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Why post pics of a naked girl on a girl's wall?

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Some of us post pictures on the walls of our friends here on Lush. Some post funny, erotic or porn. It's always puzzled me why a lot of guy friends post a picture of a naked woman on my wall. I'm a straight girl and my profile clearly says that. I don't really want pictures of naked women on my wall. A funny joke pic, an erotic picture of a woman or couple would be nicer, even a picture of a naked guy would be better.

In my opinion, it would be no different to me posting a picture of a naked man on a guy's profile page.

2 Questions....


1. For those of you who do, why do you put a pic of a naked woman on a woman's profile page?

2. Would you like it if a woman put a pic of a naked man on your profile page?
Candy Connoisseur
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Most women can appreciate the beauty of the female form, as I'm sure you do. We don't do it as an attempt to turn you on. A naked woman is sexy regardless of your sexual preference, and most don't mind it. I always find something that I'm sure they will like, and it's not about the sexual aspect. Maybe they like a certain style of photo, so I always try and find something they will like. As for guy pics, searching tumblr for a guy pic isn't my thing. If someone doesn't want women posted on their walls, they can just tell me. I only post couples photos on one wall here. I actually find some of the couples stuff that I see people post on others walls a little confronting, not to mention the comments. I don't know what they are thinking with what they post and say.
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only time i have ever posted a naked female was if the woman is bi and likes that sorta thing.

actually...i'm not sure it was ever a single female but rather lesbionic shenanigans. :O

but Syd has a point. i notice many straight females enjoy the nude female form. never quite understand the phenomenon, but it happens. this is why i establish boundaries first/ask what they prefer.
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Thank you, trinket smile I've always wondered about that myself...
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I do appreciate the female form, and actually have a blog for erotic/artful pictures. I do understand that reasoning, but i'm talking about pics that you really wouldn't put into that category because they are more graphic, there is a distinct difference and I still have to keep reminding some people of that. Thanks for your replies smile
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I appreciate classy photos and the like as well - but got tired of labias greeting me in the morning.
The Creep
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i do appreciate female curves even if i am a woman, female form are very expressive they are beautiful as it is, and drawing them are more challenging. i post female clothed or nude if i knew they appreciate something in it like the artful beauty of a naked woman or the facial expression or body language or the dress or even the langeries they are wearing. smile i hope i didnt offend anyone if i posted girls on a girls wall :) pardon my insensitivities... same thing with what i post on mens wall... have a great day. :)
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Quote by Metilda
I appreciate classy photos and the like as well - but got tired of labias greeting me in the morning.



THIS!!!! Thank you Metilda
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i do appreciate female curves even if i am a woman, female form are very expressive they are beautiful as it is, and drawing them are more challenging. i post female clothed or nude if i knew they appreciate something in it like the artful beauty of a naked woman or the facial expression or body language or the dress or even the langeries they are wearing. smile i hope i didnt offend anyone if i posted girls on a girls wall :) pardon my insensitivities... same thing with what i post on mens wall... have a great day. :)



Your posts have never offended me Rune, yours ARE the classy type and you already know that doesn't offend me.
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THIS!!!! Thank you Metilda




I don't think the guys would appreciate it too much if they were strictly straight and women did nothing but post male genitals on their profile. I don't mind the nudes, the poses, the sensual kisses and such - but two wrinkly labias rubbing together was what made me get sick of it. LOL
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I love this question.....I truly do

I think the female body is just beautiful

and I am sure the people posting do too

as o whether or not it turns on the person you are posting to

well I think you should ask

but I would kind of wonder as the others above why you posted two ah...females enjoying each other on my page

seems to me that WOULD be the POSTERS fantasy

but alas I am new here

and perhaps I don't get a friendly HOWDY..lol
Cryptic Vigilante
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I agree with what has been said before. When I look at the Comments posted by some other guys, sometimes they're obviously fantasies of their own, which appears a bit inappropriate and awkward. This very looks like a male fantasy : Picture. The way she looks right at the camera and exposes her pussy is suggestive for the viewer in a provocative way.

Then again, out of my 11 friends, 2 are lesbian, 6 are bisexual and only 3 are straight. Concerning my lesbian friends, it's extremely rare for me to send something of sexual nature to them ; I tend to believe that their sexuality is not really my concern. For my bisexual friends, I'll try to send something that they themselves will find attractive, according to what I know about their fantasies (exchanges, forum posts, galleries on their profiles, etc.).

Sometimes, it can also be fun/interesting to post pictures of how I perceive some of my friends. For example, if one of them practices yoga, I could send something like this : Picture. The same applies if she defines herself as an attractive redhead/blonde/latina/etc. That way, it's meant to 'worship' one of her trait/passion and signify that as a male I can find it appealing, which I believe can be sensual/sexy for her. Most of my friends know I'm not interested in the 'cyber-thing' anyway, and so they know I'm not fantasizing about them in an extreme manner (I hope). I also try to provide some form of variety in my Comments ; they can either be sensual, provocative, artistic, humorous, etc.

I must admit that as a male it's sometimes hard to choose what to send to female friends. Sending pictures of males can be just as awkward for me ; I don't want my friends to believe that I'm 'offering' myself to them. My body is not that different from the hot/athletic ones that people usually send as Comments, and so I don't want my friends to believe I'm subtly trying to imply : "Here's me! Please fantasize (wink-wink)!". Pictures of couples can be just as awkward, for the same reason : "Here's us (wink-wink)!".

Usually, I just follow the trend of what others are posting. Some women have a lot of hot males sent to them as Comments, so it's less awkward for me to do the same in that case ; same thing for couples or erotic GIFs.

If any of my friends is reading this, please know that I'm never trying to imply anything with my Comments. You're still wonderful women to me though (wink-wink).
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It's refreshing to know there are some guys here that think before they post. I'm far from being a prude, and I have nothing against porn. I believe there is a place for it, I just don't want to look at it every time I go to my profile.

I notice no guys have addressed the question of what they would think or how they would feel of a woman posted a male nude pic on their wall. Come on guys, I'd love to hear what you think.
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It is always best to find out and then follow the posting desires of the one you are going to post to. It isn't that hard to do... JUST ASK if it is not already written in their profile. Personally I think it is a good idea to let each new friend know up front when accepting them though, it saves a lot of issues; unless they simply don't follow your wishes. And if they don't follow your wishes.... gone. They have shown that their own desires are what is important and they don't care about yours.

As for if a female posted a male picture on my wall:
That would depend. If it was a COUPLE, that is fine, but only from ONE person. If it is a male in general, unless it was a FUNNY picture, it is not welcome and I would take it as an insult (unless it was in response to an inside joke or something). I just don't see the need for it. And like others pointed out, the reasons why a female nude (or just female in general) might be posted tend to be a wider range of things.

Again though, I think it is best to make sure about posting guidelines before posting on ANYONE's wall.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
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A lot of what you guys posted are nice sentiments. Sure, we all appreciate the female form and enjoy sharing it with others. That explains the sensual/artsy stuff. I can appreciate when someone has a feel for what I like and they post in kind...I return the favor. My wall is filled with penguins and inside jokes...things posted by people that get me and my sense of humor and my enjoyment of silliness in general.

But at the end of the day, if a guy posts lesbian porn on a girl's wall despite her sexual preferences, or any porn for that matter, it's most likely him saying: "This makes me horny. Look at it because it makes me horny. I want to gauge the way you feel about the things that make me horny." He's doing it for a reaction, mostly. Either you'll respond in kind and you guys will develop a back and forth of crude porn wall postings, or you'll ignore him and the porn and he'll eventually get the hint.

As I said before, it's different if you've gotten to know a person or understand some aspects of their personality and their preferences and post accordingly. But posting random porn for a reaction is kind of taking a shot in the dark. Some people go for it, others don't. In the grand scheme of things, deleting offending posts is sufficient. If the posts are too excessive, you can either talk to the offender(s) and ask them to stop, or you can delete them. I get that it's common courtesy to ask first before posting porn on someone's wall because not everyone feels the same way about it...but some people don't know better.

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The Creep
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Your posts have never offended me Rune, yours ARE the classy type and you already know that doesn't offend me.


im glad smile dont want to offend anyone with my post :)
Active Ink Slinger
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Quote by rune


im glad smile dont want to offend anyone with my post :)


i look forward to your posts, silly girlie :)

as for what i post i try to know people and post what i think they would like or something between us both! but i like seeing what people put on mine....if i would find it offense i would probably tell them
my newest :)
Cryptic Vigilante
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I notice no guys have addressed the question of what they would think or how they would feel of a woman posted a male nude pic on their wall. Come on guys, I'd love to hear what you think.


I would find it strange and awkward, to be honest. Unless, like I said in my previous post, it was a picture that represents me or the way one of my friends perceives me. But then it would be more humorous to me than sensual/sexual.
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All depends

If I know the lady fairly well and also know that she'd appreciate such, then yes, I'd post a nude

For those ladies who are not interested, I would post something more subdued - though most of my pic-posts are subdued on all my friend's profiles so far
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It's refreshing to know there are some guys here that think before they post. I'm far from being a prude, and I have nothing against porn. I believe there is a place for it, I just don't want to look at it every time I go to my profile.

I notice no guys have addressed the question of what they would think or how they would feel of a woman posted a male nude pic on their wall. Come on guys, I'd love to hear what you think.


I try to save the truly disgusting stuff for Magical's wall. I just put weird stuff on your wall Trink.

I know my audience.

Everyone else receives a liberal dose of porn, whack-job or cute little cats/porcupines/puppets.

Some of you ladies have posted swollen scrotums, raging boners, peeled foreskins or ejaculating meat missiles - however, usually there's a gaping or pouting or flooding vagina somewhere in the posting as well.

And I thank you!
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Doesn't bother me tbh. Most of my male friends are straight and I always assumed they had a lack of male pics due to that which is why I receive mainly sensual female pics, either naked, partially naked or wearing sexy lingerie. I am straight but I like them and can appreciate the female form. That being said they have also posted me sensual male pics which I also enjoy but I do tend to only post sensual female pics back to straight men, unless it involves a couple.

I have straight female friends and we each in turn post sensual female pics to each other, however the majority of my female friends are bi/lesbian so again its all boils down to what they have, I don't expect a lesbian friend of mine to post a man pic on my wall and nor would I post one to them.

At the end of the day I personally make it clear what I do and don't like on my wall when I make new friends, for example my distaste is cum shots that's not to say they haven't been posted on my wall but normally because the person is unaware. I always tell my friends that should they post something I do not like then take no offence if I delete it and to likewise do the same should they dislike my posts to them. I do however always send a polite message to them should I delete a post explaining why as every time so far it has been inadvertent.

It works for me Ive deleted very few pics probably around 5 so far and I have been here 7 months. Well ok there was an incident few weeks ago when 2 friends thought it would be funny to pound my wall with huge spiders when they didn't realise how scared of them I was but they deleted them themselves after they realised it did so those don't count as far as I am concerned.
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I try to save the truly disgusting stuff for Magical's wall. I just put weird stuff on your wall Trink.

I know my audience.

Everyone else receives a liberal dose of porn, whack-job or cute little cats/porcupines/puppets.

Some of you ladies have posted swollen scrotums, raging boners, peeled foreskins or ejaculating meat missiles - however, usually there's a gaping or pouting or flooding vagina somewhere in the posting as well.

And I thank you!


Thank you for that WMM, and your weird stuff is the best weird stuff I've ever seen... take today's for e.g.



I think you save the best for me. I will admit though, that I have only one eye open when I visit your wall and try not to scroll down further than the comment box. Of course, I'm a prude (or so some say) that's why I'm on Lush
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When I post on someone's wall I tend to make sure that it's something that is relevant to what they want. I'm not going to go oh year this random photo will be fine for everyone's wall. I tend to treat it as I wouldn't want shit on my wall so why should I put it on someone else's.
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Quote by WellMadeMale


I try to save the truly disgusting stuff for Magical's wall. I just put weird stuff on your wall Trink.

I know my audience.

Everyone else receives a liberal dose of porn, whack-job or cute little cats/porcupines/puppets.

Some of you ladies have posted swollen scrotums, raging boners, peeled foreskins or ejaculating meat missiles - however, usually there's a gaping or pouting or flooding vagina somewhere in the posting as well.

And I thank you!


You are good at what you do.

PS. Magical didn't realize that stuff was disgusting until you mentioned it in this thread.
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I wondered that myself. It mystifies me really. The only time I post women on women's pages is if I know she likes them, or if I see something in the image that she would like. Or sometimes I'm just a butt and post the first thing my mouse lands upon because I'm weird like that.
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I wondered that myself. It mystifies me really. The only time I post women on women's pages is if I know she likes them, or if I see something in the image that she would like. Or sometimes I'm just a butt and post the first thing my mouse lands upon because I'm weird like that.


OK, THIS is what I'm talkin' bout. Peeps like Gingernuts here, just play russian roulette with people's walls. "Oh looky here, I'll just copy this picture of 2 girls kissing and post it on a straight girls wall." Perhaps not even that much thought accompanying the said copied picture.

Do you bring your friends list up, close your eyes then do a kind of 'pin the tail on the donkey' thing to see who's gonna get the picture sweets?

Just askin'. You never post on my wall anyway...... That's prolly a good thing though right?
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Quote by SydneySider
Most women can appreciate the beauty of the female form


I think that most women just appreciate form, whether male or female... I don't see why they should appreciate a female form anymore than a male one, in fact quite the opposite if they're straight. So why not post a picture of a dude with his dick out? Because as a man that would be wierd right?

Anyways I never post pictures on other peoples wall anyway. I don't see the point.
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Quote by Archadia


I think that most women just appreciate form, whether male or female... I don't see why they should appreciate a female form anymore than a male one, in fact quite the opposite if they're straight. So why not post a picture of a dude with his dick out? Because as a man that would be wierd right?

Anyways I never post pictures on other peoples wall anyway. I don't see the point.



John, what you said about appreciating female/male form is correct in my case. THANK YOU for answering my question. Why not post a picture of a guy with his dick out? you said "Because it would be weird right?"

My point EXACTLY. Most dudes would hate it if i posted a pic of another dude either with his dick showing or not. So why is it different for women? Whether it's an artistic or graphic picture of a woman, why do some guys assume some of us don't get 'weirded out' by a picture of a female on our wall?

I realise it's not ALL male friends who post pictures of women on other women's walls, I realise a lot of you do make the effort to find out what each individual person prefers, and thank you for that. smile Thank you also to everyone for their answers :)
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I always send my female friends pictures of men. Or I will send mystical things, flowers and other things to my female friends walls.

Like you, I have a few friends that send naked pictures of themselves or of just women. I don't really get that. I am straight as an arrow and am happily married.

I really don't get that. But, whatever floats your boat.

I often will just delete the stuff I don't like. Some people leave some really wild and crazy stuff.
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I confess I don't understand that one; maybe its the sensual and sexy image of women that we've all been trained to view as "erotica". I personally like nice pictures of both sexes.
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