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Over 90 days ago
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United Kingdom
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It sounds more like a FWB situation, but more complicated. As you've been seeing each other for a while,
it might be wise to sit down and talk about it before the lines really do blur. The fact that she has a child (who you hardly see)
changes things. I think children need a steady influence in their lives. You say that you date, and the sex is hot.
The sex may cool at some point, and what are you left with? You could remain FWB's without the dating,
but there's always the risk that she'll still be expecting more from you. Whatever you decide, good luck.
it might be wise to sit down and talk about it before the lines really do blur. The fact that she has a child (who you hardly see)
changes things. I think children need a steady influence in their lives. You say that you date, and the sex is hot.
The sex may cool at some point, and what are you left with? You could remain FWB's without the dating,
but there's always the risk that she'll still be expecting more from you. Whatever you decide, good luck.
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My lush activity has never been hidden, I just didn't share the fact I wrote erotic stories. I'm proud of them, I don't want to hide them. He knows I visit Lush and trusts that I'm not getting into anything I shouldn't be. Plus, there's nothing in my stories he didn't already know about me.
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In the beginning it was a huge thrill as I was new to erotic story writing. When I go
back, I find there are still certain stories and particular scenes that stimulate my erogenous
zones. After proofing, editing, etc, I trusted that my first instincts were correct.
back, I find there are still certain stories and particular scenes that stimulate my erogenous
zones. After proofing, editing, etc, I trusted that my first instincts were correct.
Active Ink Slinger
I haven't found a link between the two, but for me sex drive has been something I’ve had to nurture. Becoming sexually informed has certainly helped. Background played a part in sex being seen as something that went on behind closed doors, and wasn’t really spoken about. When I turned 40, I couldn’t really ignore it any more. It was telling me what to do, lol. Having a willing partner who recognises this inner need is a massive advantage I've discovered. 
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I was in my early twenties before I started drinking on a regular basis. During the years there’s been phases when I’ve stopped completely (the longest being a two year spell) and I’ve not had a drink now for ten months. This came about because the day (or days) afterwards were completely lost. My motivation for stopping was my health, and I’ve definitely seen an improvement, though perhaps not to begin with. Stopping wasn’t particularly difficult; I just found a new routine. I feel better for it, and more like my old self.
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When I was younger there always seemed to be porn magazines around, though not in my own household. It was a daring pursuit for my friends and I to borrow a few and go someplace quiet to look at the pictures, I can’t ever remember reading the stories at that point. Then during a holiday when I was about 16 y/o I bought a Harold Robbins paperback and got totally hooked. Since then I’ve always sought out authors who have an inclination for the shock factor, and for torrid sex scenes. When I found Lush back in 2009 it opened up a whole new reading experience. I have to say, I’ve been captivated.