I've paid for it the hard way, so does marriage count?
Sorry, Lucky enough that I never had to pay for it!
Never would pay for it. Just not me.
I've never been payed for it...
If i was gonna name a price, most people wouldn't afford it.
This guy feels so fucking horny one night and he's no bird to use it on. So from the local free mag he picks out the number of a drop in hooker and goes sees her - she sounds alright on the phone and it's only fifty quid or so for a quicky.
When he gets there the buildings all grand on the outside but inside it's as good as derelict and all split up into tiny one room apartments. He knocks on the tart's door and she lets him in. She's not bad looking but her eyes are as cold as death.
He goes in and there's this fucking great alsation dog in there - that's the hooker's bodyguard and a good one. Doesn't bark or nothing but he knows if she says the word this dog will have him.
It's about as unsexy as you can possibly get, but he's so intimidated and scared to upset the hooker that he goes through with it. But he's no desire whatsover to fuck her and can't get a hard on, so he just has her wank his cock and all the while she does this dog's watching over his mistress, ready to rip his throat out if called upon.
He manages to get a stiffy, shoots his load and is oughta there. The hooker don't mind, nice easy money for her.
That sort of thing you mean Ali?
OK, Ali. Since few people seem to be willing to admit it - I have "paid for it" on occasion.
Massage parlors, whorehouses, and escort services are generally not worth the time and money. The women are at best jaded, and at worst expoited.
Independents can be better, especially the older ones. Younger ones are often inexperienced, unwilling to let down their guard, and reluctant to react to the client on a human level. It is the older ones, oddly enough, who are often the least jaded. My guess is that's because (a) if they have stuck around so long in the business, it's because they actually enjoy themselves; (b) they are not just counting on their youthful good looks to make the guy pony up; and (c) they are comfortable enough to relax and perhaps even see the client as a real person (if the situation allows).
On certain occasions, I have found myself enjoying a nice interlude with a woman who takes the money, and then sets it aside (mentally speaking) - allowing the two of us to have some real fun for an hour or two. Those are the ones who are worth a repeat visit.
And if you want to know more, just give me a buzz.....
I agree with notreallysure, either you guys are lying, or the ones that have paid for sex are not stepping up.
I’ve never paid for sex myself, but I’ve paid for company (yeah as sad as it sounds) when I was younger, I was dating this guy that my parents totally trusted, and even thought there was no attraction (from me to him) I paid him to come and take me out… It was the only way to get out of the house…
I’ve also been paid for sex; I didn’t charge him, but he gave me money, and I took it. It’s like my mommy says “Don’t think you’re NOT a hoe because you don’t charge for it.”
Hmmm....maybe dinner, drinks, etc is paying for it. Come to think of it, when I think of all the crappy dinners at horrible restaurants, weak, watered down drinks and cheesy movies I've endured, maybe it would have been better to charge directly for the sex...then I could have used the money to buy myself a really good meal, gone to a good film, etc.8H2nV8zaH8sGMtTr
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
Geez-o-man, I was only joking about the marriage thing. I'm separated and we are far happier. In fact, people who know me know I don't like talking about my marriage, so you won't hear me whining or complaining about it.
Like Peter Gabriel said, "what's done is done and I do not give a damn."
Time to move on and look ahead.
Back to the discussion.
Well, Rocco, you can't say that you didn't ask for it (*laughing*).
And just to clarify my own point of view - there is NOTHING to compare with being with a woman who wants to be with you for real. The best "pros" have learned to mask their ennui, and sometimes there can even be a personal connection made, but it's no substitute. It can be a pleasant way to pass the time - something better than masturbation but still less than real lovemaking. But never underestimate the power of the touch of a woman. We all hunger for it, and if it's not perfect, it can still be good.
By the way, I would also point out a (not too well hidden) secret - the biggest turnon for a man is to know that the woman he is with actually wants him. My guess (and I admit that I have not conducted a formal survey here) is that men would rather spend ten minutes in the company of a woman who is interested in him, than several hours in the company of a supermodel. So don't worry ladies - despite the cynicism, "paying for it" is never going to replace the real thing. (*smiling*)
I have never paid for sex with cash. A woman that I worked with and was attracted to wanted a particular night off. She couldn't get it because I was scheduled to be off. She asked would I come to work and let her off and I said no. Everytime she asked I would say something silly like, "what's in it for me". While at work one night she called and asked me to come to her building. When I entered her office, she pulled up her skirt and showed me, what had to be, the prettiest ass I'd ever seen. Before I knew what had happened I was on my knees kissing, licking, and utterly worshiping that beautiful ass of hers. Our encounter only lasted 20 minutes but it was the most spontaneous (spelling) and erotic sexual encounter that I've ever had. I must have tasted her for 18 minutes and to be honest, her body looked so damn good I only lasted 2 minutes when our fuck session started. Yes, she got that day (night) off. Everytime we see each other we smile.
When you look like me, that is the only way to fly, LOL. I once read a report that said that 1 in 6 women in America has had sex in exchange for some consideration. Maybe not always cash, but for something that had monetary value. I first found that hard to believe, but no longer as my neighbor and two of my female friends are in the "business". No, they are not druggies, white trash, or were abused as a child. These ladies are quite normal. They could be your mom, your daughter, your sister or your aunt, your meighbor upstairs. They are single moms, an elementary teacher, the cashier at your local Safeway, or a college student with expensive taste in shoes. They are in their 20ies, thirties or 40ies. Some enjoy doing it, some don't. Some do it for fun, others because they have babies to feed. In fact, in this recession, many women who would never have considered selling themselves so they can keep their house, or because they lost their job and can't find another one.
These ladies work hard for the money. Don't think that they make thousands of dollars a day. many of them make $200 - $300 per date. Not bad for an hour's work you say. Not so fast. To make an appointment theyy often have to answer dozens of emails, with perhaps one guy being serious about setting up an appointment. On average, they spend an hour on getting the date set up. It takes at least another hour for them to get ready: showering, wazing, make up, putting up a sexy negligee (that they often bought for this purpose only). The guy often stays longer than an hour, up to two or three without giving the lady extra cash. Once he is gone, she needs to cleanup. So, in reality, it takes her 3 to 4 hours of labor to make anywhere from $200 - $400. But wait... she still has to pay for her hotel room (she is not going to do it at her home with her nosy neighbors looking on. So, let's say that costs $100. So, maybe she takes $100 - $300 home. When you run the numbers..... the guy that changes my oil makes twice as much as the lady, And he does not have to put up with sweaty, smelly, slobbering overwight 65 year olds....
Crikey, did everyone forget how anonymous this forum is?
Johnny come lately, but take it from me, I know a lot of guys who have 'paid' for sex and it was thanks to their advice that when I felt that I had to do the same that they steered me right. Some times the experience can be downright cold, but some of the ladies in the worlds oldest profession are awesome i.e. sometimes it's not just about the sex.
Why would I pay for it when I can assure you that I can still 'pull' a woman if I want to? A guy isn't always looking for a "affair". No strings. No complications. And, if you play safe, no consequencies.
"Whoa, lady, I only speak two languages, English and bad English." - Korben Dallas, from The Fifth Element
"If history repeats itself, and the unexpected always happens, how incapable must man be of learning from experience?" - George Bernard Shaw
I have never had the experience of paying an actual escort but I think that I would love it and I find it hott. If the sex was good and satisfying then yes I sure would. I would hate to pay and then the escort not treat me right or not satisfy my mind too. Thomas
The old adage is true: You pay the escort/call girl - to leave after your time is spent.
Which men here have been paid after they've serviced someone? Besides myself, I mean.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
In my younger days while in the U.S. Navy traveling around the world I have paid for a lot of sex. Some of it was extremely good, exciting as could be and well worth the $. Others was worse than a poor hand job. However, none of it was as bad as my 1st wife nor were any of the ladies as good as my present wife. The best hooker I was ever with I think was a girl in the Phillipine Is. There wasn't anything I was into that she wouldn't do and could do well.
I have done the massage thing at times in my life
It's a very different experience from date sax. There's not a lot of play acting, guesswork. There's not a lot of pressure. You both know why you're there. You both know why she's there. While I always treated the women with politeness, I did not feel any need to impress them with my charm or stamina. I don't have any need for her to pretend to be incredibly turned on by me. I'm just one more cock, I'm sure they've seen better.