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What do guys think about girls who like to have sex with multiple men at the same time?
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Active Ink Slinger
I wouldn't say a girl is slutty for wanting to have sex with multiple partners... most guys would love to have sex with more than one girl at a time... I know it would be something that I have fantasized about but haven't been able to fulfil without paying for the experience.
Advanced Wordsmith
I think the more sexual a person is the sexier they are. I have wanted to find a g/f who would be open to multiple partners at same time - male or female. My 3somes involved women who were looking to experiment with husbands who were open to the experiment. Love those women! Lol
Testing The Waters.
I think you're going to get disproportionately positive responses to this question here in comparison to the general public.
You're more likely to encounter open-minded men here for one thing, I should imagine.
Because of the level of openness on Lush in general, the number of guys who will admit not being comfortable with it is going to take a nosedive, for fear of looking like the odd man out, reducing the potential number of cyber-partners, etc.
Taken to the general public in a less friendly environment, the "slut" side of the scale is going to have a lot more weight on it than you'll see here.
To me, the question is too broad. It depends upon the woman. Some would indulge the desire while making every reasonable effort to ensure it's mutual fun for all with no regrets, and I see nothing wrong with that. Others may simply be taking what they want without any regard for who they hurt along the way, and that doesn't sit well with me.
You're more likely to encounter open-minded men here for one thing, I should imagine.
Because of the level of openness on Lush in general, the number of guys who will admit not being comfortable with it is going to take a nosedive, for fear of looking like the odd man out, reducing the potential number of cyber-partners, etc.
Taken to the general public in a less friendly environment, the "slut" side of the scale is going to have a lot more weight on it than you'll see here.
To me, the question is too broad. It depends upon the woman. Some would indulge the desire while making every reasonable effort to ensure it's mutual fun for all with no regrets, and I see nothing wrong with that. Others may simply be taking what they want without any regard for who they hurt along the way, and that doesn't sit well with me.
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Rookie Scribe
I see girls with multiple numbers at once, I could be so lucky. Unfortunately haven't met a guy willing to do a three way with another guy. Am trying to stay hopeful
I think it is hot in PORN. And if the encounter was with someone I didn't care for or would never see again (as in the WOMAN), I would not have a problem with it. But my woman, no. I do not share my woman with another man. If she wanted to DP using a toy, THAT is a go. With another man? Nope.
Active Ink Slinger
I have joined in with a couple of couples over the years; and as long as there were some hard and fast rules agreed to beforehand, I would have no problems being on the other side of the transaction
Advanced Wordsmith
I think I may be the first one to say no. I don't call it slutty, but I'm not much into sharing. Call me greedy if you must, but I want the attention on me and I want to give the same. Anyway, I've always had problems being undressed around other guys. Even if I'm with my friends I'll still throw a shirt on unless we're at a pool or something.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by RejectReality
I think you're going to get disproportionately positive responses to this question here in comparison to the general public.
You're more likely to encounter open-minded men here for one thing, I should imagine.
Because of the level of openness on Lush in general, the number of guys who will admit not being comfortable with it is going to take a nosedive, for fear of looking like the odd man out, reducing the potential number of cyber-partners, etc.
Taken to the general public in a less friendly environment, the "slut" side of the scale is going to have a lot more weight on it than you'll see here.
To me, the question is too broad. It depends upon the woman. Some would indulge the desire while making every reasonable effort to ensure it's mutual fun for all with no regrets, and I see nothing wrong with that. Others may simply be taking what they want without any regard for who they hurt along the way, and that doesn't sit well with me.
This is bang on accurate. Lush allows us to be more open with our desires but it also squashes what your average Joe would say out in the real world.
I stood behind a bar for many years and watched and listened to guys AND girls shred women because they were open to threesomes, foursomes and more. They questioned their moral being because they happened to enjoy something more than 'vanilla sex'. I heard them called all kinds of derogatory names. But it certainly didn't stop the guys from lining up at their door. The biggest shit talkers were also their biggest fans. Gotta love the hypocrites.
Which is why I learned to be very discreet and to not (excuse the expression) shit where I eat.
Raised on Blackroot
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I think it is hot in PORN. And if the encounter was with someone I didn't care for or would never see again (as in the WOMAN), I would not have a problem with it. But my woman, no. I do not share my woman with another man. If she wanted to DP using a toy, THAT is a go. With another man? Nope.
He has it right.
I like the fantasy factor of it, and in porn it is hot. However, I'd never want to share my girlfriend/wife with another man. Just not how I'm hardwired. I'm a heavy romantic at heart and that just doesn't jive with me.
Now, if I ever had the opportunity for casual sex with a girl I had no desire to date at any point and there was no chance of falling in love, sure. I may be inclined to participate.
Rookie Scribe
Quote by Naughty_TaliaI have been the "third" for a couple for some time now. I find it sexy as hell that she eagerly craves us both, that she is true to him and they share me together. HOT. She is slutty in the sheets but a sweetheart out and about. Total turn on.
Is it a turn on that a girl likes to get double penetrated or do you find that it makes her too slutty?
CurlyFries
Quote by MadMartigan
He has it right.
I like the fantasy factor of it, and in porn it is hot. However, I'd never want to share my girlfriend/wife with another man. Just not how I'm hardwired. I'm a heavy romantic at heart and that just doesn't jive with me.
Now, if I ever had the opportunity for casual sex with a girl I had no desire to date at any point and there was no chance of falling in love, sure. I may be inclined to participate.
This is what I've heard!
Sure they would love a woman who is open to 3somes and more, but she's usually not someone they want to be in a relationship with.
Quote by CurlyGirly
This is what I've heard!
Sure they would love a woman who is open to 3somes and more, but she's usually not someone they want to be in a relationship with.
Correct. The same way women often times can point out the type of man they might want to FUCK, but would never seriously consider for a relationship. It is simply the way it is. They are not mutually inclusive.
I think I would like to meet one. Seriously, I'm up for MMF or something like that as long she (and the other guy/s) is okay with some MM interaction happening. Would I get seriously involved with someone who was into it and wanted it regularly? I could see it happening. It would depend on more than just that. For one, I think it would have to be a fairly open relationship and likely would require her to be okay with me having multiple women and, as said above, being involved with the other men in our group action.
Active Ink Slinger
I personally have had a very happy open purely straight mmf before. i loved it for the sole reason that the f involved was completely blown away. it was a turn on of hers and seeing her lost in her fantasy made it all the more exciting for me.
I wish i could find a girl who was into this kind of thing, occasionally... i feel that if it got to a stage where our intimate time was lacking due to another partner not being involved then that would be an issue.
I agree with some others though that finding that balance is a hard thing to achieve and total trust would be needed.
I think in the end, that answers your question. If trust is shared then it can be a great experience without the fear of the 'slutty' tag.
I wish i could find a girl who was into this kind of thing, occasionally... i feel that if it got to a stage where our intimate time was lacking due to another partner not being involved then that would be an issue.
I agree with some others though that finding that balance is a hard thing to achieve and total trust would be needed.
I think in the end, that answers your question. If trust is shared then it can be a great experience without the fear of the 'slutty' tag.
Constant Gardener
Several of you are not answering the OP's question. You've changed the relationship and then answered your own question.
I am not averse to an adult female having multiple men servicing her simultaneously. (which was the original question posed)
I am not averse to an adult female having multiple men servicing her simultaneously. (which was the original question posed)
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Active Ink Slinger
my response was a round about way of saying i do not have a problem with a female having multiple partners. Sorry if that wasn't clear enough..
Active Ink Slinger
my response was a round about way of saying i do not have a problem with a female having multiple partners. Sorry if that wasn't clear enough..
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by rob_wordsmith
What's sexy is a girl knowing what she wants and going for it. A girl overcome with lust for two guys is incredibly hot.
Ditto
Advanced Wordsmith
I like seeing girls getting chummed on by multiple guys... But I wouldn't like it if it was my wife or go...
Advanced Wordsmith
It's her choice.
I like to watch.
I like to watch.
Active Ink Slinger
Personally I love a woman that comes to terms with her sexual side and has what she wants. Its a turn on with a woman that loves getting all the men she can handle. The old double standard of men are studs for having many women. And women are dirty sluts for having many men is OUT. KEEP ROCKING GIRLS Get what you want and be happy
The porn scenes are great. The fantasy is something that my wife and I like to share. But in our current relationship it would not work. For us sex is our time together. Bringing in another wouldn't work. I realize that isn't the original question.
I do think that multiple partners does put you in another category of sexuality. I'm not sure if that makes a girl "too slutty." But it does make her a more risky choice.
I do think that multiple partners does put you in another category of sexuality. I'm not sure if that makes a girl "too slutty." But it does make her a more risky choice.
Active Ink Slinger
Loved threesomes, liked watching my wife get fucked and would jack off, then fuck her after she was done fucking my friend. Then we took turns with her, both pussy fucking and fucking her in the ass.