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69 - too distracting?

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allman69
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I actually enjoy it...I have had some of my best orgasms when he was deep in my throat, something about that drives me wild, he loves it too.
that is so fucking hot.
allman69
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that is so fucking hot.


I'm glad you like that, my sexy friend
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I personally do not prefer 69.
While the idea of it, the image of it are both arousing the act itself is not so much.
I find it diffracting, clunky and the position does not do it for me.
I much prefer to please my partner and then have him please me, or vice versa. To lay him back, or sit him up, get between his thighs and please him and only concentrate on this one act is what I prefer.
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I love the idea of it but also find it clunky...
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In simple words, it hard to find someone who can make it less distracting.
KellyC317
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One of the BEST orgasms I ever had was in 69. I admit, I was still fairly inexperienced and young. I was 18 and had a steady bf. We had been having sex for some time and I had several orgasms with him. On this occasion we just slipped into position. After a time he stopped and I told him I almost came. He said he did too. We decided to go for it and in just a few more minutes we came together. I have never had a 69 as great as that first one.

Having told you that story, in my golden days now, I prefer to work my man or let him work on me.
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Most of my 69 acts ends in laughter and ultimately nothing is achieved.... I'm not a fan of it as mutual orgasm has not been possible.... Moreover I've not found it sensual enough.... for me it's just a naughty act which ends in both of us rofl.... lol
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Distracting is a good word for it. Oral sex is amazing, but I love to concentrate on either giving my partner pleasure, or receiving it from them. Trying to do both simultaneously takes away from the experience for me. Normally, I'm a pretty good multi-tasker, but oral sex is one time where I like to slow down and enjoy either one, or the other.
Babys_safe_harbor
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I love treating it like a contest. Whoever can distract the other one enough from what they are doing to make them cum wins. But in such a game could there really be any losers?
With a whisper, a touch, a kiss,
I showed her the path,
She ran to the arms
Of baby's safe harbor.
mranonymous7
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I noticed one of your ladies responded to another post saying that she always found 69 too distracting to orgasm. I've always found the same thing ... erotic for a while, but then one of us would move so we could focus on making the other cum. Do you ever orgasm during 69?

I love 69 & I've never had any trouble cumming. whether with a guy or girl I prefer to be on the bottom.
YESYOUCAN
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To me it is the classic “pat your head and rub your tummy at same time game” I was never any good at it....sigh.....I will never be a drummer in a rock band.

Now get in a 4 way and girls go 69 and have 2 rods to come in now that is total overload where I can drift in and out of giving when someone else is driving me that I can do.
ChuckEPoo
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Well I'm obviously not a gal but a 69 for me is the least desirable sex act. I can't enjoy one thing without loosing tract of the other.
LovinTimeLiv
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I have a little mind game I like to play with myself when i am in a 69 with a girl who is giving a pussy licking. I close my eyes and picture myself licking my own cunt. tht is the pussy i am licking is my own. This works for me everytime. I bare down hard on her pussy and in return she usually does the same.

You should try this..I have cum so hard so often with this little trick of my sick perverted mind. Lol
redfox314
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I find the slight distraction useful. My wife becomes less predictable => more pleasure. She says the same.
Melissa999
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Distracting....from what ? Your brain is quite capable of doing many things at the same time.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


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Great part of the repertoire, but i understand completely the feeling it might be too much sometimes. But nope, not too distracting cuz (pretty much) that's why i'm there in the first place!
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Quote by Melissa999
Distracting....from what ? Your brain is quite capable of doing many things at the same time.


Yeah..what she said
GMOFLEISURE
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Any ladies here tried it with a second person penetrating your vagina? Penetrated and your clit licked at the same time?
Sallytheslut2
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For me it is a distraction. I preferr to focus on either giving or receiving
GMOFLEISURE
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Quote by LovinTimeLiv
I have a little mind game I like to play with myself when i am in a 69 with a girl who is giving a pussy licking. I close my eyes and picture myself licking my own cunt. tht is the pussy i am licking is my own. This works for me everytime. I bare down hard on her pussy and in return she usually does the same.

You should try this..I have cum so hard so often with this little trick of my sick perverted mind. Lol


Cute idea. I'll have to try it my self. Thx
dianne_19905
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This may sound very convoluted, but I find it a turn on, not for me, but for my partner. Must guys I have been with get really turned on by 69. When they cum in my mouth, I cum.


This is a huge "good for you". I'm envious. It is exactly when my man cums in my mouth that I get, well, distracted. Much too busy dealing with sperm to concentrate on what's happening between my legs. Again, I envy you.
Evie
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I love it. Not distracting at all.
Meggsy
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As my girlfriend and I are built the same way it is easy to emulate the stimulation the other is providing and return the pleasure in the same way. It all depends upon the way we go about it however we can usually read the signs and share a simultaneous orgasm.
With the guys we find it more distracting when they are doing one thing and you are enjoying it, and you cant return the stimulation the same way. 69 is not as popular with the guys for that reason and one on one is far more prevalent and enjoyable.
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I'm not sure distracting is the right word ( it may be). I know that does cause me to sort of lose focus ( which I guess is distraction). I prefer " May I go first?", satisfy my partner and then, perhaps, receive.
1nympholes
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If you have a hot guy, with a great mouth and tongue and sixty-nine is too distracting.

Please feel free to send him my way and I will take him for a test run and find out what you are talking about.
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I find it too distracting, I prefer to concentrate on giving.

Also the position is wrong for flicking my tongue on the underside of the tip which guys always love
MadMartigan
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This is why you 96 instead.
mranonymous7
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The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.

The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.

With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.


I've always had great success with 69 ...especially if I was on bottom...I've found that the ladies mouth action matched my tongue action...when she really got excited she'd start rubbing herself excitedly on my face & literally rub herself to a very powerful orgasm...& they would get so excited their mouth action would increase with their hip action on my face...often we'd go off at the same time...I've never been sure if her going off caused me to go off or my going off caused her to go off...it would happen so close together it would be too close to call...like all sex the lady is the key...she sets the tone....
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Quote by Dani
The idea of 69 is great, and it makes for a great aesthetic (try it in front of or under a mirror), but logistically, there's not much you can get out of it.

The positioning required for 69 isn't all that ideal for oral sex, plus in order to achieve orgasm, one partner will have to focus on the other, and there won't be much (if any) reciprocation.

With that being said, I've had orgasms from 69, but only when I basically stopped on my end of things while my partner focused on me.


This.