Would she be someone you'd be interested in or is that too much pressure (or perhaps not enough)?
Would she be too hard to date?
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Quote by PhilU
If I was interested in her, then I'd still be interested in her after finding out she'd been abstinent for a long stretch. After my marriage broke down, I was abstinent for quite a while. At first, that was because I was hoping to resurrect the marriage. Then, after it became obvious that that wasn't going to happen, I made a conscious decision not to seek sex while I was getting my head together. I still think that was one of my better decisions. I didn't lose interest in sex, but without the complications of chasing it, I had some space to focus on some other things for the first time in my adult life.
I'm in my 40s - any woman my age that I meet is going to have at least some baggage. If that includes a period of abstinence, then so be it. As long as she wasn't spending the time with her 14 cats, allowing a hatred of men to fester, it should be fine (although then it's not the abstinence that would be the problem...) If she's ready for a relationship, then she's ready for a relationship...
Quote by PhilU
If I was interested in her, then I'd still be interested in her after finding out she'd been abstinent for a long stretch. After my marriage broke down, I was abstinent for quite a while. At first, that was because I was hoping to resurrect the marriage. Then, after it became obvious that that wasn't going to happen, I made a conscious decision not to seek sex while I was getting my head together. I still think that was one of my better decisions. I didn't lose interest in sex, but without the complications of chasing it, I had some space to focus on some other things for the first time in my adult life.
I'm in my 40s - any woman my age that I meet is going to have at least some baggage. If that includes a period of abstinence, then so be it. As long as she wasn't spending the time with her 14 cats, allowing a hatred of men to fester, it should be fine (although then it's not the abstinence that would be the problem...) If she's ready for a relationship, then she's ready for a relationship...
My new Flash Fiction:
An Extraordinary Orgasm.
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/flash-erotica/an-extraordinary-orgasm-2
Quote by PhilU
If I was interested in her, then I'd still be interested in her after finding out she'd been abstinent for a long stretch. After my marriage broke down, I was abstinent for quite a while. At first, that was because I was hoping to resurrect the marriage. Then, after it became obvious that that wasn't going to happen, I made a conscious decision not to seek sex while I was getting my head together. I still think that was one of my better decisions. I didn't lose interest in sex, but without the complications of chasing it, I had some space to focus on some other things for the first time in my adult life.
I'm in my 40s - any woman my age that I meet is going to have at least some baggage. If that includes a period of abstinence, then so be it. As long as she wasn't spending the time with her 14 cats, allowing a hatred of men to fester, it should be fine (although then it's not the abstinence that would be the problem...) If she's ready for a relationship, then she's ready for a relationship...
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
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Depends on the woman, depends on the reason.
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Is 13 cats a deal breaker?
Quote by sprite
i have 2 cats and men annoy me - how do you feel about that? oh, plus, i'm a lesbian and married, so... damn. the more i think about it, the more i realize it's just not gonna work between us, Phil.
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Is 13 cats a deal breaker?
Quote by PhilU
Well I wouldn't want to limit my options too much...![]()
My new Flash Fiction:
An Extraordinary Orgasm.
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/flash-erotica/an-extraordinary-orgasm-2
Quote by sprite
if the person was ready to start living a sexual life again, that's all that should matter. being a bit rusty is no issue. being a bit hesitant, not a problem as long as we could work though that together.
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Like a bit of hairy pussy, do you?
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There could be so many reasons. No, I am not a guy.
Could be for medical reasons, an abusive partner, or a partner who could no longer perform.
But, if she had the interest and the willingness to learn she would almost be a virgin again.
The man I know best would love the challenge to take her to a place she had never visited before.
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That sounds like a very interesting man.![]()
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