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gf asking you to circumcise?
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I am circumcised and glad I am. I don't believe that loss of sensitivity stuff.
The vast majority of men in the USA born after WWII are circumcised. If I have male children I will have them circumcised but it will not be done by a machine, only the skilled hands of a surgeon.
On the other hand that decision is your and yours only. Your girlfriend should not be pressuring you to do that. That is no different than you pressuring her to get a boob job or to have her labia reduced. If she is wanting to control you that way then maybe you should get a new girlfriend.
The vast majority of men in the USA born after WWII are circumcised. If I have male children I will have them circumcised but it will not be done by a machine, only the skilled hands of a surgeon.
On the other hand that decision is your and yours only. Your girlfriend should not be pressuring you to do that. That is no different than you pressuring her to get a boob job or to have her labia reduced. If she is wanting to control you that way then maybe you should get a new girlfriend.
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if your girlfriend asked to you to circumcise your penis, would you do it for her even if your just going out or do you have to be married? and if your just friends with benefits?
not no...but hell NO
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No!!! She could either get over it or hit the door running.
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Speaking as a woman, is it possible that she's turned off by something? Smegma can accumulate under the foreskin and be a terrible turnoff. I just can't wrap my head around any other reason for an adult woman to ask an uncircumcised adult male to go in for a circumcision surgery.
Side note: Even if you decide that hey, I'll go for the circumcision, good luck finding a surgeon willing to do it or an insurance plan willing to pay for it to be done. I have no issues with circumcision of infants--all three of my sons were circumcised shortly after birth, with me present in the room--but I believe that past the age of one year, you need a valid medical reason for it to be done.
Side note: Even if you decide that hey, I'll go for the circumcision, good luck finding a surgeon willing to do it or an insurance plan willing to pay for it to be done. I have no issues with circumcision of infants--all three of my sons were circumcised shortly after birth, with me present in the room--but I believe that past the age of one year, you need a valid medical reason for it to be done.
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... I believe that past the age of one year, you need a valid medical reason for it to be done.
I believe that a valid medical reason should be needed in any case, regardless of age. Hygiene is not valid reason. In stead of being circumcised, children should be taught how to properly keep themselves clean. Without that, a cock will be a filthy thing, with or without a foreskin. Mutilation of children for any other than medical reasons should be prohibited.
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I believe that a valid medical reason should be needed in any case, regardless of age. Hygiene is not valid reason. In stead of being circumcised, children should be taught how to properly keep themselves clean. Without that, a cock will be a filthy thing, with or without a foreskin. Mutilation of children for any other than medical reasons should be prohibited.
I'm sure that the OP appreciates your input; however, this thread was not started to debate the merits or lack thereof inherent in the practice of circumcision. Thank you and have a good day.
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Kind of moot with me since I was circumcised as a baby (not Jewish, it was just kind of the norm medically back when I was born in the sixties). My son is uncut but I hope he'd have a better reason for changing that than "my gf wants it". There are some legitimate health reasons why you might get it done, but that would be only reason I would see as reasonable.
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Honestly. Circumcising is even worse than a boob job, because it actually removes something necessary of the human body. Its more like if you were to cut out your nipple or your finger nail.
If she were to do that to me I would instantly leave. I wouldnt want to waste my time with someone as shallow as that.
I adhere to the theory that you lose a lot of sensitivity along with the foreskin...I've all ways made it a point to keep under my foreskin clean...the only problem I ever had was how easy I could catch a yeast infection from my wife...
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I am circumcised and glad I am. I don't believe that loss of sensitivity stuff.
The vast majority of men in the USA born after WWII are circumcised. If I have male children I will have them circumcised but it will not be done by a machine, only the skilled hands of a surgeon.
On the other hand that decision is your and yours only. Your girlfriend should not be pressuring you to do that. That is no different than you pressuring her to get a boob job or to have her labia reduced. If she is wanting to control you that way then maybe you should get a new girlfriend.
Apparently, for your sons that decision will not be theirs and theirs only.
As for the OP question: maybe the partner could have their preference medically altered, by electric shock therapy perhaps ;)
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The questioner must be out of his/her mind to even ask such a question.
I have been with a few men that were uncut and loved it. Feels like there is more meat in me I know it is all in my mind. But as long as I think it is true.
Then the World Knows it to be Fact.
I have been with a few men that were uncut and loved it. Feels like there is more meat in me I know it is all in my mind. But as long as I think it is true.
Then the World Knows it to be Fact.
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Im uncircumcised and would never get circumcised. Unless there was a good medical reason. Definitely not because of a girlfriend.
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Too late, she cried.
I.A.W. Genesis Ch 17 Verses 10 to 14, I was about 8 days old and had no say at all.
I.A.W. Genesis Ch 17 Verses 10 to 14, I was about 8 days old and had no say at all.
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I'm uncut and I ain't trimming my pencil at this late date for no fuckin' body......
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My answer would be NO ! If that meant end of relationship , so be it .
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At my age if I needed to be circumcised, would be a procedure most Dr. have not done in there lifetime. And sure would be something the Dr and all the medical staff would be talking about
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I'm uncircumcised and I would chose to stay this way and if the Girl wanted to leave don't let the door hit you in the ass. How dare she ask you to do that. How long you guys been together?
I'm not knocking anyone who is circumcised at birth or whether they chose it later on in life but that should be the dudes choice to make. Not his Girlfriends or his wife when he gets married.
Look at this baby, hes almost perfect but now lets take this sharp stone so we can do the work of the lord. Fuck off.
I'm not knocking anyone who is circumcised at birth or whether they chose it later on in life but that should be the dudes choice to make. Not his Girlfriends or his wife when he gets married.
Look at this baby, hes almost perfect but now lets take this sharp stone so we can do the work of the lord. Fuck off.
I happen to be circumcised (not my choice)
So if I were uncircumcised, and a female asked me to do that, first I'd most certainly have made the wrong choice in gf's, but;
I'd say to her; I'll get circumcised, if you get a female circumcision first.
Unless done for medical purposes, or by personal choice, this is the same brutal process done on babies without any anesthetic, removing a nerve rich portion of the body in order to reduce the pleasure of sex mainly for religious purposes.
I don't think there is a line up of women doing this to themselves, that's for sure.
So if I were uncircumcised, and a female asked me to do that, first I'd most certainly have made the wrong choice in gf's, but;
I'd say to her; I'll get circumcised, if you get a female circumcision first.
Unless done for medical purposes, or by personal choice, this is the same brutal process done on babies without any anesthetic, removing a nerve rich portion of the body in order to reduce the pleasure of sex mainly for religious purposes.
I don't think there is a line up of women doing this to themselves, that's for sure.
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I agree with you Hyperion, Ladies will not be so willing to cut their clitoris off.
Seems like an extremely unlikely request,...
While I can understand that a woman might have a preference for a circumcised/uncircumcised penis, I would find it hard to believe that that could actually be a deal breaker. If it actually was, then I would suggest that the woman was making an incredibly unreasonable request
While I can understand that a woman might have a preference for a circumcised/uncircumcised penis, I would find it hard to believe that that could actually be a deal breaker. If it actually was, then I would suggest that the woman was making an incredibly unreasonable request