What makes you approach a girl on lush ? Is it her looks? Profile?
What gets you going?
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Cryptic Vigilante
I approach girls who post clever, well-written and entertaining responses consistently in the forums, and who also have an interesting profile (which does not imply having fake pictures of naked pornstars). I also like when I can imagine what kind of person is behind the words ; it proves that she has personality and wants to have genuine interactions with other people. All of that makes me relate to her to at least some degree.
I don't care about her looks, but I like when her avatar/profile has some style.
I don't care about her looks, but I like when her avatar/profile has some style.
Advanced Wordsmith
i approach girl to on lush because :
i) first for answering the questions
ii) talking with their fantasies
iii) reading them with story
iii) making friendship, here is no limit for thought
i) first for answering the questions
ii) talking with their fantasies
iii) reading them with story
iii) making friendship, here is no limit for thought
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Quote by wildxxyoung
What makes you approach a girl on lush ? Is it her looks? Profile?
What gets you going?
What makes me approach a girl on Lush? Tits
What gets me going? Tits.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
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Always look for the truth in her profile as there seem to be too many FAKES
CurlyFries
Quote by lafayettemister
What makes me approach a girl on Lush? Tits
What gets me going? Tits.
Your honesty is one of the reasons I lurve you so much! That and your big schlong!
Story Verifier
I look at her profile and read all comments I can find. I then look that any pictures she may have and sometimes, 20% maybe! I'll send a private message saying I liked what I read and compliment her. If she responds I'll write another compliment back then respond as she indicates I should.
I never just throw myself at her. Respect is very high on my list of things I should offer.
I never just throw myself at her. Respect is very high on my list of things I should offer.
I am always a gentleman.
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Your honesty is one of the reasons I lurve you so much! That and your big schlong!
And it gets bigger whenever I'm looking at that good lookin' ass or yours.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
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I read her profile, looking for compatible interests, a flash of wit and intelligence... and yeah... a sexy picture always clinches the deal.
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First off, there aren't any "girls" on Lush - or if they are girls, they are not supposed to be here. This is an adult site, so all the females on here are women.
Second, I approach women on Lush the same as I approach anyone IRL. If they seem to be interesting people, with a dysfunctional brain kinda like mine, I may chit-chat with them via a pm. IF we find we are mutually interesting conversationalists, I will then add them as friends. Oh, and one major requirement: this is a writer's site. IF they have no writings posted either on this site or on the blue "sister" site, I do not bother to approach them at all.
Second, I approach women on Lush the same as I approach anyone IRL. If they seem to be interesting people, with a dysfunctional brain kinda like mine, I may chit-chat with them via a pm. IF we find we are mutually interesting conversationalists, I will then add them as friends. Oh, and one major requirement: this is a writer's site. IF they have no writings posted either on this site or on the blue "sister" site, I do not bother to approach them at all.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
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a) interesting, funny, creative, witty, intellectual forum posts
b) good stories
c) similar fantasies
d) attractive, real profile
e) good banter and chat
b) good stories
c) similar fantasies
d) attractive, real profile
e) good banter and chat
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Quote by lafayettemister
What makes me approach a girl on Lush? Tits
What gets me going? Tits.
Well now I know why it took you sooooo long to ask, you didn't know I had tits with the av I had of the silhouette of a red-head. Now you have me wondering why you ever did friend request me. Was it all the dirty pics? My love of guys in socks? Or maybe my incessant need for frequent lube jobs?
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Quote by wildxxyoung
What makes you approach a girl on lush ? Is it her looks? Profile?
What gets you going?
Looks are nice, but fleeting. Anyone can download a picture of a hard body 21 year old and claim it is them. It's her personality as she puts it out in her profile. That tells the story.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis
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Well now I know why it took you sooooo long to ask, you didn't know I had tits with the av I had of the silhouette of a red-head. Now you have me wondering why you ever did friend request me. Was it all the dirty pics? My love of guys in socks? Or maybe my incessant need for frequent lube jobs?
All of the above.
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
Clever Gem
Quote by lafayettemister
All of the above.
You had me at TITS LM xx
Mind you didnt I aproach you...on that other blue site??
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Quote by crazydiamond
You had me at TITS LM xx
Mind you didnt I aproach you...on that other blue site??
Mmm tits. Yes, as a matter of fact, you did. Glad you did too!
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
Clever Gem
Quote by lafayettemister
Mmm tits. Yes, as a matter of fact, you did. Glad you did too!
I know darlin', you not had a dry night since haha xx
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I think what each person wants out of this site determines that. We are generally all looking for stimulation, but those wanting more intelligent stimulation base things off of stories, forum responses, and implied personality. Those looking for visual or physical stimulation look for who has the best ass or seems DTF
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I never get approached
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Quote by Teen_lover
i approach girl to on lush because :
i) first for answering the questions
ii) talking with their fantasies
iii) reading them with story
iii) making friendship, here is no limit for thought
How literate must she be. I mean, where do you set your bar?
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Fireman
It's her photo, profile, location, stories and forum responses/answers/posts. Then I will ask to be a friend and see what happens from there.
Quote by Teen_lover
i approach girl to on lush because :
i) first for answering the questions
ii) talking with their fantasies
iii) reading them with story
iii) making friendship, here is no limit for thought
Quote by WellMadeMale
How literate must she be. I mean, where do you set your bar?
I see what you did there...
I look at the profile pics. I look for attractive women to ask if they would be willing to looking at my stories. The reason I do this is because I figure if I got all these hot babes reading my stuff that will help generate interest in my
story telling. More guys would want to read my stuff because they seeing all these bomb shells into my stuff . So the guys would be more inclined to read my stuff to learn any would be "tips". It comes down to one thing getting fans and keeping fans.
Next I look at the forums and see who has interesting things to say. People with original/thought provoking things to say are people I would like to call friend.
Sadly my tactics have not worked too well. Most people I message never message me back. One day I'll get up to 10 friend just you watch.
story telling. More guys would want to read my stuff because they seeing all these bomb shells into my stuff . So the guys would be more inclined to read my stuff to learn any would be "tips". It comes down to one thing getting fans and keeping fans.
Next I look at the forums and see who has interesting things to say. People with original/thought provoking things to say are people I would like to call friend.
Sadly my tactics have not worked too well. Most people I message never message me back. One day I'll get up to 10 friend just you watch.
CurlyFries
Quote by vines
I look at the profile pics. I look for attractive women to ask if they would be willing to looking at my stories. The reason I do this is because I figure if I got all these hot babes reading my stuff that will help generate interest in my
story telling. More guys would want to read my stuff because they seeing all these bomb shells into my stuff . So the guys would be more inclined to read my stuff to learn any would be "tips". It comes down to one thing getting fans and keeping fans.
Next I look at the forums and see who has interesting things to say. People with original/thought provoking things to say are people I would like to call friend.
Sadly my tactics have not worked too well. Most people I message never message me back. One day I'll get up to 10 friend just you watch.
Honestly, that annoys the crap out of me when I get those types of messages. "Hey, I'd like to be your friend, but here's some homework first." Hell no! I'm just not that nice of a person.
You mention that these tactics aren't working, so maybe I can suggest another approach. You want people to read and support your writing, but do you do that for other authors on Lush? I checked your profile and you have neither the commentator nor the electorate badge and you've been a member for almost 1 1/2 years, so it doesn't look like you do much reading here. Sounds like you want to be taken seriously as a writer, so why wouldn't you support other writers here? Maybe read their stories and comment and, in kind, they'll do the same for you. Not only will you have fellow writers reading your stuff, but some of them are even bombshells (especially Buz; he's a hottie.
) Also, you might learn a thing or two about writing, because there are some amazing writers here. I know, I've have quite a few of them as friends. Sometimes you've got to give a little to get a little. Good luck!
Being relatively new, though I have read the stories for a long time, I would say that what initially gets me curious is how well spoken or funny some one may be. If my curiosity peeks my interest enough I will check out their profile and see if it is someone worth contacting (interesting, funny, sarcastic, intelligent, etc...) or not (likes sex with family members, being urinated on, hates guys, doesn't want to be approached, uses chia pets as sex toys, etc...). Looking at pictures also comes into play, because I may find the profile and humor appealing but if she can bench press a Buick, has 7 or 8 digits on each hand or foot, or bears a strong resemblance to big foot I will be less inclined to initiate some sort of dialogue. But alas, I am new and maybe naive but that is my two cents worth.