Married only the once, it ended over thirty years ago, I'm a single parent. I became a born again virgin during a few years of celibacy, (raising a child). Luckily a married (female) friend showed me the errors of my ways and fucked me silly for a few months, which was great right up until we were caught. Consequently I have had many relationships over the years, all were good, for me.

I have remained friends with most of my former lovers, although I have lost contact with a few over the years. My ex wife hates me to this day, I don't find this unusual though, I have noticed many lesbians are man haters.

I am a carpenter, however I have worked the last 25 years in IT, I develop software and administer systems. I am a bit of a workaholic (slowing it down a little now). I enjoy my work.

I found this web site searching for erotic literature, many of the stories written by members are excellent. I signed up because I believe I can contribute, I have written a few, submitted none.

I don't understand BDSM I tried reading forum posts hoping to be enlightened, I left even more confused.

I don't understand why a guy would prefer another guy opposed to a woman. How could he not want pussy?

I do understand a girl preferring another girl, and I do know its more than just the pussy.

I don't consider lesbian sex hotter than man/woman, it doesn't interest me.

I don't understand why hard core porn can't have a real romantic element.

I don't understand why many women stay married to assholes.

I don't understand how many guys miss that their wives are very sexy, or worse still don't care.

Small breasts are sexy too. Massive is not.

I have zero tolerance for bigotry.

As I aged, I noticed there are many more beautiful women than what I thought when I was young.

Interests
I like to travel, well not really, I find the length of time to get anywhere these days is annoying as hell. Unless of course I have chosen a sea route opposed to air. I have travelled to and enjoyed many locations.

Reading, I now allow myself the time to read, again.

I am an adrenaline junkie:

Love motorcycling, have done so all of my life, received my first motorcycle at the age of three. I prefer fast motorcycles opposed to the sedate cruisers. I no longer ride off road, the broken bones take too long to heal these days.

4 wheeling rocks, mudding in a Jeep or truck replaced the off road bikes, injuries are now limited to bruising.

I prefer fast cars, never owned a mini van, never will. I enjoy restoring cars and bikes, I invariably modify what I buy. I have had too many traffic violation tickets issued to me during my life.

I am an adrenaline junkie:

Sex with an element of danger is awesome.

I have had a few relationships with women that were already married, they were all great.

Favorite Books
Nothing really stands out at this point of time, I read a lot. For the past couple of years I have been reading and re-reading Science Fiction. I recently reread Asimov's Foundations series. Currently re-reading Hemingway's The Sun Also Rises.

About 6 weeks ago I read an erotic story, enjoyed it and sought more.

Favorite Authors
Too many to list, really.

Favorite Movies
Trying to think of a good movie that was memorable, right now my mind is blank, so I guess I haven't watched a really good movie for many years.

Favorite TV Shows
Currently binge watching West Wing after watching House of Cards, American TV's interpretation of politics are fun. The West Wing binge is over.

Favorite Music
My musical tastes vary with mood. I listen to classical, rock, progressive rock and many of the recent 'pop'.

I have enjoyed a few operas, but that was due to the company I was with at the time, there are however a few operatic pieces that I do like.

Not a fan of country western, again there are exceptions.