this can go for guys too.
Anway what are people's thoughts on cybering, is it fun? stupid? if you like it what kinds of people you like cybering with?
I'm not touching that one with a ten foot pole. LOL
Cybering is a big waste of time. If I am going to get myself off I would think it a great annoyance to have someone typing away at me and asking me all kinds of stupid questions. That would be like trying to take a relaxing bubble bath with 5 screaming kids pounding on the door...JUST LEAVE ME ALONE!! LMAO
Besides, trying to masturbate with one hand and type with the other is just too distracting and I wouldnt want my keyboard getting all sticky. And as far as Im concerned, its in the flesh or not at all. (And no, thats not an invite!)
I don't know if it's fun or stupid, it's just not something I have any interest in.
I think it works better as foreplay, at least it has in my relationships. If we couldn't see each other than talking dirty online would just make us that more hot for when we did see each other.
I did it a lot more when I was younger, in middle/high school and in college but not in a few years now. It can be fun sometimes.
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. I think cybering is a lot hotter than just reading erotic stories by oneself. It's the mind that's being seduced and someone with a facility for words can invoke responses more easily than can reading stories. What it takes, though, is someone who can not only form actual sentences, but also type them. Text-speak does not work for me. I don't think phone sex would work for me as I feel I write better than I speak. Also, it would probably make me laugh.
There are different degrees of cybering, though. In a virtual reality world in the form of sexy avatars, where one watches oneself having sex at the same time as writing seductive words, it can be very hot. It doesn't come close to real sex, but it comes closer to that than anything else does. Granted, it's just masturbation, but it's a great form of masturbation.
Ohhh text-speak??? I would so pay to see someone cyber with a text-speak software that sounds like those computer voice boxes from the 1980's... Win!
Imagine Johnny Five or something: "I am now touching your... Oh, baby, can you feel it, I am so hot for you, ohhh ahhh uhhh, my nipples are hard".
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. I honestly don't know what to think of it. I am yet to find that someone special to do it with and want to do it with. It could be just seen as fun role playing.
Yeah...it was a joke ;)
Who would actually want a robot talking sexy to them? LOL
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. I actually enjoy it when I've the time, usually when I am writing a story that involves sex will I cyber. I find it focuses my mind on the task at hand.
That being said, I am VERY picky about who I play with. And more often than not, I end up not cybering with someone I have chatted with.
The original poster asked about what kinds of people do you cyber with; and the best answer I can give is this. In a bar, or a library, or on the street. If a man walks up to me and he captures my attention; humour, wit, charm, intelligence etc... then yes, I would entertain the notion of sleeping with him after getting to know him better. If a man walks up to me in real life with (I always picture this in a deep agonising voice that makes me want to shove bamboo slivers under my finger nails) "Hey baby/hun/luv wanna fuck?" or something along those lines.... well my brain seems to stop working and my tongue gets the best of me and I give a pretty lecture. For me, its the same in the online. Capture my interest; I am yours. Bore me; I will just walk away.
Living life and enjoying life are two different things... just need to figure out how to do both at the same time to live it right!
Woman... GO FLY A KITE!!!!! Take a slideshow walk with me on a walk through the parks of Inner Mongolia, China. Then enjoy the tale of a very traditional day in the life of a white Woman in China. It can be fun, I haven't done cyber talk with anyone in about three years though, so I am kind of rusty at it lol. I don't think it's any different than talking dirty to your partner or phone sex with your partner or flirty online friends.
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- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av. I'm a pretty big fan of cybering, it's difficult typing with one hand, yes. BUT if I do it with the right person, it's sooooo lovely...
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Hey...I only tried cybering for the first time this past July...the morning of July 4th...I wrote a story around it, which includes the actual transcript...it happened on another site which allows you to save the transcripts of your chats...if there is enough interest, let me know, maybe I'll post the story here...
Later,
Alan.
Yes please Exakta. If you don't post it, would it be possible for you to send it to me via message. Always love your stories. Thanks..
Elektra, tyou can save chats here on Lush chat rooms also, just right cick and save chat log, it opens as an html page, just save the page as an html document.
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In order to know virtue, you must first become acquainted with vice.
- Donatien Alphonse Francois de Sade
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En vis mann slår aldri en hund i klubben med en stokk, fordi hunden vil vende rundt og biter mannens ballene av.
Purveyor of Poetry & Porn
Yes Nicola...the screen name has been changed, and two lines have been omitted to protect the identity of the other party...who may or may not be on here...I'll never tell...
I'll submit it...I'm putting under straight sex...there is no letters and transcripts here...
Later,
Alan.
Purveyor of Poetry & Porn
Oh...and thank you Trinity...you are so very nice to me...
Alan.
I've never done it, but I'd be willing to give it a go. I kind of like the sense of intimacy in a two way chat.
(Even though it's only in my head)
Purveyor of Poetry & Porn
Hey all...my cybersex story posted...'My First Time (Not what you think...or is it?)...it is the actual transcript minus two lines to protect the girl's identity and I corrected a couple of spelling errors that were real bad...but, otherwise it is the whole chat from 'hi' to 'thank you'...
Later,
Alan.
Cybering with the right person can be totally awesome. The chat script in my story Hubby's Special Present was an actual chat word for word except for the last 3 lines to tie it into the story. That was a chat I will never forget but what you didn't get to see was the conversation before I took over the chat as my pet's Mistress which was a lovely talk with a very good friend. Cybering involves much more than just getting off to me if done properly it can transport your mind to another place.
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