So, you are doing whatever on Lush, or on some other sex oriented web site, and you realize you recognize someone you know. Coworker, friend of a friend, your friend, church pastor, local politician, ect... So, what do you do with this knowledge? Forget it, let them know, snicker over your little secret & record it in your secret diary?
Sounds a little extreme. I really doubt I'd forget about it, but would not say anything right away. Would certainly take a close look at their profile.
Quote by Just_A_Guy_You_Know I'd probably keep it a secret, stop coming to Lush, and then be really weird and awkward around them for the rest of our lives.
A good friend I know often pops up here on a dating site a bit weird that she uses her Daughters name to advertise. She Know's I already saw it were very close friends.
Yes I sure do, but he is shy and won't come out of the closet. We never kissed but I know he want to... just not sure if I drive on that side of the road or not.
It would depend on who it was and how I know them. If they are someone I have played with I would say hello. It our relationship was a totally non sexual one I would not mention it to them.
I would respect their privacy with the utmost discretion as I would expect if someone I knew recognised me. However, depending on who they were, I might find a way to let them know that I know and that we have a common interest. ?
Quote by Pegasus4 I would respect their privacy with the utmost discretion as I would expect if someone I knew recognised me. However, depending on who they were, I might find a way to let them know that I know and that we have a common interest. ?
This, I think. Anyone from my other board who came here (not likely but not impossible) would probably find me pretty quickly though. I took the risk of using the same avatar even though I use a different board name. Just love my ape too much to give it up.
I guess it would be a good opportunity to get to know that person much better.
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It depends... on how well I know them, or what they have posted, their interests and other things. I always try to remember privacy is a valuable commodity.
Thought I saw the possibility last week, but quickly confirmed it was not. In this case I'd not have made any plans to contact them or otherwise press further. Were circumstances to change I might have. Unlikely they would identify me
Never mention it, most likely, but absolutely get off on them being on here, especially if they had pictures. Maybe befriend them on here and if we had chemistry maybe make it known I knew them in real life...
Same as above regarding tinder. was at my home town a few weeks ago and my girlfriend has it, we recognized about 6 men who should not have been on it.
It wasn't on Lush, but I was surfing on a "hook-up" site for the hell of it and saw a picture of a woman who lives about six blocks from me. I sent her a PM just to say hi, but she never replied.
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I recognised an ex-colleague from a brief chat I had with him on Twitter. I don't use my real name on Twitter and neither does he but it was really obvious who he was. I fessed up and told him who I was too. It was only fair. Strangely, it wasn't awkward. Okay, it was a little uncomfortable while he was using a dick pic as his avatar, but that's gone now, so it's all good. I'm still in touch.
What is it with knuckleheads and their dick pics? Are they just dense? Do they just have no clue that women aren't kidding about not wanting to see them? In all of my on-line experience, I've had exactly one woman ask me about it, and after I explained that my crotch is a no selfie zone, she never mentioned it again.
Quote by 69Kisses96 What is it with knuckleheads and their dick pics? Are they just dense? Do they just have no clue that women aren't kidding about not wanting to see them? ....
I've known a few who wanted to see dic pics when checking out a ad. or profile. But, they usually wanted to see full body pics too.
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We got recognised on a swingers website a couple of years ago, kind of mutual friends of friends thing. It was my girlfriend's ankle tattoo (which is small but very distinctive) and her friend's front room (in the background of a rather sexy photo). Oddly enough, my girlfriend was quite chilled about it (her mutual friends of friends), I was concerned but if she was cool, I was cool.
Seeing them again, they laughed it off. We were amazingly grown up about it, they were looking for one thing, we were looking for something different. I guess there is some kind of omerta, we were all wonderfully discreet about it and very British! (smiling now).
We got lucky I guess, I'd be mortified if exposed to my friends that don't know (that's all of them).