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Does sex on a first date mean she’s not girlfriend material?

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AlexisItsYours
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Does sex on a first date mean she’s not girlfriend material? If so why?
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St_Crispins_Day
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No, you can't judge a person after one date.
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Absolutely not. One of the best lays I ever had on our first date. Married to her 43 yrs next month.
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No - like the poster above I fucked my wife on our first date. If men think that way in the 21st century, then it is more the case that they're not boyfriend material.
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Not to me. Not in the slightest. Now, if I knew that she had sex the next night with another first date, then I might re-visit the girlfriend idea. But I'd certainly call her again.
St_Crispins_Day
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No - like the poster above I fucked my wife on our first date. If men think that way in the 21st century, then it is more the case that they're not boyfriend material.


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hopp3r
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Not in the slightest. Sometimes you just know there's something there and don't want to wait. Other times you just want to have a little fun and see where it goes. In my opinion the real test is if the guy likes her enough to ask her out on a third date and if and only if she accepts.

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benawriter
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If both want sex on the first date, mission accomplished. If the sex was good enough to warrant both partners wanting to spend more time together, for sex or anything else, all the better for a chance to get acquainted. But sex on the first date doesn't disqualify someone for becoming a girlfriend, it just relieves the pressure to make communication easier.
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No it means she likes sex too. Be happy.
simplyjohn
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A bit confused by the question but here is my view.

If I meet a lady for the first time on a pre-arranged date, typically in a pub, I buy her a bag of cheese and onion crisps and half a lager I damn well expect sex. Time, effort and my money!
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
It means she's wife material. It means you and her click, fuck the formalities.
1lush
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Sometimes things just click.
Buz
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I thought everyone had sex on the first date.

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Not at all, sometimes people just click. A mutual attraction is there and they act on it. Or a bottle of tequila was involved.
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no ! it's both of us who lost their virginty & it's natural
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Only if she never wants to see/fuck you again after that first date.


ha ha exactly. Which leads to a whole new level of self evaluation.
chesh78
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No, I certainly wouldn't say that. I've slept with three girls on first dates - one ended up as a two week fling, the second as a three-year relationship, and I married the third.
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Doesn't mean that at all, just means you both had a great time
Burquette
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I haven't encountered a guy who thinks that way on Lush.

Usually that type of guy has a long list of don'ts. Don't have tattoos or piercings. Don't have more than X number of past lovers. Don't challenge him on gender roles. Don't cut your hair short. Otherwise, you're not marriage material.

Honestly, any man who would look down on you for having sex with him isn't worth your time.
sprite
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does sex on the first date mean that he's not boyfriend material? it takes two to tango, dude (hi verbal!)

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Hope not. I'm might just be married to such a one.
Buz
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Of course not! If she is, she is. First date sex has nothing to do with it. Did the guy participate? Well... What's the difference?
ChuckEPoo
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We had sex on first date. Married 32 years now. However, she still refers to me as her first husband.
St_Crispins_Day
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Quote by Burquette
I haven't encountered a guy who thinks that way on Lush.

Usually that type of guy has a long list of don'ts. Don't have tattoos or piercings. Don't have more than X number of past lovers. Don't challenge him on gender roles. Don't cut your hair short. Otherwise, you're not marriage material.

Honestly, any man who would look down on you for having sex with him isn't worth your time.



Yes!! This!! A thousand times this!!

Any man who dictates what a woman should be and cannot see past his predefined criteria of a woman isn't worth shit as a human being.
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Wilful
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Of course not.

But this'll fry your noodle: if he holds off on that first date and a few after, it'll nearly always make him boyfriend material. It's like pulling a lever... which he'll need to do for a bit to get him through. Trust me, nine years later and she's still all over me like stink on a monkey. Use it wisely.
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Meggsy
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I was always considered a certainty. If I didn't think I would enjoy it with him - I didn't date him - the first time or any other time.
EricRhodes
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To have sex on the first date is an individual choice. If you do, good. If not, so what. And, what about the guy? Does that make him not boyfriend material? So sick of these double standards.