to.
The silent treatment,,, *shivers*
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