Guys, I posted a similar question on the Ask the Gals forum, but I think it would be very interesting to hear your point of view as well. Have you ever asked your wife or girlfriend to pose for you for a series of erotic photo shoots? Was she willing to do so?
Do you think she would she be willing to pose:
- ...wearing sexy lingerie?
- ...wearing an erotic/sexy outfit, whether something you could wear in public or purely as an erotic fantasy?
- ...completely nude?
- ...in public?
- ...in situations in which she would not normally engage, for the sake of creating erotic art?
- ...in the act, for example while giving a blowjob or receiving head or being fucked?
If you're a photographer, even of the most amateur variety, what sorts of outfits or poses would you love to see her in as you photograph her?
If you have asked her, how did she react? Was she flattered? Offended? Secretly thrilled?
A big part of the trick of it for me has been in finding ways to help my wife feel comfortable posing...overcoming her natural insecurities and helping her come to the conclusion that erotic photography between a loving couple is probably more ordinary than we think.
I've been photographing my wife for many years - I'm very curious how it works for other couples.
She's posed for me since we were dating. Some of the pics are framed at the house.
She has a nude painting of her done by an artist in Paris.
I did just write a story on this, so I'm going to share an experience as well. I have photographed almost every girl I've been with in the past 5 to 6 years. The nature and spontaneity of the shoot greatly depended on the girl, of course, ranging from only suggestively posing in full clothing to masturbating and playing with toys.
But some elements always remained constant. For example, it was always spontaneous in some form. We always talked about it before, but there was never any actual plan as for the when or where. That way, no frame was ever there to organize and standardize what we were going to shoot.
But the aspect that impressed me most is that in every shooting, it systematically became about something other than just having a fun times and pictures. The camera has a fantastic presence between two people, it kinds of pushed boundaries by the mere desire for a better picture. It is an awesome and overwhelming sensation.
It is also why I always deleted everything just after watching them back. The pictures themselves always seemed irrelevant next to that.
My wife and I have posed for each other in photos, her idea. She is the photographer hobbyist in our relationship.
We had an opportunity to indulge in an erotic shoot a week or two ago. Spent nearly the whole day, after turning our house into a giant photo studio.
Guys, have you ever done that with your wife or g/f?
Yeah did it. It gets sticky when in a divorce. Most women don't want those pics and videos floating around. Some here on Lush post them. It varies from person to person.
yes but it never materialized.
My wife does pose for me occasionally and a few of our discreet photos are on here viewable for friends.
I have shot women as a voyeur on request.
It has always been anonymous as no faces were ever shown.
Very erotic for us both.
As opposed to shooting naked models, that can be so asexual!
Of all our inventions for mass communication,
pictures still speak the most universally understood language.
Walt Disney I have some photos of her being nude, and even some where she's giving me titjob and blowjob.
It is a fantasy of mine, but my spouse isn't the sort to go for that type of thing. I'd like to do a shoot in the bedroom with her slowly stripping down on the bed as part of foreplay. Alas, not much sex happening period so fantasies like that are remaining fantasies for now.
Always, and she loves it. Anytime anywhere....indoors outdoors classic, sluty, playful and tasteful...I am in love with the perfect woman
I have been taking photos of my wife for about 6 years now. She has also taken some photos of herself when I have been out. We have had about 30 'photo' sessions over the past 6 years. Surprisingly they started very hardcore with no hiding of her face. Then after about a year when I told her that I showed them online she was, not surprisingly, rather annoyed. I use to, and still do, chat in messanger, and shared her photos, chatted with guys and watched some on cam cum over her pics. I told her this and she was only mildly turned on. These originl photos I edited and covered her face.
In the last couple of years whenever we take photos I make sure I dont include her face and she does the same. I still share her pics and love to exchange phots and tributes with other guys. I have lots of photos in my albums and would love to hear and see what other guys think of her.
Dave
The first time was back in the late 90s. Those pics were so HOT! A few years (and many pics later) the laptop crashes. Take it to be repaired. Guess what were the only files that could be saved. Yup. I was working crazy Amounts of OT so the wife had to pick up the laptop. She said the two guys (young college age) kept eyeing her over. She learned why when she got home. She was mad about it at first. But I know she got a thrill. She was quite the mild back then. We laugh about it now.
She has occasionally when in the right mood
I love photography and actually talked my wife at the time to pose in some lingerie. She only allowed me to take two pictures of her topless. We divorced years later and I found full frontal, legs spread nude pictures of her on the internet. I guess It's a good thing I divorced her...
YES, almost every guy has, stills, videos--It is a HUGE turn on for both parties/lingerie always helps
yes many times in lingerie naked indoors and out and its always a huge turn on .
Well, yes ... but it wasn't MY wife.
I've taken erotic pics of my wife for over 30 years. I have them on my screen saver and never get tired of looking at them.
Guys, I posted a similar question on the Ask the Gals forum, but I think it would be very interesting to hear your point of view as well. Have you ever asked your wife or girlfriend to pose for you for a series of erotic photo shoots? Was she willing to do so?
Do you think she would she be willing to pose:
Yes she would
- ...wearing sexy lingerie?
Yes she has
- ...wearing an erotic/sexy outfit, whether something you could wear in public or purely as an erotic fantasy?
Yes she has
- ...completely nude?
- ...in public?
Yes
- ...in situations in which she would not normally engage, for the sake of creating erotic art?
Yes
- ...in the act, for example while giving a blowjob or receiving head or being fucked?
Yes
If you're a photographer, even of the most amateur variety, what sorts of outfits or poses would you love to see her in as you photograph her?
In lingerie , In sexy outfits , naked , Having sex , etc
If you have asked her, how did she react? Was she flattered? Offended? Secretly thrilled?
Thrilled
I've been posing nude for my photographer boyfriend since we were in college together, and you can see many of them in my avatars here.
Yes of the wife and I when we were much younger and carefree. They are actually quite flattering. Just nudes in poses and nothing of a sexual act. Was risque at the time, but pretty tame today. Hadn't thought about them till now. Their in a safety deposit box, but now I'm wondering what our children would think. lol She might have forgotten about them, maybe have some wine together and rekindle some memories. Were still together so what the hell!
Yes both wife and girlfriends. Sometimes both together. In all the situations plus others in the original question.
I have posed for my husband on many occasions he loves doing it and I love my time before the lens.
I have also posed for professional photographers and found it to be a real turn on. I know the career photographer is steeped in his professionalism. But after photo a woman for an hour in the nude they are so easily seduced.
My husband has a almost life size picture of me in his office. With my legs spread and exposing everything I have. If you visit he certainly is going to show this photograph to you
Yes I would say we are both comfortable with posing in the nude.
Nah...it would be wasting my breath.