Know you're not the only one out there in the same situation. I too have been married 26 years and have noticed our sex drives head in opposite directions as well. Though we don't work together, we've both kept in pretty good shape with all our after work activities. My misses says she enjoys sex, but I question why one doesn't pursue something they enjoy more often. Like yourself, I don't like being the only one to bring it up after "enduring". I'm a touchy feely guy, always hugging and caressing when we're together. My wife has told me it doesn't matter how many times we "do it" I'd always want more. I wonder when that became a bad thing in our relationship.
I appreciated reading the responses. I think "Sprite's" well thought out response hit's the nail on the head. A healthy relationship meets on common ground. Since making love, and sometimes just fucking should be a part of feeling close with your partner this is going to keep coming up. I haven't found the answer to the riddle yet, but I'll keep trying.
I prefer giving oral before sex. Unfortunately over the years my Misses gets too sensitive after her first orgasm so once she gets warmed up she wants me inside of her. I miss getting her off orally.
I'd have to guess it brings him back to his own breastfeeding days. A security blanket feeling/connection with his mother. Whether or not his mother actually breastfed him part of him misses that connection.
All the smells produced by sex are a turn on for me. So no problem here.
Will vote for the baby oil HJ please.
I'm not sure I understand the question. Is this without touching yourself? That would be something. If touching was allowed then, yes, I have found several great stories that really did it for me and I just had to get off.
I've no problem with it. A folded towel helps keep the sheets clean. When my wife & I were dating she had no problem with me going down on her or intercourse during her "special" time of the month. Now she seems turned off by the mess. I'm still good to go, but it take two to tango.....
Chest if I'm laying on my back. Tissue if I'm standing.
No problem with that here. It's nice that she feels comfortable enough with me to do that in front of me.
That's a plus. Keeps things interesting & fun like back in the dating days.
I've always preferred a nice butt.
Yes, definately. Would prefer post shower/bath, but if I'm worked up that wouldn't be essential.
I'm going to have to guess that it's a trust thing. Personally, I prefer cumming inside my partner. When we were dating I'd pull out for birth control purposes. I'm going to have to say your partners don't want to risk child support.
I certainly not against, it but I prefer giving to getting.
I think it's perfectly normal. You're only related through your parents, otherwise you're just two people meeting through extraordinary circumstances. I've a friend who married his. The same thing happens with reuniting brothers and sisters who's been separated for whatever reason.
Have never tasted my cum. As far as anal play, I tried it to see if it would enhance the masterbation sensation. Didn't work out the way I hoped, but I had to try. I wouldn't have a hang up if my lady tried going there during a session, but nothing thus far.
Love'm, but I've only worn them on my head.
