Quick back story. My mom got divorced. She remarried and her new husband had a daughter making her my new step-sister. Anyway I was "in love" with my new step-sister and developed some strong feelings. We slept together once and it was akward. So my question for y'all is this: Is it okay to have feelings for/
sleep with a step-sister? Btw this was before I met my S.O. And no, I have not slept with her since in case you were wondering.
i don't believe that qualifies as the 'I' word, and i don't think it's that unnatural - a sexy girl moves into your house, you're not related, you see a lot of each other in more intimate settings then you would most girls your age, yeah, i'd say it was perfectly natural. of course, as you said, moving on those feelings could be awkward.
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My grandfather re-married when all his children were grown and my dad went on to marry his step-sister (both couples still married).
It all comes down to age: how old were you when the two families merged? If you were raised from children under the same roof and treated practically as brother and sister then there are issues (in fact, it's illegal in Scotland).
If you were both, say, teenagers and started to have feelings for each other, it's probably understandable. With adults, no foul.
I have a step-sister and I've known her pretty much all my life. I think of her now as my sister, and I am an uncle to her son. It would be morally questionable for me to now have a relationship with her (even though we weren't raised under the same roof).
Grey area.
I have had a step sister since like the 5th grade and I have wanted her since like 7th or 8th grade. A few years ago we both admitted to each other that we wanted each other and started to have a relationship but I think it was still in her head that I was her brother cause it kinda freaked her out a lil when we would start kissing. We only lasted like 2-3 weeks and then she started dating someone else while we were still together. Never did have sex with her.
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@Sprite: Thanks.
@Clum: Thanks as well. I was 19 when my mom got remarried and my new step-sister was 17. The AOC varies depending on what state u are in.
What if it happened in the reverse order?? You met a girl. Her mum was single, as was your dad. They met through you guys at some stage while you were dating and decided to marry shortly after. I dont see an issue either way. You're not related through blood. Its a little strange and awkward, but perfectly ok morally the way I look at it. Actually, its just too easy and convenient. I say continue seeing her, but keep it under wraps for a bit. You dont want to cause an issue with your parents and piss them off.
I think it's perfectly normal. You're only related through your parents, otherwise you're just two people meeting through extraordinary circumstances. I've a friend who married his. The same thing happens with reuniting brothers and sisters who's been separated for whatever reason.
Yes, and she is FUCKING GREAT!
hey....you know greg slept with marcia. just sayin.
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Not a problem really, she wouldnt be blood related, so why not?
I hate loath and detest my step sister so I would never have to worry about it!!
There is nothing wrong with just having feelings for her. Sleeping with her depends on a myriad of social and psychological factors which some of the other members have already brought up. At this point, just take it as an experience in your life that came along and is now in the past. I wouldn't feel bad about it if I were you.
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