Maybe it's just me being paranoid, but he seems reluctant. I've talked to him about it and he just says don't be silly, I don't dislike doing it! I want to pleasure you! But he just doesn't seem enthusiastic, and he doesn't really go for it first unless he really has to if i'm not wet enough for penetration. It's like foreplay isn't even a concept in his mind!
How do I address this without hurting his feelings? I don't want to feel like i'm forcing him into anything, but i have needs too and it's not fair that he always gets to cum and then gives up on me
Any tips???
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First, trip him! Then when he's on the floor, you mount his face, and scream "EAT, Sucka!!" (that's how I do it anyway...)
Guys are visual and auditory. Play with it and tell him how wet you are wanting him to eat you out....that should work...
I agree with MikeJ007. Give him a little show of what's to come and encourage him by telling him what you want him to do with his tongue.
Personally, I just adore eating pussy but I have to admit, I do prefer it smooth or neatly trimmed.
For me it's never been an issue I am always ready to eat a pussy nothing better in my book !! I agree with the above comments give him a little show of what you have,, mikej007 has the right idea.
Cleanliness is next to tastyness - Make sure that you are clean and the scent of a woman is at a minimum.
In my early days I had many guys reluctant to go down. It becomes more probable after I have washed and shown him how clean I am and the scent of a woman is barely noticeable.
Generally most were surprised at the fact it is more palatable than they imagined and the degree of satisfaction I exhibited - sometimes a bit exaggerated - proves they are doing something I enjoy.
Rarely was it the one and only time they undertook that pleasure for me. Another thing a bit more aggressive - tell him unless you go down I don't go down - that works wonders as well.
With my current guys cream pie is a regular item on the menu.
I laughed at Beths comment - I would love to see their reaction.
When you get in bed, or where ever, push his head toward your hot spot and say "Me first, this time, Big Fella!"
this is backwards - I had to persuade her to let me eat her pussy. Now she hopes I'll do it most every time!
I love to eat pussy, but i do agree with others that it could be cleanliness thing. Not to say you are dirty, but I like to lick pussy that has just come out of the shower. You may need to have a lady on the side take care of you.
I would say take a shower and then bend over on the bed like your last photo. I would be licking your pussy and rimming your ass until you couldnt take it anymore.
Ermm...I know this is "Ask The Guys", but if feel that I have to persuade a man to kiss lick taste tease my pussy, I am going to similarly persuade myself to show him the door.
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Noob here and first post. I certainly don't have any sage advice, for that I apologize sincerely. I'm a guy, and have always loved going down on women. A friend of mine didn't share my enthusiasm for devouring pussy. I constantly harrassed and teased him about it, in a light hearted manner of course. He had a longtime girlfriend and have a child together. She eventually left him for another woman. I'm not saying it's because of his lack of offering her oral but it's kind of funny now. I swear I'm not a jerk. Lol.
You could try and encourage him to go down on you with some edible panties or maybe some whipped-cream play. Also, playing with yourself, putting your fingers into his mouth, and then asking if he can tell how horny you are from the taste could be a subtle way to encourage him to get some fresh from the source.
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"There are no arguments in matters of taste." - Oscar Wilde
I'll start by assuming that you do not have cleanliness issues.
Like some of the other commenters, all I need to convince me is access. I love licking a pussy.
As to advice, maybe you could suggest an exchange. offer him a minute of cock sucking for every minute of pussy eating. Bonus: orgasm for orgasm.
Once he tastes you, he will likely find he loves eating you.
Of course, there is a possibility that he is a "digestive exit."
Just tell him he's missing out on a massive part of the enjoyment of sex. Feeling a woman bucking around under your tongue, panting and moaning is one of the most rewarding parts of sex. If you want to feel like a man, make her feel like a woman. The incredible closeness and sexiness of using your tongue on a woman and watching her reactions is amazing. I think that men who don't 'get it' are missing out. Sure, it can be am acquired taste, like many of the very finest things in life.
Do the 69. If he doesn't respond at all while you're doing your part, it's either he is not attractive to your vagina or he is just a pussy to do it.
I could show you INCREDIBLE things...
Bethany Frasier had the best answer, but next to that, convince him to let you tie him down, then have your way with him. if he doesn't go along with, find somebody who cares for you enough to do it, or somebody who just loves giving oral.
The answer is simple:
You don't.
He should do it himself.
