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whenilike
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 36
0 miles · Colorado

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Yes, in my early years of college. My best friend and a girl I was dating. Not going to lie, during the experience I enjoyed it quite a bit. Afterwards not so much. My girlfriend and I enjoyed the experience but never felt the need/want to do it again, at least with another guy.
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123, many many times. 4 only one time with a transwomen if you want to count that. Haven't had the opportunity for the rest. Haven't been pursuing it, but depending on the situation may be open to it.
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Thank you everyone, there was some good advice here. Others not so much. I have nothing against gays and lesbians as I consider myself bi-sexual. I wrote to point out she is in other relationships besides with my friend. I do not know if they have talked about being exclusive with each other which is where some good advice came in. I was distressed over this since he is a good friend and I would rather not see him hurt, But the advice has been consistent to stay out of it.
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So a friend of mine is dating my sister in-law and he is getting played. My sister in law admits to my wife she constantly goes out with other guys trying to find mr right. I'm also beginning to think she's lesbian or at least bi since she is spending a considerable amount of time with a female coworker who is lesbian. should I tell him he's getting played? If you were in his position would you want to know about her going out with other guys and girls?
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I've always been a little curious about gloryholes, but have never been in a position to indulge. I admit a little put off with the possibilities of std. I think the draw is the anonymity from both a straight and gay perspective. I have noticed it seems more are poping up at least in my state.
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City park baseball diamond - outfield & dugout
City park parking lot - had an audience of teenagers who caught us
Riverwalk trail
Dorm room shower- with her roommates in the next room
Middle of a well known hiking trail
During work in a Railroad Caboose

If I was a better writer, i'd have some good stories.
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Ditto what everyone has said. Based on my experience, and my advice, take your time with her, make sure she is fully aroused and relaxed. Start with your fingers and lots of lube. Stimulate her clit at the same time and it will become easier and the process will be shorter (Me, I like giving oral so I licked her clit). Remember this, it isn't a one time thing where you do it once and she's fully ready every subsequent time, its a process and will likely take several attempts until your successful. However, if you take your time and make sure she's fully aroused, you may find her begging for some backdoor action.
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I find it very difficult to trust someone after they have cheated. An Ex cheated on me and I never forgave her, or trusted her even though we tried to keep the relationship going. another time I found my wife flirting with an old friend the week before our wedding. I made sure the whole episode ended, but it took me a couple years to trust her again. Still I don't completely trust, but have been able to move on.
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Yes I remember her from time to time. We were off and on all through high school. Her family situation had her constantly moving from place to place. Whenever she would move back to my area we would start dating again and when she would move away we'd always try the long distance. We graduated in separate parts of the state and I never saw her again. We Facebook-ed a couple times in college, but stopped talking when we both got into separate serious relationships. I last heard from a cousin of mine that she lives in Hawaii. Although I never made it past second base with her, I have some fond memories and she will always be my "what if"
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Since my wife and I first started dating, I've always slept on the right side. Don't really know why. She's just always jumped on the left side and me I the right. Funny thing is that before I met her I always slept on the left side.
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Not always daily, but as often as I can. It's a good stress reliever.
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I think if she was open about and didn't try to hide it from me, I'd be ok with it. However, I do think it would be fair for me to know, I would be concerned about stds, and so that in the relationship I wouldn't be the unknowing butt of all jokes.

As for after our relationship started, I'd be against one. My opinion it's just not my cup of tea.
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I don't think it's about the number of partners a girl has that makes them a slut (unless they self identify based on that). I think it's about presentation. How does a woman act regardless of the number of partners. I seen some pretty slutty (my label, sorry) women who have only been when a couple guys. I'm also friends with some very classy women who have had multiple partners. It's also all about self identification. Do women like the term and how it's used on them. Depending on the person the term can be very derogatory and uncalled for at one time, but at others (with the right person) it can be ok.
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I've done that once when I took my wife with me to a conference in DC. I sneaked out for a quickie with her in our room. We were both hot and really horny. After we or both went off, without thinking I went down on her and started round two. Needless to say I never made it back to the conference that afternoon. That was a couple years ago. At the time it was a huge turn on. I have thought about doing it again since, but loose my motivation when it comes down to it. I think if I'd get to that same state of mind again, I would.
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I would want to see legend of dragoon come out again. Maybe with a massive mutliplayer world, but I would be happy just with it being remastered.
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By far prefer RPGs, but love when they have some elements of shooters. I want a good story that I can play through.
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Yes, several times actually. Back college my girlfriend (now wife) was very much the exibitionist. We got caught by teenagers at the diamond in city park. Strangers on the backroad and local river walk. We were lucky enough that when a cop showed up we had just finished a few times. Those were some fun times being young dumb and crazy. Loved it.
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I don't do well with demands, so that would be a no for me. Depending on the reasons and after we have talked about it, I may be ok if she asks. I've been cheated on a few times and it's not an experience I'm willing to do again, but if we set up boundaries and I have full knowledge, maybe.
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Honestly, not a turn on when I see other women. However, when my wife was pregnant, it was a turn on. She tended to be constantly in the mood and who am I to deny her. Lol
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Needs to be at least trimmed. Makes it much easier to go down on her!
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Love the look of a naked women, but lingerie is very appealing. I always ask my wife to model for me when she gets something new.
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I would watch her to completion. I think it's really arousing and intimate. I used to watch her all the time, now she's more private.