I enjoy it more when she doesn't use her hands, just an occasional touch maybe. But I'm afraid it may be a bit too tiring for the lady, using her mouth only - too much strain on the neck muscles, I suppose. So, I don't mind her stroking me with her hand during a bj for a change - anyway my good girl does her best to give me a great orgasm, God bless her.
I think the best is when her mouth takes care of my head and shaft and she massages my balls with her hands.
A blow job should be a full contact sport. Although I have seen some great ideas on this thread about restricting hands behind the back, and even in that case, it seems the tension would be the attempt to have more contact.
I vote for mouth, hands, nipples, feet, toys, neighbors, friends, high def video projection, dessert, body paint, ...
Hell, with hands part of the time. I mean moving around and doing lots of things down there. Maybe she can give a rusty trombone.
More intense feeling when she doesn't use her hands.
Some positions, however, make this very difficult.
With touching so much better
Depends on the circumstances. If we're on our own. Definitely with hands. If we are playing with 'friends' then her hands could be busy elsewhere.
I know this is ask the guys but I'd like to put my input.
It seems visually, without hands is better. There's also more a sense of control for the man, if he's into that.
But with hands, you get more sensations everywhere.
My guy likes me to use my hands along with my mouth.
I've got to say that I'm so grateful to any woman that wants to give me a blowjob that I really don't care which technique she uses. It's all about what she likes and her talents anyway. She should be creative and try to have fun doing it and if she can pull that off (pun intended) then everything else will probably be good.
IMO the most important thing contrubuting to a blow job is whether the blower is truly enjoying themselves and would like to see the blowee cum and have fun.
I also think that over analyzing can be a wet blanket and every single bj can be different if the person performing it wants it that way.
One of my favorite sayings is.... "what this world needs is a good $10 blow job". Most men would be so much happier and better adjusted if they could get regular sex or at least blowjobs but it seems that for most women, participating in that on a regular basis is not pleasant and therein lies much of the discord in this world.
Horny frustrated men tend to take their frustrations out in many unpleasant ways.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
with hands. more going on, more stimulation
I love to have my balls squeezed while my cock is being sucked. Love to have the orgasm timed and controlled. Love my mistress!mm
With.. But it's all in her technique.
Most certainly with hands.
I have never thought about it. I am usually so "in the moment" that I'm not capable of critical thinking. Whatever she is doing is fine with me.
If it's intended to reach completion, it has to be with hands and significant stroking. Otherwise, I'm not getting there. Lots of uncomfortable situations caused by that over the years with women who've had a 100% success rate but couldn't push me over the edge. Warnings that it's hard to get me off orally just end up being taken as a challenge and make the whole thing worse. I don't ask for blowjobs.
Almost impossible for me to come with a woman riding me as well. That has proved to be a rather significant boon, though ;)
Fucking her mouth doesn't work either, because the almost inevitable gagging is a turn-off for me. If I want to be with someone, I don't want to be choking her. If her breasts are big enough to wrap around me and the head to be in her mouth, a titfuck-headjob is a surefire bet.
If it's just foreplay, whatever makes her happy is just fine and dandy with me.
oh definitely....just mouth and eyes looking at me.....oh yes! Your hands have plenty of other things to be doing...;)
Not picky about the hands, but please no teeth. I know some women like their labia or clit nipped. but for most men its a turn off.
Oh DUDE....! she has got to use her teeth too!
Before I decide, I'd like to get a few [hundred] more samples of each. Any Lush Ladies want to volunteer for a scientific study?
Hands...definitely hands!
After I posted I got an e-mail from a friend that said there are rules that the men out here need to learn... I was given a list .......
Here is my list of Do’s & Don’ts
BJ’s must be slow, wet and soft.
Neither partner should be tied, hands must be free to wander.
Having balls squeezed gently makes for a better erection.
Us girlies, can always tell when a guy is about to pop, his balls tighten.
A good BJ should be a mixture of hands on and hands free.
We believe hands free gives stronger orgasms.
I’m told a hands free cock buried deep in a warm wet mouth is too die for.
Plenty of saliva to keep things wet.
The guy should be teased, buried deep then withdraw to the tip. Flick with the tongue then deep again.
The length of the shaft must be licked. Gently nibbled.
If the guy has been properly stimulated, one look up with the Puppy dog eyes will normally trigger an ejaculation.
Guys should never hold a woman’s head or pull her onto his cock. We have gag reflexes. You try shoving a large object down your throat.
If you allow the woman to take her partner deeper at her own pace, it’s possible to overcome gag reflex.
Personal hygiene. Guys must be clean. Freshly washed with body wash or a splash of Eau de cologne.
Personal grooming. Trimmed or shaved pubic hair. No seventies style porn pubes please.
Guys should make a noise or talk dirty. Never be silent.
Avoid any aggressive talk “suck my cock” or insulting remarks “suck it bitch”.
Give a warning before ejaculating. You don't just cum, you know when it’s going to happen. It gives us a choice.
Finally, once you hear the words “I’m coming” we girlies should never pull off of your cock and finish you by hand. Always cum in the mouth. Weather we spit or swallow doesn’t matter but we feel thats important to finish the job.
I do have a question, what is the purpose in new porn videos where after sucking, fucking, licking and all that other fun, naughty stuff, the guy stands up and HE jerks his cock off onto her face or tongue. My question is, why is HE doing the stroking???
There are times she is kneeling out of obedience, reverence and respect. Those are the times it is okay to stand above her. But when she is kneeling because the weight of the world is just too heavy to bear … that is when You should be kneeling beside her.
The hands add so much feeling and pleasure
