In general it's good to picky, but I would moderate that by saying, "be picky... after you have enough information".
Sometime people are picky based on first impressions, but in the real world the first impressions are not always great. So you can end up ruling people out as not being up to your standard without giving them a fair crack.
So my rule would be: Maintain your high standards, but only decide when you know them well enough!
I recently posted a story (The Warm-up Service) about a wife getting oral sex from another man and using it as foreplay for later action with her husband.
I got thinking about how likely this scenario would be in real life. I suspect not very common, as if there is oral, in most cases it would probably lead on to intercourse with the same man. On the other hand, I suspect many guys out there (me included) would be only too willing to perform oral only if that's what the lady wanted.
Obviously many relationships are totally committed and in such cases any outside sexual activity may not be wanted... but leaving that aside, then from the woman's perspective, such a scenario offers some advantages:
- the pleasure of relaxing and focussing on your own pleasure without needing to worry about reciprocation
- probably a bit less "bad" than an all-out affair
- the fun and adventure of experiencing a new man, but with minimal health risks
Even for single girls, perhaps there are some who get off more from oral than intercourse, such an arrangement might have its benefits.
On the other hand, perhaps it would feel too much like unfinished business, and it would be better to have the full "package".
Interested to know your thoughts.
I don't dislike getting oral sex, I get more of a thrill from giving than receiving.
I am not a fan of them, although a small one on the arm or ankle is fine. The fewer the better though.
I suspect that girls like them more than guys, perhaps seeing them as self-expression, making them appear a more interesting person. But guys tend to more interested in girls' natural beauty, and too many tatts get in the way of that.
