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Sara - You missed a very important detail in your explanation. Are you attracted to this guy? and what do you want to do with him? You've seen him naked, so you should have figured out whether you think he is hot or not. If you are really that conservative, just tell him you aren't interested in that. Honestly though you are probably better off messing around with him than someone your own age. Teenaged boys (early 20s too) are notoriously bad in bed and older guys should know what they are doing. As long as you don't look like a kid there is nothing wrong with him having the hots for you and if you like him he would probably be a good person to help you figure out what you like.

Everyone else - There are lots of high school seniors over 18 and many Juniors too. I was 17 in college, so level of education isn't close to being a definite way to judge age. Since she is on lush we should assume she is old enough to be here, until proven otherwise.

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Corsets or silky nighties, preferably no panties.

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My friend and me take our swimsuits off in the backyard for lotion and a nextdoorboy plays basketball but he looks through the cracks in the fence and we could hear him rubbing his d1ck/p3n1s and breathing lol! I speak to him sometimes when he is playing basketball, i crawl up on the fence and he is nice but i wear my bikini top but one day i spoke to him without bottoms on but he couldn't see

hmmmm why'd you censor the word dick and penis?

Its not easy to talk/type about.

then why be on this site, if that's one of the things this site is about? the word dick is going to be all over this website.

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Anyone consider that she might be a fake trying to get attention? The entire scenario reads like a setup to a lush "Taboo" story...

Add that to her answer on the "would you watch your mate masturbate" topic and the sexy (and barely legal if we believe her age/sex) profile pic.

I smell a troll or at least a guy...

Just my two cents...

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You certainly can't control the penis or the brain chemicals that control it. Hell, you can't control his thoughts. But its "jumping up" is not necessarily a sign that he thinks you're going to be doing anything sexual. If he behaves, that's all that counts. But it sounds like if you two ever do decide to have sex, he will be overcome with desire for you.

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I get the feeling from your posts that you aren't 18... if that's the case you need to delete your profile until you are. This is an adult site.

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My friend and me take our swimsuits off in the backyard for lotion and a nextdoorboy plays basketball but he looks through the cracks in the fence and we could hear him rubbing his d1ck/p3n1s and breathing lol! I speak to him sometimes when he is playing basketball, i crawl up on the fence and he is nice but i wear my bikini top but one day i spoke to him without bottoms on but he couldn't see

hmmmm why'd you censor the word dick and penis?

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The old guy just wants to have sex with her. That's all. It's simple. If she's 18 she can do whatever she wants. But he ain't looking for love just sex.

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Well, looks like I am arriving a little late to the party...

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Instead of dealing with the messy clean-up (I'm sure this thread will be bulldozed eventually), let's get back to the original question and pretend that we know for certain that Sara is of age. Even if she is not, I'm sure lecherous single dads preying on teenage babysitters can cause a bit of a pickle for many others who might benefit from this advice. It's easy enough to say, come on now Sara, just avoid his pickle and be done with it, but let's explore this situation a little further.

Sara said:

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I am in my last year of high school and i started babysitting for money because we know some single parents.
This guy i babysit for is chatty and he talked about how he go to nude beaches and a nudist camp.
I agreed with his ideas about nudism and then he asked if i want to go with him to this nude beach to try.
So we went and its really unique/fun but i am a bit suspicious of if he wants me to be his girl because of something, and i don't know what i should do
Boyfriends are my age always except he is double my age!
Thanks.

I see many things wrong with this scenario. First this man is twice your age, in a position of authority (your boss), and obviously making sexual advances or flirting because you are suspicious he wants you to be "his girl". Trust me, he isn't looking for a teenage girlfriend or future mother of his child. He's looking to get laid. Many young girls feel flattered when an older, experienced man shows them attention. These guys tend to know all the right tricks to say to bolster your self-esteem and tell you how smart/beautiful/special you are and how dumb boys your own age are and how they don't understand you or treat you the way you should be treated. Men like this see an easy target and they zero in on them. They will feed you whatever they think you want or need to hear in order to close the deal. It's exceedingly rare when a grown man who has been married and has had children can really see anything particularly relationship-worthy in a girl that is still in highschool, no matter what he tells you or tries to hint at. There is also that pesky little thing called statutory that he might want to be made aware of.

So my opinion, dear Sara, is that this 'man' is a predatory pervert looking to fulfill his favorite 'barely legal' babysitter fantasy and working you every step of the way.

Usually when they say "let's hit the nude beach" and play Taylor Swift CDs for you to set the mood on the ride, chances are good that he's going to make the big move sooner than later.

My advice would be to avoid him at all costs and don't listen to any attempts he makes to 'woo' you... unless all you want is a quick shag with an old man, of course.

Now it's back to the party, boys and girls. Line up the tequila shots so that I can catch up, please...

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I am in my last year of high school.

Are you even old enough to be here then?

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I think what you should do is pretty obvious... You should 'date' him but like make sure he gives you plenty of gifts like money and eventually a car. You can use these things to have fun with your other boyfriends your own age.

That sounds a bit 'out there', but maybe. Hard to tel what is 'normal' because i'm pretty conservative

It's not out there at all! I'm sure he would be just fine with this kind of arrangement. You come over and 'take care of the kid' know what I'm sayin? Then he pays you for it and then you're on your way. Everybody wins! You can have fun little nude trips where he looks all cool with some young stuff and you get out of the house a bit. I was conservative at your age too, well maybe by 18 not so much but that conservatism fades anyway. Might as well jump into the adult world already.

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I think what you should do is pretty obvious... You should 'date' him but like make sure he gives you plenty of gifts like money and eventually a car. You can use these things to have fun with your other boyfriends your own age.

That sounds a bit 'out there', but maybe. Hard to tel what is 'normal' because i'm pretty conservative

If you're "pretty conservative" now as a high school senior nudist, I'd really like to meet you when you let loose in college!

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I think what you should do is pretty obvious... You should 'date' him but like make sure he gives you plenty of gifts like money and eventually a car. You can use these things to have fun with your other boyfriends your own age.