this can go for guys too.
Anway what are people's thoughts on cybering, is it fun? stupid? if you like it what kinds of people you like cybering with?
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Cybering is a big waste of time. If I am going to get myself off I would think it a great annoyance to have someone typing away at me and asking me all kinds of stupid questions. That would be like trying to take a relaxing bubble bath with 5 screaming kids pounding on the door...JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!! LMAO
Besides, trying to masturbate with one hand and type with the other is just too distracting and I wouldnt want my keyboard getting all sticky. And as far as Im concerned, its in the flesh or not at all. (And no, thats not an invite!)
Besides, trying to masturbate with one hand and type with the other is just too distracting and I wouldnt want my keyboard getting all sticky. And as far as Im concerned, its in the flesh or not at all. (And no, thats not an invite!)
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I don't know if it's fun or stupid, it's just not something I have any interest in.
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I think it works better as foreplay, at least it has in my relationships. If we couldn't see each other than talking dirty online would just make us that more hot for when we did see each other.
I did it a lot more when I was younger, in middle/high school and in college but not in a few years now. It can be fun sometimes.
I did it a lot more when I was younger, in middle/high school and in college but not in a few years now. It can be fun sometimes.
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
I think cybering is a lot hotter than just reading erotic stories by oneself. It's the mind that's being seduced and someone with a facility for words can invoke responses more easily than can reading stories. What it takes, though, is someone who can not only form actual sentences, but also type them. Text-speak does not work for me. I don't think phone sex would work for me as I feel I write better than I speak. Also, it would probably make me laugh.
There are different degrees of cybering, though. In a virtual reality world in the form of sexy avatars, where one watches oneself having sex at the same time as writing seductive words, it can be very hot. It doesn't come close to real sex, but it comes closer to that than anything else does. Granted, it's just masturbation, but it's a great form of masturbation.
There are different degrees of cybering, though. In a virtual reality world in the form of sexy avatars, where one watches oneself having sex at the same time as writing seductive words, it can be very hot. It doesn't come close to real sex, but it comes closer to that than anything else does. Granted, it's just masturbation, but it's a great form of masturbation.
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Ohhh text-speak??? I would so pay to see someone cyber with a text-speak software that sounds like those computer voice boxes from the 1980's... Win!
Imagine Johnny Five or something: "I am now touching your... Oh, baby, can you feel it, I am so hot for you, ohhh ahhh uhhh, my nipples are hard".
Imagine Johnny Five or something: "I am now touching your... Oh, baby, can you feel it, I am so hot for you, ohhh ahhh uhhh, my nipples are hard".
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
I don't know anything about text-speak software. What I meant was what people use to text messages. I prefer complete sentences and no vowels left out.
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Ohhh text-speak??? I would so pay to see someone cyber with a text-speak software that sounds like those computer voice boxes from the 1980's... Win!
Imagine Johnny Five or something: "I am now touching your... Oh, baby, can you feel it, I am so hot for you, ohhh ahhh uhhh, my nipples are hard".
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Yeah...it was a joke ;)
Who would actually want a robot talking sexy to them? LOL
Who would actually want a robot talking sexy to them? LOL
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
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I actually enjoy it when I've the time, usually when I am writing a story that involves sex will I cyber. I find it focuses my mind on the task at hand.
That being said, I am VERY picky about who I play with. And more often than not, I end up not cybering with someone I have chatted with.
The original poster asked about what kinds of people do you cyber with; and the best answer I can give is this. In a bar, or a library, or on the street. If a man walks up to me and he captures my attention; humour, wit, charm, intelligence etc... then yes, I would entertain the notion of sleeping with him after getting to know him better. If a man walks up to me in real life with (I always picture this in a deep agonising voice that makes me want to shove bamboo slivers under my finger nails) "Hey baby/hun/luv wanna fuck?" or something along those lines.... well my brain seems to stop working and my tongue gets the best of me and I give a pretty lecture. For me, its the same in the online. Capture my interest; I am yours. Bore me; I will just walk away.
That being said, I am VERY picky about who I play with. And more often than not, I end up not cybering with someone I have chatted with.
The original poster asked about what kinds of people do you cyber with; and the best answer I can give is this. In a bar, or a library, or on the street. If a man walks up to me and he captures my attention; humour, wit, charm, intelligence etc... then yes, I would entertain the notion of sleeping with him after getting to know him better. If a man walks up to me in real life with (I always picture this in a deep agonising voice that makes me want to shove bamboo slivers under my finger nails) "Hey baby/hun/luv wanna fuck?" or something along those lines.... well my brain seems to stop working and my tongue gets the best of me and I give a pretty lecture. For me, its the same in the online. Capture my interest; I am yours. Bore me; I will just walk away.
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Yeah...it was a joke ;)
Who would actually want a robot talking sexy to them? LOL
*purrs* ME!!!
Ohh, write sexy things to me Primal and I will listen o your robotic voice
Ah, wonder what language I should make your voice sound like... Hm...
*drifts away in Robotic land*
I LOVE cybering.
I don't do it to everyone, not very often anymore...
There should not be "questions" in cybering... more like. Hm...
Building a story together. Imagining yourself in a scenario with the other person.
Touching feeling. At times letting the story be told more from the other person. At times yourself leading the storytelling.
Making the heat grow from within. Anticipation, wanting to feel the other person.
Hm, been a long time since I just wrote with someone without my webcam up.
Webcams estroy some of the magic. The build up of the story.
Ah...
Cyber...
Robots.
Hmmmm...wonder if thereäs a way to live in that world.
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It can be fun, I haven't done cyber talk with anyone in about three years though, so I am kind of rusty at it lol. I don't think it's any different than talking dirty to your partner or phone sex with your partner or flirty online friends.
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
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I'm a pretty big fan of cybering, it's difficult typing with one hand, yes. BUT if I do it with the right person, it's sooooo lovely...
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I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole. LOL
Goddam it!! I keep telling all those cyber rooms I HAVE a ten foot pole!!! J/K
I think most everybody agrees, it's really just another way to enjoy somebody you already are enjoying in real life, or in some other meaningful way.
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A guess with some girls, cyberying just takes it out of them.
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LMAO! Saved.
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
OMG Gav, Where did you find that! Oh maybe it's you. Maybe Gav is short for Gavina. Can't really tell with you hidden in that storm trooper suit 
Loved it!!
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Hey...I only tried cybering for the first time this past July...the morning of July 4th...I wrote a story around it, which includes the actual transcript...it happened on another site which allows you to save the transcripts of your chats...if there is enough interest, let me know, maybe I'll post the story here...
Later,
Alan.
Later,
Alan.
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Hey...I only tried cybering for the first time this past July...the morning of July 4th...I wrote a story around it, which includes the actual transcript...it happened on another site which allows you to save the transcripts of your chats...if there is enough interest, let me know, maybe I'll post the story here...
Later,
Alan.
Is the other party involved ok with you publishing the transcript? Sometimes it doesn't go down so well if the other person is unaware.
Gav - you're a disgrace!
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Elektra, tyou can save chats here on Lush chat rooms also, just right cick and save chat log, it opens as an html page, just save the page as an html document.
In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
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GAV that was just a big hit........haha
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Nicole don`t be mad it was funny....
and personally i never did cyber with anyone though tried once with a lady on lush but she didn`t had any picture or details of her...so she couldn`t turn me on....though i helped her cumm
that is what she said or typed and promised to get back to me with details and picture of her................am not sure about it but i think am not gonna try it any sooner........hahaha<class does matter>
.Nicole don`t be mad it was funny....
and personally i never did cyber with anyone though tried once with a lady on lush but she didn`t had any picture or details of her...so she couldn`t turn me on....though i helped her cumm
that is what she said or typed and promised to get back to me with details and picture of her................am not sure about it but i think am not gonna try it any sooner........hahaha<class does matter>
I Beleive IN STYLE not FASHION
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Beware DEVIL is here
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Yes Nicola...the screen name has been changed, and two lines have been omitted to protect the identity of the other party...who may or may not be on here...I'll never tell...
I'll submit it...I'm putting under straight sex...there is no letters and transcripts here...
Later,
Alan.
I'll submit it...I'm putting under straight sex...there is no letters and transcripts here...
Later,
Alan.
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Oh...and thank you Trinity...you are so very nice to me...
Alan.
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I've never done it, but I'd be willing to give it a go. I kind of like the sense of intimacy in a two way chat.
(Even though it's only in my head)
(Even though it's only in my head)
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Hey all...my cybersex story posted...'My First Time (Not what you think...or is it?)...it is the actual transcript minus two lines to protect the girl's identity and I corrected a couple of spelling errors that were real bad...but, otherwise it is the whole chat from 'hi' to 'thank you'...
Later,
Alan.
Later,
Alan.
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Cybering with the right person can be totally awesome. The chat script in my story Hubby's Special Present was an actual chat word for word except for the last 3 lines to tie it into the story. That was a chat I will never forget but what you didn't get to see was the conversation before I took over the chat as my pet's Mistress which was a lovely talk with a very good friend. Cybering involves much more than just getting off to me if done properly it can transport your mind to another place.
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I'm a pretty big fan of cybering, it's difficult typing with one hand, yes. BUT if I do it with the right person, it's sooooo lovely...
Have to agree with what Lydia said and many on Lush know that I have found that special someone and it is so much better to hear the persons voice then text brings a whole lot more emotion to it still cybering by text is great fun.
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