Depending on the characters I'm writing about, and the scene, I definitely do. More often than not.
If I do, I know I wrote the scene well!
Nope, I always notice the bits I'd have changed. I read it for its content when I read my own, not for pleasure.
Nah, they aren't that good...yet...
Only while I'm writing them
Reading can be sexually arousing, if the subject matter appeals to me. But writing stories really does it for me. Writing certain stories has pushed me to highs of arousal like nothing else before -- not even real-life sex.
Yes.
When writing. When editing. When rereading.
Yes, when thinking about the story, when writing, when editing, when re-reading, when copy and pasting it into the submission box, when seeing it on the site... but only then.
My stuff is all first person, and it's basically always some version of me as the narrator, so it's easy for me to fall into it and think of it as a fantasy. Maybe that doesn't always make for a great story, but I always think that if I can turn myself on by imagining something, it's at least got a chance of stimulating someone else. (And if not, I've turned myself on. Win win.)
I think it's the same if you write humor. If the goal is to make someone laugh, and you aren't laughing through the story yourself, you may be underselling your reader. That shouldn't override the writing itself, because you've got to glue it all together and make it believable and have pacing and so on... (that's my writing metaphor, to use glue)... But so yeah, my answer is: yes.
Yes I am reliving a life experience that was erotic to me.
No, when reading my own stories I find it hard to get out of the proofreading mentality. I will catch errors, or see something that I would have rather done differently.
I do when writing them and even before when thinking up the stories, coming up with the best lines or scenes. The work of writing tends to wash out the excitement for me though.
Of course....
if your own stories don't turn you on, then why would you write them?
I do whilst writing them as they often include elements of my fantasies or things I have experienced.
Absolutely! That's the foundation. My stories are based on fantasy, my own history, things l personally know, some l was told about, and sometimes set in a time or place that intrigues me. Arousal drives any sex scene l write.
While reading my own stuff? No, not usually. I’ve spent so much time looking at each and every line that it’s difficult to turn off the analytical side mind and immerse myself in the story. In a way, knowing that I wrote it makes all of the diaglouge sound wooden and plot feel contrived. Only when I’ve walked away for a very long time can I appreciate it as if it were someone else’s story but even then, I’m far from batting a thousand when it comes to being turned on by my own stuff, both stories published here and those not.
However, while writing? Yes. Hell yes. Often I become engrossed in the fantasy and spend in ordinate amounts of time in thought, brainstorming in vivid color all of the erotic things the characters are up to. It’s the reason why I work on exposition first and the ‘fun’ stuff after because otherwise I’d never get anything done.
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Occasionally. I often live the story in my mind as I am constructing it. Some of the detail I base on personal experiences and reliving some and the memories can get me quite hot.
Definitely as sometimes they bring back some wonderful memories.
At times. If I am trying to come up with lines.
With one story I wrote I was aroused and I wrote out exactly what I was doing and how I was feeling.
"Yeah, we all shine on, like the moon, and the stars, and the sun." John Lennon
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