OK guys, why the double standard?
Most of you would pay to watch two women or if you get really lucky, two girls together making out and going down with a 69 etc etc.
BUT, ask two guys to give me a show cause I like to watch it and not only no, but "HELL NO, I'm no gay guy"
so what is with the double standard?
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Why is it OK for two women but not two men
Rookie Scribe
Men control porn, men like girls. Girl/Girl porn is men's fantasy of wanting both women not what real lesbians who have no interest in men do. Guys aren't into other guys, so gay porn is a turn off for them. Most guys are as turned of by real lesbians as by gay guys. Guys jack off to two girls because they either want to join in or fuck them both. They don't want to see two actual lesbians, but two straight girls who will kiss each other because they know boys like it.
Internet Philosopher
Many straight men are too homophobic to even consider kissing another man even if their women wanted them too. it's as simple as that
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Im invited by couples who want a extra for mm sex. The women are into it, love watching and usually join in. Have also been to all bi parties or groups where it is the same.
Advanced Wordsmith
Maybe you just haven't asked the right guys
Rookie Scribe
I see no problem with seeing men with men, but there is a double standard about it. A lot of straight porn has one man with two women, but if it's two men and one woman the video is considered bisexual or sometimes gay.
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It depends on what you like to see.
Watching a woman perform fellatio on a man doesn't do much for me. I can see a woman's face and a man's genitals any time I like. (And don't get me started on the man pulling out of some delightful warm wet place in order to ejaculate on the woman's face!)
Seeing only two women means I get to see twice as much of what I like to see. Seeing only two men means there's nothing I like to see. I am willing to tolerate men in a scene, especially if they are helping the women to appear more enticing.
There are many tropes and forms and people have their preferences. Like many things, there are fads and fashions. My current annoyance is how many wonderful scenes are ruined (for me) because the participants are pretending to be related to each other. It is pervasive, so I assume many people like it, but it's a bucket of ice water in my lap.
Need I say "Different strokes"?
Watching a woman perform fellatio on a man doesn't do much for me. I can see a woman's face and a man's genitals any time I like. (And don't get me started on the man pulling out of some delightful warm wet place in order to ejaculate on the woman's face!)
Seeing only two women means I get to see twice as much of what I like to see. Seeing only two men means there's nothing I like to see. I am willing to tolerate men in a scene, especially if they are helping the women to appear more enticing.
There are many tropes and forms and people have their preferences. Like many things, there are fads and fashions. My current annoyance is how many wonderful scenes are ruined (for me) because the participants are pretending to be related to each other. It is pervasive, so I assume many people like it, but it's a bucket of ice water in my lap.
Need I say "Different strokes"?
It all goes back to natural selection (evolution). Men who preferred men were far less likely to reproduce. Men who were ambivalent would wind up more often with men who were easier and quicker to seduce than women, hence they would be less successful reproductively. Men who were strongly hetero were the ones who would actively pursue women and so the majority of our male ancestors fall into this category. And those men often simply don't want to watch other mens' bodies.
On the other hand, women who were sexually ambivalent could still mate enough times to be evolutionarily successful so were not at a reproductive disadvantage.
On the other hand, women who were sexually ambivalent could still mate enough times to be evolutionarily successful so were not at a reproductive disadvantage.
It all goes back to natural selection (evolution). Men who preferred men were far less likely to reproduce. Men who were ambivalent would wind up more often with men who were easier and quicker to seduce than women, hence they would be less successful reproductively. Men who were strongly hetero were the ones who would actively pursue women and so the majority of our male ancestors fall into this category. And those men often simply don't want to watch other mens' bodies.
On the other hand, women who were sexually ambivalent could still mate enough times to be evolutionarily successful so were not at a reproductive disadvantage.
On the other hand, women who were sexually ambivalent could still mate enough times to be evolutionarily successful so were not at a reproductive disadvantage.
That is the proverbial question. I have been involved in several group instances in which "incedential" MM occurred and, aw hell....it felt pretty good and it has grown from there....the women in the groups always seem to enjoy and even encourage. I think the big issues is the reluctance of a guy to gell a girl he likes both sides of the road.....but then, I have been wrong before!
Watching a pretty female face licking; sucking and drinking from another woman's pussy is so Very Awesome. Since I love to do it; I can only imagine 2 women loving on each others cunt. As far as 2 guys sucking each others dick; IF You want to do it then Do it. You will cum either way. Your dick does not realize who it is getting sucked by.
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I only wish I could have been in an MMF threesome. I'd probably have been the one to initiate the man-on-man action too. Yes, there is a double standard, but not every guy is turned off by it.
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Never seen 2 men kiss so cant comment lol
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Society. Men run it.
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My wife introduced me to MM sex, had me help her licking a guys cock before she would fuck him for me to watch. Next time it was me who finished the BJ. then one night we were partying hardy with two other couples an she had me split roasted. Well after that I was always ready to suck a guy or be sucked by a guy. For a few years we played with a bi couple and never knew what was going to happen just went with the flow.