“So tell me more about this Swingers Club,” said Paula idly as she nonchalantly played with herself, while also watching me do the same. She, Helen, and I were all lounging nude on my deck, soaking in some early Summer sunshine. It was mid-morning, building up to what would be another hot, Central Texas day. The mood was relaxed and lazy.
“There is a Swingers Club here in town,” I said, “It is a lot like going to a disco or nightclub, except that you may have the opportunity to watch people having sex, or even meet people for sex.” This concept was a bit over the top for both ladies to take in right away. But they were open to the discussion and curious to learn more.
In addition to Helen and Paula slowly moving forward over the past several months, finding more areas of their sexuality to explore as we played together, we also were able to try new horizons in nude living. Their introduction to the Naturist Lifestyle had been quickly embraced by both ladies.
Nearby to where we lived was a public Clothing Optional park that the three of us had visited a few times already. Hippie Hollow is a County Park where full nudity is allowed, one of the few of its kind in North America. Private CO parks are relatively common, but public nude parks are rare. While “Lewd Behavior” is prohibited there (true for all “Naturist Only” parks), it is frequented by a lot of Swinger Friendly folks.
When I first introduced the concept of the Swinger Lifestyle to them, Helen and Paula balked a bit. It was a difficult concept for them to wrap their minds around. It took a bit of discussion and visiting sites such as swingersboard.com, and listening to podcasts such as “We Gotta Thing”, to further their education. Diving into the Swinger Community brings with it a whole new language of terms and ideas that are completely foreign to most folks. When we got around to the part where the women basically have the power and drive the direction of play, they really got interested and were eager to know more.
Two of the top guiding principles of the “LS” (the Swinger Lifestyle) are that, “No means No,” and, “Never go faster than the slowest person present.” In other words, “no” is a complete sentence, and requires no explanation. And in any given situation, for any number of people, the limits or boundaries for activities rest with the comfort level of everyone present. For example, if group play is suggested, and one person in the group has a limit at soft-swap, then that is as far as the play session will go at that time.
Boundaries tend to change, but it is important for everyone to understand ahead of time what the limits are. It is worth noting that changing limits in the middle of play seldom yields good results. I coached them as well as I could, expanding their horizons and education.
Helen and Paula had come a long way since we first met. They got quite caught up in the newness and excitement of it all. First enjoying clothes-free living, followed quickly by a substantial awakening of their sexuality. Intrigued by the idea of recreational sex in groups, these ladies were eager to learn more.
The ladies agreed that they both enjoyed and appreciated our visits to Hippie Hollow Park. A purely Socially Nude environment that they had now become quite accustomed to. There had also been the opportunity to meet and speak to some folks at HHP who were also active in the Swinger Lifestyle. They were pleasantly surprised at how friendly and easygoing they were.
“One thing I was not expecting was for these Swinger folks to seem so much like anyone else I might meet at a party or social gathering,” said Helen.
“I agree,” countered Paula, “They seem like normal everyday kind of folks. Not pushy or sleazy at all!”
I went on to reinforce the idea that in most cases that was true, but that it was also important to know what your boundaries are, communicate that, and stick to them (at least for that session/meeting). As in all walks of life, not everyone strives to be ethical. (Prudence and good judgment are always required.)
They did not seem all that keen on visiting the Swingers Club in town right away, but I also knew of a Swinger Friendly nude park about an hour and a half's drive south of where we lived. That sounded like a much easier environment for them, so we soon were making plans for a day trip there.
On the day of the outing, I was sure to have a go-kit packed with plenty of condoms, lube, and a few toys. The ladies were almost giddy with excitement as we made the drive to the resort. Along the way, I asked if there were any fantasies or scenarios that they were particularly interested in. The discussion after that wandered around a bit. It was clear that they had a few ideas, but were hesitating to express them fully.
Watching sounded like a popular list item. So did Outdoor Sex. Participating in Group Play was another contender, but there was for sure some hesitation around that. At one point Helen jokingly said, “Well, I certainly hope that there are plenty of hard cocks to play with.” At another point, Paula expressed an interest in Double Penetration, or even being Airtight, which led to quite a lengthy discussion for all three of us.
“How does that actually work?” and so forth.
Shortly after we got parked all three of us were naked, full of excitement, and headed out to explore the facility. Folks were very friendly and welcoming. This facility on the surface looked like any average Naturist Resort, but the addition of also being a Swinger Resort added a twist for sure. It was the first time that Helen and Paula were presented with the opportunity to meet face-to-face with folks actively engaged in the Swinger Lifestyle, in a location where follow-through was a strong possibility.
We toured the main facility which included a pool, snack bar, clubhouse, volleyball courts, some open fields, and a nice network of trails. The field adjacent to the pool area had a series of cabanas around it, nestled just off the edge of the field, in the woods. One of the trails was outside of all this, connecting all the cabanas, which were basically covered platforms with beds and side tables.
Each side of the cabanas had a sheer curtain on it, which could easily be adjusted as fully open or drawn. The staff was very attentive and efficient. Everything looked quite clean and well cared for.
As we walked around we were able to briefly speak to several couples who were extraordinarily kind and helpful. We eventually decided to start by visiting the pool area for a while. It was about mid-morning, with a long mid-summer day ahead of us. The deck was spacious and lounge chairs were plentiful, with a few canopies for shade around the edges. In no time at all, we were all chatting with folks nearby. A threesome with two ladies was for sure an attraction.
I sat in the middle, with Helen to my left, and Paula to my right, who was actively engaged in a conversation with Alice and Bill, some new-found friends that we had met earlier on our initial walk. Helen was busily chatting with Meghan and Robert.
We soon found out that both these couples were regulars here, and had played together in the past. I would guess that most of the folks there were somewhere between thirty-five to fifty in age. That put Helen and Paula at the upper end of the age spectrum, but they were still getting plenty of attention, and loving it!
Conversations soon turned to sexual topics. Fantasies were explored, and past adventures were revisited. Things were moving along in an excellent direction. While couples were the most common arrangement at the resort, single males were permitted with references. Single ladies (Unicorns) were rare but possible among the crowd. By lunchtime, we were joined by Luke (a guest of Alice and Bill), a massive black man who looked like an NFL Linebacker (which he indeed turned out to be), and Owen (a guest of Meg and Rob).